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I've gone through many things like most teens, so feel free to ask me about anything! ill be happy to answer your needs. A few things about myself

-i hate hypocrites although i can be one sometimes
-i just moved to a new location, so i can totally relate to anyone who goes through the same thing
- french vanilla ice cream rules

-my friends are my life

-BOYZ

-i cant live without my ipod

- or my razr

- i think happy bunny is awesome

- soccer is life

-im gonna be a freshmen

-i can be sarcastic, so dont ask stupid questions

;]
Gender: Female
Location: california !
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Age: 14
Member Since: July 30, 2006
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My life pretty much sucks all thanks to this one girl Linda. This is why ; In 3rd grade she took my #1 best friend away from me. Soon, I got over it. Now all thanks to her I met this guy Paul. I can hardly even stand him. Because May 30, we went out, and then he broke up with me 5 days later. I was crushed. July 21, he fell back inlove with me. [Again], 5 days later he broke up with me

Here is the worst part. Today was Linda's party. I tried and tried to loose weight, but my stupid body is to fat. Anyways I went to her party. Amy was there. Amy is really pretty. I really dislike Amy. She was like "ooh, i hate fat people, thats discusting" infront of my face. Paul was there. Paul did not speak to me at all, but he kept starring at me. He is really cute.

Linda's away message [on aim] said she`s going to the movies with Amy and Paul. They were making fun of Paul before.

Sometimes I feel like there is noone to talk to but god. I don`t know why that whatever I say everybody thinks it`s pointless. It has a meaning to me.

Anyways my mom doesnt seem to care about me, at all. But im fine i guess. My father passed away about 5 months ago.

I woke up today at 1. By 2, my day was ruined. Well, I imed Paul, and he blocked me. I was talking to Tyler & Tyler was like now he knows your fat.

Well guess what the 1st day of school, [Aug. 15] I am going to wow everyone. They are going to wish they never made fun of me. Nobody knows how bad I feel. It seems like nobody on this planet loves me. Also, I feel like I cannot trust anyone. Anyways, I fouund out Paul & Amy made out in the movies for 30 minuetes. Oh, how I wish i was Amy. Kyle said Linda was hot. I have to agree with him. Everyone is hot, but me. I am deffently going on a diet. =]



Right now, I don`t know how I feel. All I know is like I hate Amy. Yesterday and today were the worst days of my life. Right know it seem as if my mom hates me. Whats new? I really need to improve my life. One day im going to snap.


Right now im pretty cheered up. Guess what! Paul hates Amy! After she made out with Paul she made out with other guys. Paul apologized to me.


THIS WAS IN MY JORNAL EVERYTHING UP THERE.

Now this is just me typing. Everything seems to be so confusing. I feel unloved by everyone. Please do not recommend conseling. [sp?]

Sorry it was so long. ! (link)
oh sweetie...im so sorry.

i felt like you too. but for different reasons. i had a friend who backstabbed me and everybody hated me. i would cry and cry, and felt like dying. but i got through it. im moving to a new city and am starting over like you are starting over for a new school year. there is always somebody in this world who loves you. perhaps your mother is too depressed to express emotion. give it time. she loves you. and amy and linda or whatever, who needs them? paul is a jerk, and hes worth nothing. its all about personality. if they think your fat or whatever, screw them. im so happy at least your changing yourself and becoming more confident. your just going through a tough stage in life that everyone goes through eventually. i hope i helped. much love!

xoxo


well i like this guy, but he has a gf that is a good friend of mine. people say he's trying to make me jealous. like he always flirts with me and he wants to go to the pool with me a lot. should i tell him i like him? because i know he won't care, but i don't want him and his gf to break up. what should i do? (link)
you must be in a tough situation hun.

the truth is hard, but shes your good friend and she comes first. i know you dont want to hear it. but if you make them break up, you'll los friends. they wont trust you, and they are so much more worth it than some guy. just play it safe and cool dont give any extra attention to him. dont show hes making you jelous. you will be stronger that way.

hope i helped!!
xoxo


im 13/f and i finally found a guy i would like a long term relationship with but my friends are just laughing at me and makeing fun of me like guys are not an very important factor in my life but i dont know how to show them im serious. Please help.

sleepiesheep (link)
if their good friends they wont laugh at you
just because there not so important doesnt mean their not important at all! you should tell them that.

if that doesnt work, their not worth it sweetie

xoxo


1)okay so this girl first asks for my email add then my phone number,then one day i waved at her in school and she was absolutely shy and looked down the whole time.Now we are talking on msn.so does she like me?or is she just naturally shy and wants to be just friends?

2)But what i don't get about girls is that you know how some girls are outgoing and super friendly?So she may talk to you a lot and like you or maybe just talk to you cause she is just being friendly to you as she is to the other guys.So is their a way to know?I mean,if a girl talks to a guy a lot,does that mean that she's interested in him?cause it doesn't really make any sense for a girl to talk a lot to a guy since girls mostly mix with girls and vice versa, plus girls mostly talk about girls stuff which guys know nothing of,unless he's gay. (link)
1) I'm exactly like the girl your talking about. She does like you, but is very shy about it.

2)if she shows any signs of flirting like touching your arm or anything like that, it could be a sign of being more than friendly. If they talk about girl stuff she may be nervous on choosing a topic to talk about. So make the first move!

xoxo




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