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im adina and im sixteen. ive learned to live around the fact that life sucks sometimes, and i'm here to help you figure out the way. =]

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Ok well I've liked this boy for some time now. Like 6 years. I just dont know what to do I think he likes me but not sure. We were best friend but we both went to new schools this year and well we kind of arnt that close anymore. I still get that butterfly feeling in my stomach everytime he calls me or I see him but I just dont know what to do. I'm way to chicken to tell him I like him or to ask him our so dont even think about telling me to do that. Also I dont have anyfriend that are close to him to tell him. I just dont know what to do so please help me!!! I rate 5 for good answers!!!

call him and talk to him. not telling you to call him every 10 minutes, but just more than you usually do. hang out with him and ask him about what he thinks of you. you're eventually going to have to tell him how you feel, it's usually the only way to get things done. sorry if i didn't give you the advice you wanted, but it's my opinion on what you should do. good luck ♥adina

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hi my name is jess i recently broke up with my b.f tony and wel he went to a party like a week after we broke up and hooked up with a friend of mine. i still like him and i cried when i heard what happened. i cnt take it anymore. how can i get over him. please help me ill rate 5's
--jess

i've had to go through that so many times, im sorry! it really hurts but you can get over it even if it takes a while. just go hang out with your girls, keep your mind off of guys right now. you don't have to rush things and go looking for guys because it'll just make getting over your ex harder. have girl nights, go shopping with girls, etc. and for a while don't look for guys.. let them come to you. deal? good luck and hope you feel better. ♥adina

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Its a long story but I'll just ask my question.

this guy I liked told me that he used to like me, but he talks to me about the girl he likes now and asks me if she likes him, well when he told me he used to like me I almost said something. but then he said "but then I thought that could never happen" AND YES IT DEF. COULD!! so what can I do OTHER than the obvious, which is telling him how I feel, which I will do if worst comes to worst.

THANKS!

if you don't tell him that you like him more than just a friend he's going to keep looking at you as just a "friend". you have to speak up girl if you want things to happen, no matter how hard it is. ♥adina

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well in sixth grade i was a complete loser, i mean ugh i had really curly hair and wore it in a bun, and i wore big clothes. like i didnt even care. and i liked this guy A LOT. his name was david, and like he didnt like me at all. and he hated me in seventh grade. and we havent seen eachother in a year. untill saturday night. and when he saw me. he kept looking at me. and like we cuddled or whatever. and he said he liked me. but like i dunno. sixth grade was weird for both of us. and ive changed A LOT since then. and i just wanna know should i give it a chance?

definetly give him a chance, don't hold the past against him. yeah he should have given you a chance back in sixth grade, but guys get older and change too. there's no reason why you shouldn't go for it. ♥adina

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how do i get in your pants? seriously

uh you figure that out on your own ♥adina

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14/f boyfriend 15
me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three mouths and we still havent kissed. we havent even done anything outside of school.im starting to think that he's prude. what should i do? should i kiss him? if so should i kiss him on the lips or on the cheek? also i dont think he's ever kissed a girl before so i will be his first kiss. please help me because i really dont like going out with people and not being able to kiss them or make out with them. it bugs me when i see other people kissing in the hallway.

haha, stop hesitating and just kiss the guy on the lips already. it's going to happen for him sooner or later, so just help him out. but keep in mind that kissing doesn't make the relationship so if he doesn't want to, don't force him. it shouldn't matter, but i understand how you probably feel. just make the first move k? ♥adina

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17/f My boyfriend of 4 months doesn't ask me to hang out as much as he used to. We used to see eachother 3 times a week, and now its only once or twice, and I feel like most of the time I'm the one asking him to hang out. I feel like he's afraid that his friends will think he is pussy-whipped. However he still says really sweet things to me all the time, like how much he misses and loves me (but he never says them in person, only over text or AIM). Is he getting bored with me or what? I'm so confused..

it's not that he's getting bored with you, he just might need time to himself. i'm not trying to say that ya'll need to break up but don't hang out as much for a while. let him hang out with his friends without you and you should do the same. yeah you may miss him, but time away from each other will help increase each others feelings. and the possiblity of him not wanting his friends to think he's pussy-whipped could be another problem. it's pathetic but normal for guys now a days. just don't let that discourage you and talk to him about how you feel. he's your boyfriend after all, and you should be able to share your problems with him. ♥adina

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Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.

But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.

How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.

Help equals instant 5.

well ask him for his number or his aim, that way you can talk to him outside of school. also, you should probably let him know you're into him because he could just be clueless. this will help him look at you as more than just any other girl and possibly help him open up to you. you should definetly open up to him also (don't cross the line though by telling him very personal things), but things like "we'll me and my mom got in a fight today and this is what happened.." just little things like that will help you talk to him better. another problem could be that you just get nervous. brush it off take a breath and just go for it. even if you don't get what you want, atleast you tried and you won't be in this situation. ♥adina

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