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Hi I am 20 soon to be 21 in Feb. and I am in love with a younger guy who lives in a diffrent state. He use to live in the same state as me but he had to go back to his hometown due to some family matters and we dated for 1 1/2 yr I also moved to his home town and took my son who is 3yrs old but is not his and my son and him got along very well my son called him daddy. Needless to say I had to move back home and (ifound out that i was prego and latter on i lost the baby due to a fight we got in) due 2my sons real father because he wanted to spend time with him and we keep a good strong relationship and yes it was hard not getting to see him all the time, and being in diffrent states but i went to see him every weekend and sometimes it would just be for a couple of hours and then i would have to leave so i could get back and go to work. I was spending time with a friend and ended up moving in with her because she needed help she lost her child and was having a hard time with it. Well I went a month with out talking to my boyfriend due to her not having a phone so when i moved out of the house with her and went back home i called him and he told me that he had moved on whith another girl and when he told me that it broke my heart and i told him what happen and told him that i loved him and ask him why and he told me that he thought i moved on and i told him no i didn't. He told me that he was sorry and that he did not know what to do well as time pasted we talked on the phone but it was behind his girlfriends back he did not want her to know that he was talking to me because she would get mad at him and latter on he brought his girlfriend up and spent time with some of his family and i went over to see him and his girlfriend knew that i was comming over she said that it was ok and so when i got there she was mad well she acted like a 2yr old even tho she is 20yrs, and he told me that he was sorry for the way she was acting and i said it was ok and told him that i would leave and he told me it was ok so me and him talked for 5hrs and then as i was leaving he walked me to my car and we keep on talking then we kissed and he told me that he wished we were back together and i said that i did too. well as i was getting in the car his girlfriend came out side and told him that he needed to get back in the house and that i needed to leave well i did not say anything because i did not want to get in a fight so i just told him that i would talk to him latter on and he said ok needless to say they are still together and he still talks to me behind her back and the other day he came to see me and she did not know it he drove 4hrs to see me and we only spent 30mins talking and he had to leave. he called me on his way home and told me that he would leave his girlfriend and move bace so he could be with me if i wanted him to and i told him that i did. I really love him and would spend the rest of my life with him but i dont know what to do please help me and let me know what you would do. I know he does love me so he said. thank you for takeing the time to read this.
thank you alot
nikki (link)
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i say follow your heart all the way, fuck that bitch hes with now. she isnt anything if you 2 really love eachother like you explained you did then there should be no problem at all, i would get back with him, & forgive him for trying to move on, because i would of thought the same if my boyfriend just stopped talking to me for a month, and you can deffinatly tell if he drove 4 hours to see you for 30 minutes, yeah, thats insane. but i would prob. do it to if i was in love.. but yes anyways, follow your heart, & good luck i wish the best for both of youu
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Hello, I`m 14 years old && 5 months pregnant, && my boyfriend is 15. && I haven`t seen him for over 2 weeks && I`m starting to get worried I talk to him once && awhile but we always argue but then we make up by the end && we always fight because hes always fucked up && doesn`t get or understand what i`m sayin. But for the past frew weeks hes been hanging out with all these`s girls && I`ve been hearing that they`ve been doing stuff together I talked to him about it lastnight && finally he wasn`t fucked up he had a good excuse && told me it was all bullshit. But how do I know if he`s faithful or not. (link)
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to the first person who said give the baby up . you cant have an abortion after 3 months & i know because im 2 1/2 mo. preg. and getting one and putting it up for adoption would be heartbreaking to the fullest.
