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My name is Amanda. I am 17. I love helping people out since i can't help myself and i dont think anyone else can either. If i seem like a bitch its because i say how i feel and i really dont care what you think about it. I dont change myself for NO ONE. If you dont like me, then tough shit cuz i dont care!
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I'm 13 and never been kissed all my friends have. and all my friends have boyfriends and i don't, is there something wrong with me. I think it might be because I take things slow with guys. please help!!!!!!!!!!!
There is nothing wrong with you hunnie! im 16 and i never really had my first kiss either. Just stupid little kisses during truth or dare. But just wait it out and it will happen sooner or later. But your first kiss should be special and romantic not just like with someone you dont even know. So i would just wait and not try to hard to look desperate to get kissed. Hope i helped!
im really tired of being single and miss having a boyfriend, but im gonna be a Jr. and i think i should get serious about school and my future. Should i get a boyfriend or just worry about school?
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-twiSted
Well you should worry more about school but a boyfriend is always good. I havent had a boyfriend in highschool yet but im not worried because being single means that you can play around and flirt all you want =) lol hope i helped!
I was recently torn between two guys and now i finally realized that i love my ex. Now that im back with him, we never talk and we never see each other. I love him to DEATH but i dont know what to do...Anyone know what to do?!
well i think that you should ask him to make time to see you and hang out. If that doesn't work then maybe it wasn't ment to be. I know if that was my boyfriend, i would ask him right off the bat if he wanted to hang out! but yah hope i helped!
my boyfriend just recently told me that he still had feelings for his ex, but he still liked mel.Should i stay w/ him or tell him that its over?
hey i know this is a little late but i have some advice for you if you still want it. Well, if my boyfriend still had feelings for his ex then i would wait a little while then see what he does about it. If he really wants her over you then he will do something about it. But just wait it out and see what happens, but if you feel like he is really cheating on you the buh-bye to him! anyways sorry about the delay i havent checked this thing in a while! hope i helped !
well this kid and i have been on and off for 3 years. its kinda hard to admit, but ive always been the one to hurt him. wenever we liked e.o somehow or another i end up going out with another guy, and kinda just leaving him hanging. he has always been good about it, and never leaves me. well this time we have had something for about 2 months, but we arnt dating. this time i really like him a lot, but i wanted to take it slow and not date him until im ready and sure that my feelings wont change, cuz i dont wanna hurt him again. so we were fine, then theres this girl who used to be my best friend, and we havnt talked in months, cuz of something stupid, but now we hate e.o. he was cuddling with her, and now just told me he was breaking things off with me to see wat its like to be with her. he said he still cares for me a lot, and that we have somehting special and that wont ever change, and that he just needs some time to see what else is out there, since he has been liking only me for 3 years. i want to let him go so badly, cuz ive done it to him so many times, but it hurts so bad, expecially cuz its with someone i hate the most and he knos it. i jst wish he wouldnt leave me, even tho i kno he will be back, i kinda feel like a backup, but i keep thinking about how much ive hurt him. i dont know what to do, ive been crying for 3 days, since he told me he needed to do this. ugh please help me if you have ne idea wat i should do.
i thynk you should follow your heart do whut you feel is ryte .. i realy dont kno whut to say ive never been in that positionn ... but hope i helped email me if you need any more helpp ..
xOox MAndah
well i was going out with my boyfriend for six months and on the first date he went up my shirt so we have always gone fast. on the fourth date he came to my house and we were kissing the way down to the basement and so when we got down there i hadda go up to close the door and when i got back doown he was naked and he started kidding me while taking off my cloths and stuff. and he fingered me, ate my funny i have him a handy and a blow job. and then we had sex. i love it (HIS DICK IS HUGE!) but then two months later after having sex 17 more times he dumpoed me and i started going out with this other guy even though i like the first guy but i had sex and stuff with the second guy and then my first guy started liking me so i started cheeting on my bf with him and i dont know what to do. help please!!!!!
well lets see .. you need to make up your mind first .. then you need to see who is worth it cuz it sound like to me that the first guy only used you fr sex cuz then he dumped you .. you shouldnt cheat on anybody no matter whut it just shouws your unfaithful .. but anyways you shouldreally make up your mind about which guy you wnt to be with .. like make a list to see who is better or sumthing. hope i helped !xOox MAndah
i hate my life .. i dont think ill ever beh good enough for this guy i like .. i just wish he new how much i liked him .. then mayb he would give meh a a chance .. i kno im onlii 14 nd gunnah b 15 inna month buh i rly rly like him .. i just wish i was good enough .. and he just ended a relationship with his girl .. and now that hes available .. i wanna go out with him nd he flirts with meh nd everii thin .. buh its not goin ne where .. i just need some advise on what to do so .. What should i do ??
well tell him that you like him .. dont tell him you love him if you didnt already .. when he flirts flirt back and shit .. start hangin out with him more show him that you like him alot and want to go out and let him get to kno you more to see if he likes you .. just be yourself when your around him dont act all fake and shit .. act natural .. let it happen naturally ..just be more open around him hint it to him that your interested andim sure your good enuff for him if he was really worth it he would go for whats on the inside not the outside.. hope i helped tiff
okay..im so like..head over heals in love with my boyfriend jeremy..but the thing is..hes black and im white..which is NO big deal to me and all because i think that it dont matter as long as your inlove! well..my parents would like..kick me out of the house if they new i was dating a black guy..and now i really dont know what to do because i dont want to do this to my parents..but i love jeremy to death..weve been going out for over 5 months and i dont want to end it at all..but like one of my best friends is saying how like she wont be around me because she dosent like the way he has treated me..but he has changed! so i really dont know what to do..and like i cant talk to my mom about it because she would FLIP!..if yo where me what would you do?
well if you really love him then stay with him .. your parents cant stop you from seeing somebody .. they may object at first but im sure once they get to know him they might like him .. as for your friend .. have him prove to her that he has changed .. make like a date when you all can hang out and she can get to kno him better .. well IM m3h on AIM if you need anything else alryte sO kiiSsaBle xO ..
Okay well me and this one guy have been seeing each other for awhile and im sure hes going to ask me out soon just because he said he had to ask me something really important this week but i dont know what i want to say because hes 3 1/2 years older than me... im saying hes a real sweetie and stuff its just i dont want him to pressure me into doing stuff i dont want to do.. i was just wondering what u would do if u were in my place...
well if i was in your place i would go out with the guy if you really like him .. and see how it goess .. and if he pressures you into doin stuff then simpkly tell him no i dont want to and if he forces you to then you obviously do sumthin about it lol .. well just dont do anything you dont want to doo =] hope i helped xOox Mandah
This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks
you may or you may not .. i am 15 and goin in the 10 grade and i havent had a REAL relationship yet but i have had boifriedsz before .. but it really depends on what the guys are looking for .. hope i helped ! xOxO MAndah
I haven't had my first kiss yet. Everyone makes a big deal about it, but whatever. I know that it will suck because I don't know what the hell i'd do with my lips or anything, but uhhh, like what would I say after were done if I was horrible and he knew it? I know i'd be embarassed and I dont know what I would say?
well im 15 yearsz old and i haven`t gotten my first kiss yet i guess im just a late bloomer .. but i aint worried about it =]