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Okay, so i met this guy on july fourth and ever since then we've been hecka tight. like we hang out all the time and stuff, and we're pretty muchly best friends. So like 4 of my friends like him. And so i asked him who he liked and i thought it would be one of them.. but then he goes and says that it's me and he was totally serious. And, i hope he wasn't just being friends with me cause he liked me. I mean, i just like him being there as my best friend. I don't know i told him and everything and he was like oh don't worry that doesnt hurt my feelings i know were hecka good friends and stuff.. and then we just talked for a couple hours last night about just regular stuff.. was that the right thing for me to do? i mean.. i told him the truth. (link)
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yes! it was an excellent thing for you to do! its fine to tell him the truth honesty is the best policey..love it! hope that helps..rate if i did
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okay so my bday partywas this sat. and i had a big chance to kiss the guy i like but there was a lot of little kids including his lil sis and we just didnt do it and no i regret he said next time we see each other but i wanted it to be on my bday party and i dont think we will be seeing each other till like another 3 weeks and i miss him. i cant find no way to make me feel better any help please dont make me feel any worse:( (link)
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well just talk to him on the phone and stuff and just get to know/talk to him more and it will mean more when you kiss him because you will want to do it more..you knoww? hope it helps, rate me if u wanna
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So, okay..to make a long story short. I'm 18, and recently was at a party, and had sex with this guy. For the first time, ever. We've been hanging out a lot lately, but it's only ever at a party. We don't always have sex. But, the last time we did, he stayed with me all night and cuddled. He tells me that he loves me. He says that he does because, he's lonely and I make him feel good, and that he has a lot to offer. He also says that it hurts when I don't say anything back. Which, I have huge issues with trust, and I'm not a complete moron. I'm a bit skeptical of it. He was in a relationship for two years, and it's been almost a year since they've broken up. The girl will fuck with his head and lead him on. He bitches about her a lot. So, I haven't really worked up the nerve to be like, "Hey..is this going anywhere, or do you still like her?" I know it's what I need to do. I was just wondering, if anyone else thinks that I'm just getting used, or if it seems like he does care for me, he's just afraid. He does say himself that he has trust issues, because she dumped him and started messing around with his friend. We sort of got in an argument last night, because I asked him, "Why don't you trust me?" And he just got up and left. WTF? I hate mind games. Someone help!!! (link)
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sorry hunn, but i think your just a rebounder. I think he fell in love with the fact of falling in love which does happen alot of the time. And i also think hes not over that girl because he bitches about her alot, that also means that hes thinking about her and i mean idk about the trust issues because i need to know more but maybe he doesnt trust you because of his other relationship. But in the long run idk what you should do.. follow what you think you wanna do. Hope that helps..rate me if you wanna
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I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks! (link)
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yea i know what you mean, i really love this guy and hes only my friend too the only advice i can give you from personal experience is never give up if you think shes the one because if you do its just gonna be a waste of time for you and your gonna just kick yourself in the ass, i know this girl that liked this guy for 2 years and they went out because the guy finally realized they were ment for eachother, i would push it with this girl if its ment to be like you said then it will happen. But give it time. Dont be all clingy to her and asking her out every 5 seconds because girls dont like that, they get annoyed easily. So just be yourself and never give up..
hope that helps..
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i'm going with this boy who is the hottest boy in school. he could get any girl he wanted with the snap of his fingers. but he chose me, which is hardly believable. he gave up fooling around with every girl he wants to with no strings attached, to have a relationship with me. how can i make him see he made the right choice, and that girls aren't just objects, and they need to be respected? (link)
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Show him how to have a good time with one girl, show him that its nice to have a relationship and not just a zillion of them. If u really like him then make him feel good about himself and how the relationship is, its prolly gonna be hard. But i know you'll figure it out :-)
hope that helps!!
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okay well me and this guy have been "together" all summer... but were not really goin out... its wierd tho, he seems like he likes me one day and the next he wont talk to me... everytime i confront him he makes up some excuse like i had to go to the doctor, or i had to go shower... but ive kinda gotten fed up with it! hes really sweet and i really like him... but should i just stop talkin to him, or try and keep are relationship togteher and til we can move it further?? please help! (link)
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dump him! if hes doing that to you then theres something wrong, see what he does when you stop talking to him, maybe he will call you or sumthing. But i know that theres a better person out there for you that will call you and wont make up excuses! promise!
hope it helps!
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My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice. (link)
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okay, deffintaly go for this one!! i wouldnt be afraid of getting hurt because you never know this could lead to sumthing good and its just going to hurt you more to see him around and stuff and know hes not yours. I dont think you should keep yourselfs a secerate because those relationships dont work out well, believe me! they always get out anyways. I would also deffinatly tell him girl friend about you two, because its not right to her and its gonna hurt her either way because shes gonna find out one way or another..haha
hope it helpss!!!
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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you know what would be really cute, is a dinner at a nice place like, lets say applebees, i dont know if you know the place but when its your birthday at applebees they sing you a song and you get a free icecream or sumthing, if you went to a place that did sumthing like that for him, that would be cute! or you could just have it simple, your house with a cake and a few old friends over just to show you care about him. But the one thing that really shows you care is a suprise party, it doesnt have to be big and fancy, but it does show you really care!
I hope it helps!!
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Can anyone give me any tips on flirting but nothing too bold because I am quite shy.
will rate high for good answers. (link)
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yes! i can give you tips! but you have to be friends with the person to flirt! just let you know because if you are the things that i tell you will work out better!
easy onesss..
laugh..but not too much like a hyeena er w.e!
smilee at him/her just to put a good feeling in the room.
make sure you dont feel unconfortable [your shyness] with anything, that feeeling rubs off on people
try to hang around the person you like but dont be too attachy!
make sure you loook cute, its shallow to think, but that can always give you a thumbs up while u flirt.
and remeber to let your true self show!
those are just the basics for you because you told me you were quite shy, if you need more leave me something.
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16/F (I'm a waitress..)
There's this guy from work that I like, and I'm not sure if he likes me as more than a friend, or just a friend.
I'm not sure, but I think he flirts with me. He'll steal a salt shaker from one of my tables, and won't give me it back unless I chase him around the kitchen for it. He shouts my name across the dining room, and risks getting fired for it. He talks to me a lot, and will usually even help me clear a table just to talk to me.. he does little things for me like that. If I'm carrying a tray, or something, he'll put his hand on my back and help guide me through the doors. I'm a pretty shy person, so I hate it when I talk to customers as I'm clearing a table, so usually he'll come over and talk to them for me...
But.. there's two other girls.. and they usually go up to him, and hug him. And they're pretty. And outgoing. And I don't know, I just don't think he likes me. How about you? (link)
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I think he likes you! because if you are shy as u say you are and he still talks to you and stuff then maybe he doesnt care about the outgoing and pretty girls maybe hes one of those great guys that only cares what the inside of someone is rather then the outside. and thats rare. so what i would do is i would be myself because thats what he is drawn too..but i would try to be a little more outgoing to make him realize that your interested! and maybe that will lead you somewhere!
hope it helps!
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