heyy! My namez danielle and im 13 I luv hanging out wit mi friendz, playing soccer, surfing, going on the computer,shopping,music,movies,etc. I love giving advice to ppl too so ask me nethinq babez!
xoz,
Danielle
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Well, my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up w/ me and I'm kinda wondering wut he means of wut he told me. He said "I think we should see other people," but then he said later how he's not breaking up w/ me bcuz of another girl. Then I asked him why he broke up w/ me abuncha times, and everytime he said he didn't know why. Then he said, "I think I just need sum time alone," so that sounded like maybe there's still hope left. Does any1 know wut he meant when he said all of this? Also, wut should I do? Ando do u think there is any hope 4 us?? (link)
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well hun, i think diz guy just doeznt want 2 commit 2 a relationship rite now or maybe he wantz 2 just get a new g/f..newayz, if ur realli upset about it, u should taLk to hym..i think thurrz hope 4 u guyz, just not rite now
hope i heLped babe!
x0-dAnielLe-0x
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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wow this is tough, but if u dont like him anymore nd hes pressuring u to do things then u should break up with him..but if u do just be as nice as possible nd tell him u want to stay friends (if thats wat u want).
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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wow i kno this is hard but ur 13 nd u have ur whole life ahead of u-u better wait nd not have sex so soon. But its ur opinion, if u decide to have sex w/ him just be careful if u decide u dont want to, talk to him about it..nd dont make him pressure u into it. If he doesnt respect ur opinion than he doesnt respect u!
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time every since the beginin of the year ive liked him on and off again. so then when the summer came we were talkin and hanging out and stuff and he grew to like me back so we made plans that we were gonna hook up one day when we were both free. so i was all lookin forward to this day. well i just talked to him online and he told me that he didn't mean to hurt me when he says this but "i really like this other gurl and she is the only one for me right now but we can still b friends" well wtf! PLAYER!! god i cried! i mean i knoe im not supposed to cry over boys but i mean this one really hurt my feeling i didnt kno wut to tell him but i was just trying to be nice about the whole thing saying "i hope everything works out" and just letting it go! did i do the right thing? or was i supposed to tell him how much it hurt me? or was i supposed to play it cool and act like i didn't care? or wut do i do now? please help me asap!
signed
broken heart (link)
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Broken hearted-
im soo sorry! but dont say ur not suppossed 2 cry over boyz..boyz will hurt u and its ok to cry b/c a lot of ppl do. I think u did the riqht thing by being nice but if ur still really upset nd u cant stop thinkinq about him u miqht want to try talkinq to him about how u feel.
hope i heLped!
xox
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Hey, i have a problem, theres this guy that i really really like..and i always have, and at once tyme he said he liked me and he wanted to do stuff with me, and it was the happiest tyme of my life..but then all of a sudden everything stoped, like he stoped IM'ing me...and smiling at me...everytning, and i found out he liked his x-g/f again..i was crushed..i was never so sad in my life...and to make matters wrose, after this once again he said he liked me and i feel fer it again and i ended up getting hurt again. :-( and i think i know what ur gunna say, that hes not worth it if he does this to me and stuff..but he is worth it, id go threw it all again jsut for him, b/c thats how much i care about him...i dont wanna move on, and i..ugh, idk, *please help me*
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aww-ok im not gunna say hes not worth it b/c it seems lyke u like him alot but if he askz u out again dont just jump into it..wait a little while nd make sure ur gunna b okay if it doesnt turn out the way u want. You may also want 2 talk to him about it nd tell him how u feel. xo
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theres is this kid that asked me out 6 times and i say no everytime .and its really annoying and he does it everyday nd when i say no hes asks my best friend wtf is tha matter he cant be alone for a few months .. but what if he asked me agen what do i say to him ? (link)
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Wow..this kid should back off a little! If he asks you out again, don't just say "no, I don't think so" or something like that. Tell him exactly how you feel. That you dont want to go out with him and that he needs to stop asking you. Tell your best friend to tell him the same thing. If he doesnt listen, just try to ignore him and if things get bad, talk to someone about it.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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Well,I think you should talk to him about it,tell him your not ready and you don't want to have sex. If he doesn't respect your opinion, than he doesnt respect you. Remember- don't do anything you dont want to just to look cool. A boy shouldnt pressure you into doing anything.
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my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..
o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)
=0 me scared
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Well first of all, no one should rush you to do anything you don't want to do. If you don't want to tell him you love him yet, don't. I totally agree with you. Maybe you should try talking to him again and if he still won't listen..you probably shouldn't waste your time on him. And he asked you to marry him!? Personally I think 13 is too young to get married to anyone! But do what you want, I'm not telling you to do anything. Hope i helped! xox
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