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There is nothing to say really i tried to be a columnist in bliss magazine but theres all these proffessionals that have been doing it for years. So i decided why not this i love to help people and i am good at advice my parents have always told me if you have a talent use it dont keep it from everyone so thats what i am doing.
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ok im 13 8th grade and this guy asked me to go with him.
i really dont know how to say no to guys.
I AM EXTREMLY NOT ATRACTED TO HIM.
and i dont want to go with him.
hes going to kiss me.
PLEASE HELP.
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Just Simply Let Him Know You Have A Date, Or Maybe That You Might Not Like To Go. The Best Thing To Do Thought Is Say Your Not My Type Sorry Good Luck With That xxx


hi, i need some advice, i gave my now ex boyfriend a lend of some money& said he would pay me back , but hasnt yet/ i dont want to get his parents involed/ i need to know how to get the money back soon. (link)
1st rule with ex's NEVER LEND THEM MONEY but now as thats 2 late we can move on. Tell him to give you your money back or you will have to ask his parents for it. He doesnt know you arnt goin to tell anyway. Or just don lend him money again but you HAVE to get it off him he is being a jerk.


There's this guy whom I really don't like to fall in love with. Guess why? Because he's a playboy, rich-type and handsome...a perfect heart breaker. I know if I'll let myself fall inlove then It'll be a great mistake. But now, i thought about it sometime and realized that even though I retreat on his going near and etc., I care for his welfare and now that he's in a gang. I'm worried.I don't know really why. My question is why is it that when we met last time the question that popped in his mind was the one that was an embarrassing moment for me and him? That was the time that we just saw each other after a year, though he knows that I was the one who fainted and he was even the one who carried me. Why would he ask (link)
Ignore him dont answer him you know you shouldnt so follow your heart. He asked because he likes to toy with your mind these type of boys are the kind that get young girls just like you to turn into terrible brats he wants to get to you so dont let him just give him a look of contempt and walk away. This is the time when you need your friends with you so stay with your friends and walk away.


Same guy here from the "Romantic or Creepy?!" Topic earlier,

LadyGoodman mentioned that she would find it creepy if she made it very clear that she wasn't interested before.
My question is WHEN does a women actually make it very clear that she's not interested,
I mean when they are interested, they play hard to get or they are nice, they're not interested they are nice or they do what, to me, looks like playing hard to get...
Personally I would only take it as very clear when she literally tell's me not to bother her again, or to F%$#-off, and I'd be happy to hear the plain and simple truth, but women have NEVER done that to me, they just keep me on a line till I just stop calling them.

I have kissed this specific girl on at least five seperate occations, I've seen her jeolous at least once, and she has been playing hard to get practically the whole time.
I am as sure that she likes me as I can get, but then again, she's not awnsering her phone at the moment... in fact she turned off her cell, I'll still give her time tho.

Please girls, help a dumbass out, how or when are you saying "not interested"? (link)
Well ask them Say I Need to know where i stand plain and clear if they like you they will tell after all if you liked a girl would you say no so she would ignore you? Girls and boys are the same no matter what anyone says we may not have the same interests but our emotions are the same. Remember no one likes to be kept in the dark.


http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=387836 (old question)

(New question based on old question.)
Okay... I figured out why he hasn't tried contacting me. (It is by far the worst reason possible.) I finally found a number through directory assistance, called it, and a woman answered. I was so shocked. I made up some crap about how I was from the hotel he stayed in and he had left his hat (the one he had given to me) and asked her if she wanted us to ship it back. It was the correct number because she said she'd leave him the message and have him call me back. She even knew which hat I was talking about.

After that, I did some research on the internet with the number I found. I am 99% positive HE IS MARRIED and has TWO KIDS. He lied to me, told me he was single. He had told me when we were together that his ex-girlfriend (what he really meant was his wife) had written him a letter while he was in Iraq telling him basically "cya, can't take it anymore." So I think maybe the marriage is faltering/on shakey ground, especially since he is about to be deployed soon and is wondering if she will leave him again.

HOWEVER, I know this is no excuse to lie to me and does not give him a reason to cheat on her. I have NO SYMPATHY for him. I am so glad I found this little bit of info out now, instead of wasting my heart on him. And he told me he didn't have any secrets. (Hmph!)

But I am soooooo hurt. Especially since I broke up with my previous boyfriend because of all the lies he told. Now this. Believe me, it's going to be very very hard for me to ever trust a man again. I feel like such a fool.

I'm going to send the hat back. I'm so angry right now. Maybe I'll send it back in shreds. I feel like screaming in his face or telling his wife what a &%*#%*$ he is. I feel like crying but right now I'm too much in shock to do so. I'm so stupid, but I suppose this experience will make me a wiser and stronger person... or at least an old maid.

Why do guys lie? Will I ever find someone who is not going to lie to me? Even if I find the greatest man in the world, will I screw it up because I'll be paranoid that he is lying to me? How do I deal with all this heartbreak? (link)
Just because there was 1 bad seed doesnt mean all men are first of all, think about your old boyfriend. Okay Ditch him he's playing you around if he cheated on his wife who's to say he wouldnt cheat on you he is nasty peice of work and you could do better without him.


Hey there! Currently I'm friends with this guy named "Rainbow", and just recently, I'm beginning to have feelings for him. He was like really nice and we could talk-story, and be comfortable around each other. Everytime during passing from class to class, we would say "hi" to each other, then break into conversation. But the weirdest thing is that now, we no longer say "hi" to each other, nor talk story. It's like we've never met, and all of this changed over the course of one week. I honestly feel that my feelings are becoming really evident, and it's making everything soo awkward between us. But what I am confused about is this: why is he acting weird around me too? i've always recieved mixed signals, but what else can i do to not make the situation more weird for us, but to restore it back to normal?

i am 15/f, and he is 16/m. (link)
Talk to him, say hello first. Confront him about your feelings maybe he feels weird around you and embarrased because he has a crush on you but dont say this to him he will admit it in his own time. If you like him make him feel manly and warm by being friendly to him.


There is this guy I like and i dont know if he likes me. he says he likes talking to me most in school but yet since people are making fun of our friendship he dont want to talk to me in person. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. What do I do?? (link)
Maybe you could find out if he has a phone or computer there are so many ways to talk to someone with technology. This guy shouldnt care so much what other people think if he is like that i wouldnt bother its pointless hanging on to him if he feels embarrased by it. Its his fault not yours and no matter what people say he WILL realise this dont you worry about that he will be back.


i like this guy, i dont want to but i do. i say im over him to my friends and i act like i dont care, but underneath it all, i still have feelings for him. we have a history, i guess you can say we liked eachother, but then things got screwed up and he kissed some random girl when he was drunk. that really hurt me but of course i forgived him and i guess we were just friends since that point.. but now he met another girl, a really pretty nice girl, and of course im jealus i want him to stil like me again but i know that will never happen. recently we havent been talking as much, over this stupid hurricane it sorta put a damper in our friendship, i already lost him as a romantic figure, now i guess i just want him as a friend if thats all i can have, but i want to get over him. i dont know what i should do. (link)
Hi i think that is a really hard thing to do, let
go but you can do it. I am going through the exact same thing and yes it is upsetting but the thing is no matter what you have to say something if not to him why not confront in a mater or teacher parent. Even better idea why not start a diary it really does help express your feelings wait till this boy is single then talk to him. Meanwhile focus on another boy yuo like maybe something will happen.




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