I'm a PUA (Pickup Artist) coach who specializes in teaching men the art of seducing hot women. I've been a member of the seduction/pickup community for many years now. I give men and women the raw truth and advice on dating, sex, love and the sexes.
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why would my ex boyfriend call me a bitch (link)
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I called my girlfriend a bitch just today. The notion of the other commenter, that it's immature to call women bitches; I disagree. My thing is, whenever a girl acts like a bitch: she deserves the title of a bitch. Act lady-like, then she won't be called a bitch.
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My ex-Boyfriend wants to see me. I keep on telling him excuses like-
- I cant. I have to clean my room.
-My mom said i cant...
- I already have plans.
He still just keeps on asking. I have even tried to tell him that i dont like him anymore. He just wont listen! Please help. (link)
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This is what will happen. This happens all the time (I've been there). You will give in to seeing him, have sex again, then the cycle continues.
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Me and this guy I like were texting back and forth. He seemed interested in the conversation he was asking me questions about me complimented me and told me I was pretty and asked me if I was free to hangout. I responded back to him but all of a sudden he stop talking. Now its been days since he responded back. I sent one more message to make sure everything was ok but that was it because I dont want to be annoying. I understand he could have been busy at the time but I would think later he would respond back. Do you know y guys do this? (link)
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It depends on what you replied with. When he asked if y'all can hang out, what did you say? If you turned him down, then that's the reason he didn't reply and fell off the map. Also, the average guy is generally boring and doesn't have much to say, so that's another thing.
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What can you do for days to go faster , since your missing your boyfriend ? (link)
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Do anything. The more you do, the more time passes. Worst thing is to read a book or watch TV. You have to do something which entails getting out the house.
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Hi guys.
So, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We've been living together for a little over a year and everything it's great. Our relationship is so easy. The problem is, my boyfriend is a genius. He has such an intense brain that it is very easy for him to get caught up in it. He gets anxious, restless, and distant very easily. It's never been threatening to our relationship, but it's the only time I ever can't see where he's coming from since I am calm and content and he is always looking for a new project to invest his time in. Anyways, lately it's been exceptionally bad. We barely talk. All he can talk about is his newest project. I'd rather he focus his time on gadgets and inventions than other females, but it's hard to not feel neglected. I've done what I can. I've surprised him with gifts, dinner, cards and everything he likes. He's always grateful, but his attention is usually quickly focused elsewhere. I don't want to ask him to pay more attention to me, because then he'll get stressed out and worry that he won't be able to balance his goals with his relationship and I don't want him to have to sacrifice anything.
On top of that, I'm getting impatient. In January, he and I talked seriously about marriage. I wanted it. He wanted it. We picked a date, a venue, a caterer, and started working out the details. There was no official proposal, but there were hints that one was coming soon. That was 6 months ago, and since then there has been very little mention of marriage. In fact, we haven't talked about it at all. No fight or incident occurred that would make either of us change our mind. Anyways, the date that we had picked out is in 8 months, and I'm starting to realize he has no intention of getting married at that time anymore. I'm ready and don't want to wait any longer, but I think he does. How do I handle our being on different pages? (link)
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Flirt with another guy and it's that simple; he'll get in line. A guy will rarely ever change unless the girl does something on the verge of cheating which will spur him to action to get his act together. Whining and complaining won't help you. Do something to get him jealous or thinking. Start texting more, talking more on phone, etc.
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I've been dating my bf for 3 1/2 months I really adore him but I have a feeling he might be cheating. I'm really emotionally unstable and untrusting because of all my past relationships so its hard for me to trust. I saw a dick pic on his phone that wasn't sent to me but then he explained that he was gonna sext me one night when we were talking dirty etc. I got so upset and he got really upset and apologized for everything and said I was his world and he didn't want to lose me. He is always there to reasure me that things are ok and always answers questions when I have them. Also what bothered me was that he didn't shave for a week and said he was too lazy to (he usually shaves everyday), he changed up his haircut a bit because he said he was bored, and also he said he wanted to shave his happy trail cause it made him hot lol. That made me a little nervous like why the sudden change in appearance? I looked through his phone and didn't find anything but I was so paranoid and thought maybe he deleted stuff. Its driving me insane I really do love him but i'm just so insecure. Help? (link)
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The thing that you or any other woman should understand is that men are biologically programmed to be promiscuous and deal with more than 1 woman. It's in his nature. You either have to live with it or be single forever because every man is liable of cheating since it's his nature and in his biological makeup for over millions of years.
