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lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him?
its possible that you still have feelings for him. its totally normal. after all he was your first love. its hard to get rid of your first love because....well.....he was first. now youre with some other guy so dont get to caught up with your first. but yes it is totally normal....even to still hav feelings for him.
Ok I've been out with this lad 8 times, and he kept using me but then the 8th time i went out with him he sed he'd learnt his lesson but then i found out he fancied my best m8 and when he was with her he'd flrt with her and when he was with me he was really romantic we had our first snog then our second and it felt so good but then the next day i fell out with my best m8 and he dumps me over falling out with her and then they both ept being nasty to me and calling me nasty names and i end up geting really upset and then the teacher makes me apoliges to them when they've really upset me but I still madly in love with my ex and now I feel really depressed what should I do?? please help me i'll rate anyone who does 5
have you ever heard the saying" there are plenty of fish in the sea to choose from"? well it means that this lad isnt the only one youll ever meet or fall in love with. there will plenty of other to choose from...so dont rush anything.now your ex lad and your "best m8" dont really seem very nice so try not talk to them very much. if they ever try to make up with you just say that you would rather not get hurt again.
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okay theres this guy named ryan. i love ryan. ryan says he loves me.. but me nd him get inalot of fights.. not big ones though they last like 1 hour. soo today is my birthday.. me and him were gonna hang out and i walked really far to hang out with him and then he callz my cell and says he is hangin out with (people i hate) kansa and victorea... (there on drugs) i got mad.. very mad.. nd started to walk home.. then when i get home he callz my cell again and says wanna hang out.. and it was like 8 so i was like no and blah blah then i notice he was ingoreing me.. i got mad.. and i told my friends the story. he hurts me.ditchs me.. they think i should forget about him but idk what i should do i really love him.. i cry myself to sleep every night thinking about him.. every mintue of my class i cant stop thinking about him! should i leave him or no?
p.s me and him are not going out .. we love eachother though.
please help i rate high!
i dont think it would be okay for you to go out with him again. he hangs out with the wrong people. itll be hard but you have to move on. you have time to fall in love all over again
ok well i used to go out with this boy im not saying his name tho and well he treated me with respect and he cared about me and he would always see how my day was and cheer me up he was the only guy who could ever make me laugh and smile when i was crying or deprssed and then i dumped him for another guy that i thought was sweet but apparently not becuz he keeps telling me and with alot of force in his tone to give him head and to have sex with him and i reallie miss the guy i dumped becuz he was the closest thing to perfect that i had in my life and when it was just me and him it felt like nothing else existed but me and him and the least i could have done was treated him with respect in return. and this is all my fault!!!
plz help me
aw that other guy sounds so sweet! look, just dump this new guy. he cant force you to do anything and he doesnt sound like he is worth any of it. this other guy sounds super sweet. if you care about him that much then go for it. talk to him about how you feel and try to fix things with him. be like hey listen i was thinking and you came across my mind. i thought about it and i made the biggest mistake ever. i dumped you and i didnt want that. i love and care for you so much and whatever and then be like will you ever forgive me and take me back....just say something like that.
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i have been seeing my ex on and off for 3yrs.we were going out steady for 2yrs and i dumped him. hes messed me about really bad i realy like him still and he wants to try again, but i dont no what to do. female 18yrs old! dave is 22.
i say dont do it. chances are he will do it all over again.
I told my friend that i loved him. I wrote him a letter and basicly told him that I loved him and that even though we can't be together now I hope in the future we can be more than friends. (he moved to NC) Well he wrote me back and said cool. and then he's been ignoring me for the past two weeks. Well tonight I had a new sn on aim. and I IMed his sister..obviously thinking it was her lol. and he was like this is justin. and all I could say was "oh" and so he was like "oh. that's what i am to you!" he really confuses me. I mean if he liked me the same as I like him why won't he say it?! when i had a bf and it old him he said "we can't have a long distant relationship?" and when he lived up here by me. we would be close and hug and sometimes kiss each other on the cheek. i just don't know what's happening with this. I'm fine with us being close friends but I can't stand him acting like that. what should I do? we never really talk anymore. and it seems like he doesn't want me to every talk to him. and it makes me sad to know I'll never talk to him agian.
oh? thats not very love like. he obviously doesnt love or like you....or care for you so just let him go and move on.
I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good
If you want to know the truth i have to say that if your so called best friend is really your best friend then she shouldnt have made out with the guy you like and have gone out with. even if its just a little it doesnt seem right. i went through this same thing so from experience i am gonna tell you that he never really liked you....there are better guys out there that will treat you better then this guy "carl" did and your best friend is not really your best friend if she said yes. bestfriends dont go out or make out with bestfriends ex boyfriends. its just not the right thing. talk to your friend and tell her how you feel....if you feel confident enough take the chance and talk to carl too.