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Hi, My name is Jessica, but you can call me Jess =] I'm 16 and a sophomore in high school. I work at Dunkin Donuts, it's not the greatest job in the world but it gets me by. I write poetry, sing, act and I love to party and have a good time, this is the time where you live your life, everything comes later. So live it up! I've had alot of experience in the "love life", some not so great but i take my mistakes as lessons and it helps me prevent from making the same mistakes again. I'm here to help anyone and get to know anyone, so go ahead and ask away. You can also send me questions in my inbox. Thanks =]

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(1) my boyfriend and i threw a party and he madeout with two gay guys and got a huge hicky from one. so i kissed (a little more than a peck) a gay guy to show my boyfriend how it hurts. So did i cheat or did he cheat?



As wierd as this question is, you both cheated. I don't think revenge was the best solution, since two wrongs don't make a right. But you both should know better, thats just silly.

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alrite. so me & my ex boyfriend broke up in the begining of the summer becasse he was doing stuff he was not supposed to be doing. no it wasn't cheating. & i still care about him but i know for a fact he don't care about me anymore. i already talk to him. didn't help. what do i do?

If you still have feelings for your ex and he doesn't, you have to be patient. He won't automatically fall in love with you again. Try talking to him often and give him space. Start it off friendly then see where it is becoming to be, a good friendship or the start of a new love relationship. Just take your time, don't rush, he'll come around.

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Well I'll start it off like this...

Im 16,I went out with this guy named Steve who is now 17 about a year and a half ago. it ended cuz i cheated on him but i didnt mean for it to happen. anyways we both got into other relationships but i never stopped liking him i actually have more feelings for him now then i ever had in the past..i broke up with the guy i was with but hes still with this girl ..anyways we never stopped talkin and well we've hung out and done some sexual things in the last month and he says he considers us friends with benefits..but that he never has stopped liking me.. i wanna be more then that and he knows that..but i dont kno what to do..him and his current girlfriend dont really get along and are more of a sexual relationship..i really want to be with steve and i need any advice i can get on wut to do or try..thanks so much

boys name has been changed

you said the your relationship ended because you cheated, does he know he's doing the same to his girlfriend? i think you should resist from letting "Steve" use you like that. If he truly liked you he would be with you and not consider you as a friend with benefit. He's pretty much syaing, i'm using you for your body. Tell him that you feel uncomfortable knowing that he's fooling around with two different girls and that you want him to yourself, just try not to make it sounds obsessive/over-protected, just explain that your feelings are getting stronger and that you think you should be together.

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13/f

ok theres this guy that i like hes in my grade and i wanna tell him that i like him but .... hes not like the most attractive guy ya know and no body knows i like him.. and a lot of people think that he likes me and if they fine out i like him then i think ill get made fun of or something... idk and he always guessing who i like .... and i dont know what to do! please help! thanks!!

why care what people think? i think you should go for it. you shouldnt care what people think, as long as your happy and he is too. I'm pretty sure that other girls in the school date "unattractive" guys too, but do you think they care what people think. Half the people you know in high school, you'll never see again but you want to have the most fun you can have and being with someone you really like will be.

hope i helped, let me know.

-jess

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