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so latly i have had really strong feelings to hook uo with a girl. and i guess i cant do anything about it because i will proably be looked down on by my friends. considering i am a girl..
i dont really know what to do...
so what do you think?

Well if you do have strong sexual feelings for this girl. go for it. If they are really your friends, they'll love you no matter what.

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what do guys like better: a hard to get kind of girl... or like one that leads them on? thanks..

I depends on the type of guy he is. Some guys like the hard to get girls. Others, like players, like easy girls.

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I'm bad at flirting and I like a couple guys. Will you help me?

It all depends on how you flirt. Perhaps you come onto guys a little too strong. If thats the case ease up a little. If you want I can email some tips on flirting.
As for the guys, really think about each one. There is one that is just right for you. Try doing a little soul-searching on each guy, one of them could be right for you.

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Back in January like January 10th, I met this guy, his name was dominique. Right away I fell in love with him. The way he looked, his smile, just everything about him was perfect. I nicknamed him oreo, this is because he acts white when he is black. I was his baby-d. Gah, I loved that boy to death. I just thought the world of him. There was nuttin I wouldn`t do for him. I would go to the moon and back just for him. He lived a 1 hour away from me,but did that stop me "No Way". I would always find a way to go see him. I mean he was the love of my life. I have dated other guyz before, but none like him. There was just sumthing special about him. I just couldn`t put my foot on it. We would stay up late at night talking on the telephone till 4 or 5 in the morning, even on school nights. We wnet out for a month and broke up. I was staying at a friends house the night of our breakup and boy did i cry all night long. I actually neva have eva stopped crying over him. Well anyways The strange thing is that I nva expected this to happen. That morning we were had just been talking on the phone for 2 hours and everything was fine. Well anyways after we broke up I tried to move on, but I couldn`t it was to hard. I would go out with guyz and I would always brake up with them the very next day. I cried for him in the morning when I woke up. I would hear a song on the radio that reminded me of him. I would pray at night and cry for him. I still do this tooo! Back in march he im me, and he told me sorry for all the pain I have cause you. He told me he wanted to be friends with me. So I accepted it. The only reason I accepted was because I thought maybe I could get him back that way. See I miss him soooooooooo much. I wrote sumthing for him and it goes like this. If I said I wanted u back today
Would u turn around and say u want me back 2 or would u just walk on by
If I said I love u
Would u say u love me 2?
If I said I need u baby
Would u say me 2, or would u shrug ur shoulders
I really need u in my life, plz say u need me too!
See thats how bad I need and want him. pLzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz sumone help me. U can im me at tastemebaby669 if u wanna!

Okay...he had to have broken up with you for a reason. I really understand that you are absolutely in love with this guy...it took me a while to get ovet the fact that this guy didn't like me...but you will get over it eventually. Stay friends...its better than nothing.

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my friend ((chrissy)) likes a boy ((jack)) that her best friend ((kelly)) just got dumped by. jack likes going for girls that are easy and right now he likes a girl that he asked out before kelly. the other girl said no but they both still hang out. he's gone out with a lot of people chrissy knows but they still talk pretty much everyday. chrissy's not easy so what should she do? she doesn't want to hurt kelly's feelings either.

Have Chrissy put herself in Kelly's shoes. How do you think Kelly would feel if Chrissy goes out with Jack? Chrissy shouldn't go out with Jack, for her friends sake. Dating him change their friendship...for the worst.

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I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please!

Wow that's so hypocritical!
He lied about not being able to date probably to avoid hurting your feelings. But why doesn't he just say he has a gf? Ask him why and then IM me to tell me about what he says.

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