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im 15 and the other day i was with my bf
and we were about to start kissing when i farted
and it was loud i got embarrassed and walked away
and he might have told someone because the next day boys were laughing and joking its quite embarrissing is there anything i can do about it.

Well everyone farts..It's a part of life, i'm sure he knows that..he does it too!..I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and if somethin like that happens he just laughs..It's not a big deal everyone does it and he really shouldnt be spreading anything about that bc that would be really rude..So maybe those guys were laughin at somethin else..If he cares about u he'll just let it slide..It was just one tiny little incident..i wouldn't stress over it..Def. talk to him tho and if it ever happens again be like opps..my bad, don't walk away tho..Hope that i helped at least some..Love ya!!:)

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There's this kid at my school...we are both freshman and at this oriantation, we were together a lot...( in the same groupd )Well, now i see him one to two times a day, and i dont have much time inbetween classes b.c they have a strict schedule...=(...Anyways, i really like this kid...I had the dream that you have, like when you are crushing...well I saw him today...and i literally stopped breathing...I`m trying to get his screen name and im hoping i can talk to him sometime...but my question is...What can i do to get him to notice me? Like for a minitur betweet classes or a minute after school, or online even...We both play soccer so we can talk about that but what else...? Thanks to anyone who took the time to read this...! =)

Well, he'll notice you a lot more if you get his sn and stuff..really stop being sweet and helpin him if he ever looks upset or needs someone to talk to..Tell him how u feel about him and that should help big time..I don't have that great advice on that subject but i sure hope i helped ya some babe..Love ya:)

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hi im anonmys so well be and my bf had been goin out for two months then he dumped me out of the blue.for the next 2 weeks i woukd break down be really depressed and cry alot.so i decided to call him just to tell him i still love him and he said "i dont know why i broke up with you will you go out with me" and i said yes!but he lives 2 hours away,i still see him and i call everyday but i am starting to like my neighbor and i dont know what to do,my neighbor has also been hitting on me and im so confused so can u help.but i really love my boyfriend so um thanx

Well hun my best advice is to follow your heart and do whatever it tells you to do..Yeah, it might be hard with your boyfriend living so far away but if you really love someone you don't want to ruin what you have with that special someone for just some random guy..I mean, trust me..Ur neighbor thing is prolly just a little crust..Follow your heart but my advice is to stay with the one you love..I've been in that position and i stayed with my boyfriend and realized it was just a silly crush with the other boy:)

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I am a freshman in high school...There is this guy in school that I like... his name is nick and well some people say that he likes me tOo. We are talkin all the time and we are each others hoes... yea not really funny but its an inside joke... AnyWayZ. I like him and so does my friend paige but that really doesnt matter... but this girl breanna is like threatin'n me like if I go out with him she is gunna beat me up and I dont know what to do... we are always together and we both told her to leave us alone and she wont... I dont wanna get her mad at me and make her wanna beat my butt... but I like him.... what should I do!

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Erika

Go out with him..If she really wants to beat you up that bad for no reason let her do it..Fight back if you want too..A lot of times girls like that are just all talk..Do whatever makes you happy and follow your heart:)

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(yes i just asked the q about the x bf..) anyways.. ohh my boyfriend ryan..i love him so much. i know hes ready for sex, and i am too. we tried it once..fully no clothes but he wasnt hard enough at the time so he couldnt put it in me. then tonight, i ended up giving him head..(FOR THE FIRST TIME) and i must have given him head for a minuet..then he pushed me away cuz he cumed! im like..wow? am i that good..? idk! anyways..like i REALLY want to have sex with him, just because i know we're both ready..but it always takes us SO long to get to that point. we're the kind of couple that kisses and makes out ALOT..and we ususally do forever before we do anything. like we'll be in his room and make out on his bed for an hour before we do anything. how do i speed things up ah bit?


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give him head first and then start having sex..2 orgasims is better than one..if your both ready you just need to do it..try playin with his dick and maybe it'll make it hard so he can stick it in you..Please rate me!!

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Hey everyone...I need some advice....

Well I met this guy almost 8 months ago. We started talkin and we went out for about a week but things were not workin out because he lived like 30 mins away and neither one of us could drive. So we broke up and didnt talk for a while then we started talkin again and we got really close. He told me he didnt want to go out right then cause we wouldnt ever see each other. He wanted to wait until he could drive. Well he will be able to drive on tuesday. We have had a really hard time the past month or so. He told me he loved me and the whole nine yards. But now he is sayin that he doesnt really want a relationship. And some ppl told me that he said he hated me and never liked me and i asked him and he said he didnt say that. I cant stop thinkin bout him and i really love him a lot. How do I get him to realize that. I have already talked to him and tried to explain. All i want is just to be with him....Please help

Sorry it was so long

I think you should give him a chance..You can't always believe things people tell you..Even if it's someone you trust bc 9 times outta 10 they heard it from someone else who likes the guy and doesnt want you with him..So you just need to talk to him the first chance u get in person and see if he likes you..you can tell by the look in a guys eyes if their in love with you..Give it a second shot!..Please rate me!!

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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(

well, if he makes you happy then you need to give it another try..Personally, i believe in second chances..Maybe he had family problems or something..I've given my boyfriend more than 2 chances and we've been dating for a year now and everything is working out perfectly..I think you should def. give it another try, if he cares about you as much as he says he does..he'll try very hard to make it work out..Please rate me!!:)

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my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him?

You should never break up with a guy on the phone..Try to get him in person, school is starting soon and that should be a perfect oportunity..If it comes down to it, and you don't have any other way..Have one of your friends act like their friends with him and tell him for you..Please rate me!:)

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for some reason guys always take me as a whore..is there anyway i can make them stop thinking that?! i realli need help! i'm so depressed n crying! i'll rate!

Try to make it obvious that your not a whore..Have a party and if people start playing games like spin the bottle or 7th heaven or something like that and it's your turn to go..act like your really scared and that should make people think your not a whore

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