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advice

i know this was already asked but i need to ask again ... there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!!

hey! one day just come up to him and be like hey how's it goin? what's new or w/e. then be like i really wanna be friends again if that's possible, then just be yourself and talk to him like you used to...xoxo!

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I just got a boyfriend 2 days ago, but i havent had a b.f. in a while and i dont noe how to like act like his girlfriend and not just his friend. I only see him a few times a day, cus were not in many classes together, but i dont noe whut to do! Id appreciate anything! =] .. i rate high!

hey hey!!! just be yourself around him!! and flirt alot! and um...you know don't worry to much just do what the hell you want with him

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f/14
I like this guy and we are already friends. I don't have many classes with him but I sit right behind him in the one class we do have. He always turns aroud at me and tries to make me laugh. I told one of my friends who hasn't told anyone. He's really cute but i don't want to tell him. It might ruin our friendship and i don't want anything like that to happen. I just really like him. Help, i'll rate low if you tell me to tell him because that won't get me anywhere

hey! i'm in the same situation as you are...i havn't told him and i don't you should either well not yet atleast...you should keep flirting with him and talk to him more and see what happens...xoxo!

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13/middle school
I don't know how to talk or start a convo with a boy (mainly a boy I like). Can someone please tell me ways to talk or start a convo without sounding like I like them? I am always so shy nd nervous so I really need help.

hey gurlie! i think you should just ask him a question like um...so what are you gonna do today? or what sports do you like you know just ask a question about what he likes...much love *Doll~Face*

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My like bff asked me out and I cant picture him as my bf but i dont want to say no but i dont want to say yes so wat do i say?????

hey, just tell him the truth...and tell him that you just wanna be good friends...xoxo

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well there is this guy and well he is really hott and nice. i like him and i think he knows but, how do i know if he is interested? hes really sweet and i have like alot of feelings for him. im not gorgeous but im not ugly. we have the same friends and another problem is like all the other girls in school like him too.

hey gurlie! i think you should just flirt with him and if he still doesn't notice just tell him!! u don't know what might happen!!?? take chances!...XOXO!

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hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help

hey hun! your married so um...you don't need HIM!! just tell him in a nice way that you really love this guy your with and that you just want to be friends with him, and tell him to please stop waiting and move on with his life...xoxo!!

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ok well i really like this guy and ive known him for a long time. i just started talking to him and there havealways been rumors that he likes me too but im not sure. i reeally really like him though, i think i even may be in love, what can i do?

If you really think your in love then go for it...tell him you really like him and see what happens, good luck!...xoxo!!

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ok this guy has a gf and i like said guy.
i think he likes me too, but he wont admit it and dump his gf.....wat do i do wen i KNO we would be perfect?!?!?

Have you told him that u like him?? If u havn't you should then maybe he'll admit that he likes you and maybe dump his g/f and go with u!...good luck xoxo!

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Hi, there is this guy i like and i've heard t hat he likes me too and might ask me out. One tme when i was walking by and i heard his friend say "Comon ____, go ask her" loud enuff so i would hear it..and the friend started pushing him toward me. This sort of thing has happened for a days now...like the guy i like would come over and then look at me and walk away, its pretty cute. I wanna start talkin to hjim so maybe it wud give him some courage to ask me..(if that's what he is intending to do)Any tips of what i should do?thanks

Just be yourself around him...start a convo; Hey, what's up..you know but don't be shy!...♥

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I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. But other days hes as sweet as can be. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. It's just weird how he can be nice one day and an ass the next..whats wrong? Is it hom or me? What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy though!! 14/f/tn

You should talk to him about it cuz obviously you don't wanna break-up and you really like him so ya call him up and tell him what's been goin on..♥

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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks

hey babez, come on if you really LOVE him then be with him!! if your really tryna get over him then kinda like forget about him or i mean like try to get away from him for awhile...see what happens then and if u still in love with him then GET WIT HIM!-xoxo

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I like this boy a lot, I haven't told anyone about liking him. I talk about him to my best friends quite often but I'm just like eww...I'd never like him. He is always like aww look your so cute and he calls me his 'little kid'. That's because I am soo much shorter than him. He always picks me up and carrys me places and when I see him in the hall he's like hey cutie, sweetie, little kid, babe...whatever he picks that day and he like hugs me. But this one time we were just standing in the hall together and he's like what about if you and me went to the movies...and then to dinner or something. And this girl in his class told me she was like aww don't mess with Mahryah when you don't mean it...it's not nice. And she said he said but I do wanna go somewhere she's just so cute. And he always tells me he loves me and is always touching me and stuff. I don't know if he just thinks I'm cute in a little way or what. I don't know if I want to tell my friends either...

hey gurlie! well do u like the guy? If you do then go for it he really likes you. i mean atleast just go to the movies or w/e and see how he is and then you can make your decision.-luv yaz!

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hey im 14 and im male, i really like two girls at my school equally and i heard they both like me but i dont wanna choose one cuz then the other would get angry and im friends with them so i dont wanna lose a friend/friends what should i do?

aww that sux! I think you should just pick one! i mean come on you have to like one of them more then the other! or just be really good friends with both of them and tell them your sorry. good luck!!-xoxo

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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs old and here my problem well theres a guy that i really,really,really like and i dont know if he knows how much i like him.well, my friend has him for 6 period and he tells him stuff about me and then the guy tells him about him and so far he been cool with it,but theres somethings i haven't got clear in my head well here are 3 examples well the first one is people tell me or some of my friends he has a gf and his friends say he doesn't and i don't know who to believe.the second example is that he looks at me like in the creepy way but when he is alone but when he is with his friends he doesn'.the third example is sooo stupid my friend did the stupidest thing ever well she knows how to draw really good well we were in 5th period and we were passing notes talking about him and i ask her to try to draw him and she did it and it look like him alot and every time we get out of 5th period we go to 6th period and we always see him and i ask her to show it to him to see if he though it look like him well my really stupid friend gave it to him saying i drew it!! i was so mad all this happened friday december 3,2004 and now its monday december 6,2004 and i didn't go to school cuz i'm soo wierded out and i don't know what he may say to his friend or my friends.so i really need advice should i tell him how a feel and it wasn't me who drew that pic?

singed confused and shy,

Yes i think you should tell him how u feel because you never know he might have feelings for you too... you should ask one of his guy friends if he really has a gurl and if he does i mean still tell him how u feel don't keep it inside forever...and about the picture yes i think you should tell him the truth you didn't draw it your friend did i don't think he'll make a big deal about it!...luv yaz tell me what happens..

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I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say?

hey babe, aww that sucks. i think you should talk to him about it and tell him your really sorry about the whole thing and ask him if he wants to start over. Also tell him how you feel inside..u really miss him.. i hope you get back with him, xoxo!

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