Check out the following links to articles I'd written on this:
The biology of cheating men: http://kennyspuathoughts.com/2012/02/04/the-biology-of-cheating-menwomen-must-read-this/
What women should understand about men: http://kennyspuathoughts.com/2012/12/28/what-women-should-understand-about-the-male-psyche-add-this-to-the-new-years-resolution-list/
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hi so my bf and i were together 3 months and he was so protective to the point he wouldnt let me go to the bar with my friends or talk to my guy friends, he also got really mad when i told my closest friends about the problems we were having so i broke up with him but about two weeks later we got back together and he promised things would be different and i believed him... now its been about a month and the things aren't changing. He's still really jealous and he always gets really mad at me when he's drunk . a couple days ago he went through my phone... if a person goes through your phone that means to me there is no trust any more and he says it isnt that but what else could it be. thats a big thing for me so i told him i need time to think if i want to be with him or not. since then ive got tons of texts saying thats over and he gets one more chance and he will change. will he change of is this just a bad cycle?
Please, i need someones advice :(
Kaaitlyn (link)
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You need to understand the male psyche and how men think and how we are on a biological level. Men are protective of their women; just as any other male specie in the animal kingdom. You're a woman so you will never understand this nature in men. All men have it; some much, some less. But he's just trying to guard and protect his woman from other men, just as the lion guards the lioness from preying alpha-male lions. Same thing.
You can check out my blog for further posts: http://kennyspuathoughts.com/
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So this past week i was at a camp and there's this girl i like she's a year younger than me and i had a crush on her but she might do the camp next year or she might not but we live in different towns and i'm too old to do the camp next year but even if my sister does it my crush may not do it but we barley know each other and we don't have an e-mail, phone #, address, etc. for each other so i don't know how to keep in touch with her and her dad is a state trooper so i don't want to do anything that might upset him cause my crush isn't allowed to date till high school and i don't know how to spell there last name. (link)
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I'm curious to know if you got this girl yet.
Just for future reference, please do not waste time when it comes to the girl you want. Always act fast! Learn from your mistakes.
Check out my blog if you want to learn how to pick up girls the best way: http://kennyspuathoughts.com/
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I just started speaking to this boy and at first conversation he was extremely nice! And he said he would speak again with me he said i was hot too, we agreed to do silly stuff, like he'd teach me the break dance and stuff like that but after like 3 weeks he never popped up again.. We started speaking again when I moved to the same town like 4 days ago, I go out and 'hang' out with my mates and stuff around the street but they don't live in the same town so they get a bus home, and I have to walk home every time, so I was walking home and him and 2 friends were behind my on bikes because he lives close to me, but he started saying my name in a high pitched voice and slowly and his mate was like 'stop being a pedo' and the next day, he said 'hi (insert my name here)' from across the street when he was with his mates and we started speaking after that, he says talk later, but he doesn't I had to start the conversation and I hate that there's nothing I hate more than that, but I might have gone into too much detail but I just need advice ! Whether he wants me to speak to him or not ! Please I don't know what to do? :/ and he's 2 years older so I really don't know :( help please! :'( thanks for the answers in advance!:) (link)
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This guy obviously isn't a guy nor a real guy for that matter. Seems just to be interested in making his friends see that he has a girl who's dying over him. Leave him alone, and watch he'll get his act together...if he likes you.
Although my blog gives men advice on dating and stuff, there still might be some stuff that would interest a girl: http://kennyspuathoughts.com/
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