hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this
Time out is like a hands-off relationship, basically.. and if thats not what he means by it, then just keep it hands-off and let him make the first move..
-Christine
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i need help writing a poem or any ideas about poems. does anyone know any sites with good love poems by teens? i tried searching but it was no use. =/ the topic is, this one guy and i e to be close and stuff and now it all just drifted away. if anyone can help, let me know, I'll IM you or something. Thanks =) I rate GOOD!
http://www.best-love-poems.com/
on the left hand column, it has choices of love poems.. (i.e. lost love, secret love, sensual love)
-Christine
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I've known this guy since like 2nd grade. He and I have been boyfriend and girlfriend off and on for about 2 years. He and i usually hook up most during the summer and not much during the school year. My friends say that we sould either stay friends or boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't really know which one i should choose. i really like him saome days and don't really talk to him others. should we be boyfriend and girlfriend or stayt friends? thanx
dont listen to your friends, you dont have to stay either a boyfriend/girlfriend or just friends..you can have an on-and-off relationship..i mean hell if its worked since 2nd grade, then maybe there's a reason its been working..maybe when your older you can get serious about things..who knows..
-Christine
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is it possible for a guy to like a girl that is shy..? I'm always sort of quiet.. and it's not like I'm not outgoing sometimes but I'm not loud and I usually keep to myself because everyone in my school is against my opinions and I get shot down anyway.. and there's a guy I like and I'm not sure if he feels the same because.. he's always hanging around me, sometimes I'll look up and see him glance at me.. *sigh* just need some direction..
yes, its possible for guys to like girls :-)..I'm probaly one of the shyest girls on this planet and I have a boyfriend..if he hangs arounds you and the whole school is against your opinions, then there's a really good shot he likes you..flirt with him, see his reactions..and if you're thinknig 'I'm too shy to flirt'. Well then just talk to him and eventually he'll come around to flirting with you. Then its a sure sign that he likes you.
-Christine
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I like this boy called Daniel, but I don’t know what to do! Today in PE my friends were saying, "Let’s call Lauren's (my) crush Daz, as a code name. As in Daniel" (they have these sad code names for the boys they fancy, like carrot and cabbage). I didn't tell them that I fancied him, but they must know, and plus in art, one of them asked if I fancied Dan. I shook my head but I was smiling a bit so I guess they knew =( I'm really scared they'll tell him! he said he liked my drawing in art, and that it was better than his, and he kept touching my foot with his foot under the desk too. and my friend was making fun of me, and he stuck up for me, then he said "I'm only defending Lauren" when my mate asked why. that was a few days ago, and now he's just ignoring me (I think he was looking at me, but I was scared I would start blushing if I looked at him, so I guess I'm ignoring him too) I'm real shy + ugly lol so I don’t know what to do! I'd love to go out with him but I'm scared my friends would laugh because they always fancy popular, 'hard' boys who get into fights. Dan is really sweet and mature. and plus he probably doesn’t even like me =/ any easy tips on flirting for SHY people? 'Cos I’m not good at flirting lol =\ please help? Thanks =)
Your friends sound really immature..I mean come on..they only go for the popular guys? They'll grow up eventually..anyway..I'd make a move on ths Dan kid soon...and it sounds like he does like you and is probaly in the same situation as you are, like scared of what will happen I guess..i mean come on..he was playing footsie's with you..flirting for shy people..hmm..when he flirts, just flirt back a little bit..this way you're not going overboard and you dont have to start it.. when he looks at you just smile, it will give him the impression you like him..
-Christine
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Recently my boyfriend and I moved in together. Afterwards I found out he has been making new female friends and not telling me. He never talks to them when I'm arond and only on his cell phone (never our home phone)and calls have been made and recieved all hours of the day and night even as late as 1:00-3:00am. I am ok with his previous female friends, the ones he had before we met, but don't like the new ones. He said he wouldn't do this anymore, if I was uncomfortable with it and stopped talking to them for a few weeks. I recently found out he has a new female in his life and again didn't tell me. Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be bothered by this?
Chill out..I'm sure you dont have a friend thats a guy? I mean really..if he moved in with you then it means your something to him, unlike the other chicks that me nothing..i personally think you're overreacting.., not to sound too harsh or anything..
