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I wanted to start this because i have helped my friends with their problems so maybe i could help u out too. Here is a little bit about me. i like to play basketball and volleyball i also like anythang that has to do with theater i love to be around friends because they always make u feel so much better about yourself at least they should. I love to shop and most of all i love guys what girl wouldn't lol. So hit me up on aim or on my site.
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Ok im 15 f and i was going out with my b/f for 6 months and then we broke up,but like 2 weeks ago he asked me back out and i said yes.When i used to go out with him, i would go to his house and hang out,but since ive been going out with him again my dad and his g/f wont let me go over there. they dont trust me, but i have never given them a reason not to, its not like me and my b/f sit around and make out all day,ya know? They said if i want to see him he has to come over here.but i want to go to his house i miss it.lol and ive tried talking to my dad and his girlfriend but they dont understand and i just cant win. (link)
i think maybe you could bring him ova and show your dad and his g/f that he is a really great guy and he respects you. Then mayb once he trusts him more your dad + g/f will let you go ova his house. If not tell that you really like him and talk one on one with them about da situation.

hope it helps!


xO.


Brittni


I don't know what's wrong with me... Maybe it's low self-esteem or something but I never think i'm good enough for any guy. There haven't been many guys that I've known liked me. Most of them look right to my friend... So the guy i reaaaallly liked likes her now. But whenever guys flirt with me i never take them seriously because I always think "oh he would never like me" and then I turn kinda mean to the guy... can anyone help me out here? (link)
If your confident with yourself guys will start noticing ya. Flirt back guys love a girl to do that lol. If your happy with who you are everyone else will except you for that..


hope it helps!

xO.


Brittni


What is the right way to tell someone that you dont like them? (link)
I think u should tell them that u don't like them like they like u. Tell them why and say but tell them not to take it seriously its just that our personailties don't mix sorry. Thats all u have to say and listen to wat they have to say so it seems like u care and then thats that.

hope it helps


Brittni x3


okay, yesterday nyte i went skating with a hole gruop of friends , and this kidd adam started to talk to me abotu basketball and stuff.. .then i sat down and he asked if he could sit next to me so i said yes . . then i started sakting with my friends and he would foloew me . .then i would sit down and then my friend kerri would sit down next to me and he would tell her to get up and stuff. . so she got up . . then there were 5 cuople skates and i was like i will be sittin herr and stuff and adam said will u skate with me nicole and i was like umm why ? and he was like cuz and i said u have a gurlfriend and he was like cum on and i wa slike okay fine so we skated together holding hands. and while we were sitting he kept putting his arm around me and stuff and everyone tells me he really relaly likes me a lot and stuff then we went dancin and i was dancin and he kept cumin up behind me and dtrying to grind with me and stuff and he kept touching my ass and stuff. . . does he like me or is he jsut playing aroudn with me or just using me ?? help please dont dealte !!!!!!! (link)
There is no doubt that he likes u lol. If u like him u should go out wit him but if he has a g/f u should deff talk to him about dat!!! U should prob even talk to her about goin out wit him if she is your friend if she is ok wit da whole thang i say go for it. But if she isn't think of it this way guys will come n go but a friend is forever! Also if he really likes u n your not totally sure just b friends for da time bein n tell him dat!

hope it helps!



Brittni x3


okay i realli need help..
heres my story:

i had this boyfriend before and he treated me "okay" when we were going out..but then he also pressured me into doing stuff with him that i wasn't readi for! then one day he broke up with me..and i was crushed for about 3 months..and he would always fight with me after we broke up and everything..and i told myself that i would never go back out with him..but now after 3 months have gone by..we are realli good friends and he told me he changed..and and i hung out with him last night and i do kinda see a change..but i realli n truely love him..but i don't wanna get hurt if i say yes if he asks me back out! which he alreadi told me he was going to! but my real question is..can people realli change?
please help me! i rate realli high!
thanks!

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i think he is just actin different around u becuz he wants u to go bac out wit him because he likes they way u look. To hav feelings for him is completely natural but u don't want to take the chance on him making u do somethang u'll regret! If u want maybe hang out wit him wit your friends. Trust me guys say they changed when they really didn't to make u fall back in love wit wit a person who isn't really themselves. You want a guy who will treat u wit respect no "Okay." i hope this helps!




well i have a problem.. i like this guy alot.. like so0 much.. hes really str8 to chill with and weve chilled alot buhh i dont know.. he likes me buhh he wants to do shit with me b4 we go out.. he thinks i will cuz i did things with these 2 guys this summer which was jus a hook up and having fun..buhh as for me and him.. i dont wanna do anything with him yet* or until we go out cuz i dont want him to see me as a grl to take advange of..and juss a hook up.. i want him to see me as a gf.. and he knos im not a ho so wats rong? i dont kno if its like he needs to try me out to see wat hes gettin or rele want to b with mee.. does this make sense to any of youu..?! (link)
If he really likes u he won't care about taking advantage of u. u be da one in charge u take action! Tell him that your not ready for that in your relationship yet. Also say that u really care about him and the guys ova da summa u didn't care about as much as him. If he seems pissed off he neva really liked u for u he liked u for the way u look and thats not love.


Brittni




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