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my bf wants me to lap dance with him. well. not really but he asked me if I'd do. and he asks me alot of nasty questions about sex and strip with him. i dont want to do anything with him except makeout. what do i do?? help!! (link)
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Well, if your boyfriend is trying to pressure you into doing these things, then are you sure you want to date him?
If it were me, I'd say
"Please stop pressuring me to do these things. If you cannot/will not stop, then we will have to break up"
you have to take a stand for yourself. You can't be pushed around like all the other teenagers that were pressured into sex, and the like.
^^; good luck.
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everyone says that if you've been dating over 5 months you should have sex. i've been dating my bf for 7. no i dont want to have sex right now at this age. but my mom says she hopes/wants me to have sex AFTER or WHEN im married. i dont know if i can wait that long. but i dont want my mom not to trust me and get mad at me. help!! please! (link)
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If you don't want to have sex, then don't. If your boyfriend is pressuring you, perhaps that isn't the best relationship for you.
If you do/are having sex, then make sure you use a condom, and if you can convince your mom to put you on birth control (say..for menstrual reasons), that's good too.
Good luck ^^;
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Okay...I've realized a couple days ago that I really, really like this boy I know (I'll call him Bill)...and the same day I came to that conclusion, I was told by a very good friend of mine that Bill has something for her...and that she likes Bill too. (She didn't know that I liked him, of course)...Today, I found that they have officially paired up...and I didn't really do a good job of hiding my disapointment, because "Bill" asked me if somebody made me upset...I said "Not intentionally"...he then asked if it was him that had done anything to make me upset...(Did he suspect or know that I like him??)...Now, I'm not sure if I should tell him that I really like him or not, because I do NOT want to cause any discomfort between me and the two of them, because I care deeply for both of them...but I don't want him to feel like he's doing anything wrong, either. I think if I told them (Or just him) "Hey, I'm disapointed, but I still support you guys", that it would (maybe) make things better...
I really need answers fast on this one, guys...
S. (link)
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Wow. This seems like my life =]
When this happened to me, I ended up talking it out with my "Bill", we came to a conclusion, we're fine now, and I've moved on.
I suggest that (eventually), you tell your friend how you feel, but don't get too caught up about it.
If you need any more help, feel free to PM me. I went through this as well :)
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Okay well first of all this is my first post and all so i really dont know how to do this so i would really like it if you could help me out.
I really really like this guy at me church and all and he told me that he likes me and all and we kind of went out and things but like he is really really touchy-feely and everything and he makes me really nervous but i really like talking to him and would easily trust him with my life.
my other problem is that i have known this guy "cody" for like, ever and he has this really mean and bitchy girlfriend (but she is nice and sweet to him) and all of his friends hate her and tell him but he wont break up with her . although he could do sooo much better. and i also kinda like him.
whats a girl to do?
i will rate high if you give me good advice. (link)
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The first guy you described, I don't know him, but he seems a lot like someone I knew who just liked my friend because of her "assets", and basically manipulated. I can't judge you or him, but, I warn you.
Cody needs to deal with it himself.
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Is it weird for a girl to practice french kissing on another girl or does that make them lesbian? (link)
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It depends. If you like doing it, then maybe you are a lesbian. But a lot of girls in their life tine just want to see what it's like --not actually become one!
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ok i like this guy alot but hes going out with one of my friends i mean were not bff but like we hang out and stuff like that and he says he likes me but i dont know...he wants to hook up with me and i really wanna hook up with him too but i dont think that would be fair to my fiend...but like i really really want to and my friends away on vayk in ohio untill sept 2 so she wouldnt find out but i really dont wanna do that to her...please help I RATE HIGH!
PLEASE HELP 14/f (link)
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Don't do it. You'd be betraying your friend, and proving just how bad of a friend you really are.
Don't do it.
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I've liked my best friend for a year now. we've been very close friends for three years, and we're just very happy being friends and never talked about a relationship. the thing is .. i've been getting jealous lately because he's been talking to this girl about hanging out and hooking up. I normally wouldn't mind, but he hasn't hooked up with anyone ever .. and we are seniors in high school. Eveytime they are supposed to go on a date or hang out, he cancels it and end up hanging out with me, which is understandable .. but when we hang out .. it's like we have a stronger connection other than "just friends".
i feel like he sends me mixed signals, and i know if i try to take it to another level and he's not up for it .. we won't be as close anymore. what's a good way to find out without asking? (link)
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I, honestly don't know. You have to ask him. I'm in this situation with my close guy friend. Except vice versa. If you guys are that close, you should be able to talk it out =] we did.
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I've been going out with this guy for a month now. I like him a lot. But lately I don't really wanna hang out with him, like the other day he asked me out on a date and I told him I'd talk to him that day. I dunno, but I just don't want to be around him. I am fine talking to him online somtimes, just hanging out in person, I don't really wanna see him. Why is that? (link)
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Honestly, you're probably just getting bored. Perhaps it was just lust.
I think you should break up with him, and remain friends.
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Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do? (link)
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The other guy is being immature. It's your choice who you want to go out with; he can do nothing about it. If you really like your current boyfriend, don't worry yourself too much about the other guy. He will come around. If not, he wasn't worth it in the first place.
Ask for Yclipse for more help!
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