-Christine
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Me and my boyfriend has been dating for about eight months now and i love him to death.. i mean he is my world, my everything, my one and only, but i feel like i am causing problems for him and his friends who was here before me, i mean he ignores them when i am around and now they are mad at him, and i feel bad i mean i dont want to break up a friendship thats been there for 6 years, i mean she was there before me, but the thing is if he chooses he has to choose one of us because we dont like each other REALLY HATE EACH OTHER.. but like i said i love him and i dont want him to think i am making him choose but i also dont want them to not be friends.. what should i do???
well.tough situation here..dont make him choose at all..tell him that you dont mind if you spend time with his friends..or you and him can spend time with his friends together, you might really hate her, but there's always some sort of good in a person ;-)..if he's friends with her, there has to be a reason..give her a chance..and if you all ready have..well then there's always seconds chances..just dont make him choose..
-Christine
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I am a 28 year old male with 2girls 4,and9 been with their mom 10years very happy!!Asked her to marry me she said yes ,things were grate 4 amonth and now she cant stand me for the most part but still afectionate and also head strong on moving out pleas help loves ontheline!!!!!
most likely fear of making a commitment..like when you arent married she can pick up and move out.. just sit her down and talk to her, about what she's afraid of and what not..because if you've been with her for 10 years and she stuck around, then there has to be a reason for it.. and make it clear that you love her..
-Christine
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I actually have 2 kinda random questions. Number 1. How do you get to the music part of xanga? I can't figure it out.
Number 2. okay, right, i like hanging out with guys for no apparent reason, but for some reason, all of my guy friends always think i'm interested in them in a different way. Some even get mad when they find out i don't like them that way, i don't want to get into that kinda relationship with a friend. What do i do?
My only friends are guys too...I know where you're coming from..maybe you are interested in them in different ways, friendship wise that is..jus relax, (most) guys usually think that they can make any girl fall for them and that girls only talk to them if they're interested..its most likely not you, its the way a guy thinks..
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i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on.i feel stupid when i cry to. please give me something..
Don't feel stupid when you cry, that will just make things worse, because well crying isnt stupid. You're just emotional because your relationship between friends may change, dont worry its normal..if you're being told "you're going to get hurt or cheated on" means there's 1 of 2 options 1.) they're jealous 2.) If they're friends,and just trying to help...if you're relationship with you're friends is changing, maybe they think you're putting your boyfriend first..hang out with them on a friday night, let them know they come first..
I hoped I helped, or atleast gave you an idea..
Its okay to cry and good luck!
-Christine
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well im goin out with this guy my mom hates and i mean she really hates him.... and she wants me to stop seeing him but i told her no and i got into this big fight with my mom but i really like this guy but my mom thinks hes not right for me.......what should i do??? ive already tired telling her how i feel about this guy but she wont listen
Try to keep the good in this. As it was already said, invite him over for dinner..yeah it will be awkward for him and your mom at first..but eventually everything will be calm...get them talking about things they both have in common,i guess..like bring out the good in your boyfriend..if your mom doesnt agree to letting him over for dinner..tell her 'Mom, you have to trust me on this one" ...or 'You're the one that raised me, and you did a good job,I wouldnt bring someone over that you wouldnt approve of"..something like that.
Good luck
-Christine
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this kid started liking me about 2 or 3 weeks ago. he used to say wicked sweet things all the time like how perfect i was and he'd never do anything to hurt me. i really started to like him too. we went to the movies and kissed and stuff and we kept talking and he told me he never met anyone like me and i meant so much to him. wel about a week ago, he stopped saying all this stuff and i just got the feeling he didnt like me anymore. my friend told me she talked to him and he said he likes me still he just doesnt want a g/f.. and idk he told me he loved me and i dont understand how you say that then 2 weeks later you "dont want a girlfriend" i really wanna tlak to him but i have no idea what to say/ask or if i should even talk to him about it at all and just wait things out for a while?.. please help & thanks a ton in advance
Well. That sounds like guy. Wait it out for like a week. If the guy is that questionable that he's not worth it. But don't make a bigger deal out of it..like dont get your hopes up..maybe write him a note asking 'whats going to happen' ..I dont want to tell you what to do, just throwing ideas at you..
Good luck,
-Christine
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I really need to talk to my friend but there is never any time and I dont know what to do. So what do i do at this point please help!
it sounds really important. and if its as important as it seems. stop her in the hall, if you're late for class, you're late for class, (go to the nurse and fake being sick if thats what it takes to get a pass to not get marked late) I mean friends are there for each other no matter what. If you dont see her at school, call her. If you dont get her then leave a message stressing how important it is.. But talk to her before something happens that you might regret.
-Christine
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