an im 14 too and im 2 1/2 i know how it feels once the kid that got me pregnant he hasnt talked to me . he says its someone elses when it aint and i dont know my situation is all fucked up too . but seriously talk to your boyfriend .. cause thats really really fucked up your only 14 seriously we shouldnt even really be having sex but oh well ;] lol but yeah . cause leaving you alone with a baby is hard . believe me i live with my little cousin & ive basically been rasing him since sept. 05 when my uncle died and my autn whent to rehab & he was 1 1/2 ish and it was hard - and its even harder when their younger like first born because everyone stuck me babysitting and its not fun and i doubt you dont live with your parents/gardians .. and their going to be helping you . so that means when your like 15 /16 & want to get a job you prob. cant because you have to take care of the baby. so just explain everything to him about money & diapers .. diapers arent cheap . neither is forumla or any of that stuff . so explain to him that if he isnt going to be there for you he HAS TO pay for child support or do something , i dont know if this is anything to help you but im just trying to help out cause im scared & your further then me and like i cant take the pains now .. but yeah if you need someone to talk to talk to me on AIM - thal0ve0fyalife
xoxo good luck
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Me and my boyfriend got in a huge fight over nothing last night. We got eachother so pissed off we decided to break up. I miss him so much. I want him to know that I'm sorry for what I did. The problem is, I don't know what to say to him!! Also, he blocked me on aim, he won't answer my calls, and he won't answer me on myspace. How can I talk to him? We really loved eachother. He already has another girl friend, but I know he's just trying to make me jealous with her. What do I do?? (link)
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i say .. you go to his house with a movie he wants too see or something like that .. and be like we need to talk & blahblahblah explain how you feel & hear him out also cause guys need to be heard out sometimes too . cause both of your feelings matter in the situation . and just explain how you really care about him & you dont want to loose him .. & then you guys can watch the movie & cuddle up & whatever you guys do ;] have funn .. i hope i helpedd xoox much love casper
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soo i have a boy friend but i have this guy friend who just came back from california and i really like him alot.. but i dont kno what to do i love my boyfriend but i want to be with my friend from cali to... (link)
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im in the same situation as you . but one isnt my boyfriend were just like " together " for over a year & a half & me & jose just started hangin out alot recently & i started to catch feelings for him . and it all really matters on who you trust more .. and who you think wont break your heart and i hope you havnt been going out with your boyfriend for a long time just incase you want to break up with him for the kid that just came back from cali . cause it would make him think he was just a backup & cause lots & lots of drama and fighting & shit .. so just make sure you think about who would treat you right & wont fuck you over in the long run and stuff .. i hope i helped a little .. xox casper
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hi. i am a 15/f. tomorrow i am going to a party for a guy that i have never met but i want to make a good impression so that him and his friends like me. im going with my best friend who is friends with all of them, its just that i have never met them before. i want them to like me really bad so that sometime in the future they might like me as more than a friend. i dont know how to make a good first impression. can anyone give me some tips? (link)
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well just be yourself first off .. wear clothes that cover you but not like you`ll die cause the heat cover you. so they dont get the rong impression of like slut or something cause thats a huge no no cause then they`d pretend to like you & try to use you & all that drama sh**. don talk out of your ass about random stuff .. believe me i was only on like 3 hours of sleep not even & i was talkin wayy out of my ass n now some girl wants to fight me lol .. and if anything wait till someone aproches you just stay with your friend & let her introduce you . and just be open to basically anything no matter how ugly they are. just try to be as sweet as can be & respect everyone and uhmm im sure that would do it ? i hope i helped xox much love casper
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Everytime I get a boyfriend I blow it. I hate drama but I always seem to start it. Like my boyfriend of a month I started a fight and told him I don't want to kiss him. He thought I didn't love him so we broke up. I really wanted to kiss him but I'm always starting drama. And now my new boyfriend he said I gotta go "love you" and I didn't say anything back. I really do love him but I don't know why I LIKE making people mad at me. And it ALWAYS leads to a break up. I get boys so pissed off. What can I do so I start acting mature and not start fights with my boyfriends and stop always making them mad? (link)
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haha i do the same thing .. its hard but we usualy dont break up.. they try to make me not be mad at them or start shit like they`ll think they did something so they try to make up for it .. idk im the same way you are .. i do it cause i want the attention though. and like the person under me .. you have to think of their feelings first if you dont want it to lead to breakups - becase you have to think if your treating them like shit and starting with them constantly they feel like wtf are they doing in the relationship . just treat them the way you wanna be treated & it should be all good . and think before you speak if you know its gunna hurt them or make them think differently of you then DONT say it cause they`ll break up with you. dont try to seem jealous, needy, bitchy, clingy & selfish thats a huge turn off to guys especially clingy girls that wont let them go out with the guys or whatever. i hope i helped .. xox much lovee - casper
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