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My name is Shayna.I am 13 years old.I am from a fairly big town in Connecticut.My parents are divorced.I live with my mom and visit my dad every other weekend.I have alot of friends.I love giving advice!!
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ok so ive been on and off with my boyfreind for a year and a half now, and he just asked me back out a few days ago...but i still have other guys i like from wen we werent going out. And some of my old boyfreinds are coming back into my life now..not sure y..i mean i love my boyfreind right now, but i dont get to see him all the time, and i am a reallllllly bad flirt. I dont want to cheat on him, but i dont wanna turn down all these other guys...im too nice to do that. I really wanna be with my boyfreind but i feel like i'll b with him for the rest of my life, so i kinda want time away from him for now...i odnt mean to sound like a slut, cuz it wouldnt be like that, i just want to be able to hang out with other guys, but my boyfreind doesnt like that and gets really jealous, wat should i do?

If your boyfriend gets jealous when you talk/hang out w/ guys maybe its time to let go of him.The reason he gets fealous is because he doesn't trust you.You need a boyfriend that trusts you.Hope that helps you!Goodluck

-Shayna-

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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend

As hard as it seems you must tell someone.He might do this to someone else.She may hate you but your saving another girls life and self-esteem.She will thank you eventually.Talk to someone.Don't kill him!lol!!Hope i helped.

-:-Shayna-:-

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I'v always had low self esteem and latley i'v been feeling a little better about myself. I always wish how i had a bf or someone who cares about me like that but i never ask guys anything cuz im to shy. I'm kinda the type of girl who mostly has guy friends but not the really hott popular ones because im to shy to talk to them. I'd just like to have someone there for me thats more then a friend but i never think that anyone will like me. I hate having low self esteem and i try to do things to help it but nothing ever works. is there a way to make me feel better about myself besides a "make over" cuz im not tha girly and its juss not my thing, and is there a way to maybe get noticed more?

It's hard to be confident when you shy.Sometimes you just have to face your fears.Your fear is being embarrassed.You don't want to say something stupid or do something stupid.You have confidence but it's bottled up inside you and you don't want to let it out.But sometimes you have to pop the cap on the bottle.Go up to one of the popular peoples and before you do breath.You can change yourself a little bit by adding a little makeup,change your style,and your hairstyle.It's also good to talk to them if they drop a pen or something.If they don't,take one of yours and ask them if it's theirs.That's a way to strike up a convo!

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months this guy jake all of the sudden starts liking me and all of my friends are telling me to break up with my boyfriend and go out with jake because jake seems way nicer and that he would treat me better. they say this because my boyfriend is kind of scared to make the first move and its fine im not in no big hurry but jake n i were talking and he said that my boyfriend doesnt give me what i want and he was talking about .. you know.. well c i dont know if jake only likes me for that or because of my personality and stuff and he said i was awesome n nice ? help

Who do you love.Don't break up with your boyfriend if you love him.If you don't love your boyfriend break up with him.Also, if your boyfriend treats you bad then get rid of him.But don't leave someone just because your friends say so.Do what your heart thinks.

-:-Shayna-:-

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ok well heres the deal..i REALLY like this guy and hes sooo sweet! he told me i was hott and hes always talking to me and leading me on..and if he askes me out..i would have my first boyfriend ever. thing is, one of my best friends supposedly "loves" him and she doesnt even know him and they never talk..unlike me i have talked to him lots of times. and now my best freind and him are starting to talk like online, but he ignores her a lot so he can talk to me..and shes making it seem like a competition and always rubbing things in my face whenever they have sumthing in common. another thing it, she knows that he likes me, but she doesnt know that i like him...its really confusing. if she found out she would be soo upset..she even said "if u ever liked him i would hate u" and i dont know what to do cuz shes had tons of boyfriends and i really want this guy to be my first bf. pleas help..ill rate everyone.

Do you want a friend that would hate you over something so stupid?She doesnt want you to have a boyfriend.She wants you to be lonely.If you really like him you should go for it.And if your friend hates you for it oh well.You now know who your real friends are.Don't let her keep you from having a life and a boyfriend.Have fun.She isn't a friend if she will hate you over something like that.

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