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i'm a lifeguard. there's this girl i work with [let's call her M], and she and i have really hit it off. what she doesn't know is that i have a girlfriend.
i find that i flirt a lot; not on purpose, but i do. especially if the girl a. is gorgeous and
b. likes the same music as me.
i find it hard to resist. i'm good looking [and walking around all day without a shirt on just boosts my ego], and i find it to be a huge ego boost when it's obvious that girls are looking at me, and even more when i know that they're flirting back.
what's happening to me now is the same thing that happened last summer: i have a girlfriend, but i find it increasingly difficult to resist the temptation to leave her and go have some fun all summer. the hardest part is that she's leaving for france in a week and will be gone for three weeks. let me get this straight: i would never cheat; but i don't know what to do. i want to go and have fun and meet a bunch of new people; what i don't want to do is hurt anyone.
i'm scared. i think i'm going to fall into the temptation to cheat if i don't do something about this; but once again, i don't know what to do. i think i love my girlfriend, but at the same time i want to go hang out with M.....
any help would be greatly appreciated.
thanks.
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well im going to start off my saying i love that you have self confidence. i find that very sexy in a guy. and i also understand you when you say you flirt accidentally . because my friends say i do the same. anyways if you want to hangout with your girlfriend wait three weeks! if you cant seem to wait 3 short weeks for the girl you think you love. im pretty sure you don't love her. just be smart. don't hurt someone you care about.
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Recently, I just found out that the boy I've liked for 2 and a half years doesn't like me. But I don't know if he was lying because everyone is saying he is lying but I'm not so sure. And I've liked him for this long so I think we are meant to be. Please help me!!! I really do love him and I think I'm in love wit him. (link)
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ok well i see the problem here. you haven't asked him if he liked you! its that simple. find out straight from the source! good luck :]
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14/F
Okay. Like, really, I am about ready to just give up on guys. Ugh. So this guy I like right now (well not really anymore) is a complete ahole, I don't even know why I like him. But he really only just wants to feel me up. Everytime I text him or call him, he says he's busy and that he'll text/call me when he's done... he NEVER does. But of course, whenever he calls/texts I should just be ready to talk to him. I don't know... He's sweet, but, what the hell?
Then there was the last guy I liked. I really, really, really, liked him for like two years, but he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. Which I can get because, yeah, I'm young and stuff so I thought we'd just wait till like highschool or something. Yeah well, he moved away. F my life.
And it kind of sucks because my three bestfriends are all insanely pretty, and I mean, I know I'm pretty too, but they're gorgeous. It sucks so bad that whenever we go out, the boys all flirt with them and then they turn to me like a sloppy second. Plus all of the guys at school like me, but they made this like "Top Five Hot Girls" and I wasn't on it. I know its stupid and dumb and immature and I should waste my time worrying about it, but it hurts you know? I love my friends, and they're the best but it's so hard hanging out with them, because all I can do is compare myself and it's all because I have sucky self esteem.
Then there's this other guy that I kind of like right now. But because I'm an idiot, I like threw myself at him. Like I tried to talk to him 24/7 so I looked like a creepy obsessed girl... and well I think I blew it with him which really stinks cuz I think it could have worked. And that whole ordeal really hasn't helped my confidence much at all.
So at the moment, I'm kind of just ready to give up. I think about all of that stuff I just wrote and, God, I feel so pathetic. I feel ugly and gross and unwanted and stupid. What the hell is wrong with me? Why can't I just be happy with myself? Why do these dumb boys' opinions matter to me so much? (link)
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well its normal for a girl your age to love and want attention from boys. but it is important to remember that boys aren't everything, although in H.S it might be hard to accept that. i think you should try telling your friends how you feel. maybe they can help increase your confidence. don't feel "ugly and gross and unwanted and stupid" because im sure you are not. you said so yourself that boys in your school like you. maybe its time to meet a new boy. Now that you know what u did wrong with the previous ones you will be able to have successful relationship.
good luck and keep your head up :]
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16/f
i'm actually not sure if my boyfriend is forcing me to stay with him or anything, it's just that me and him has been together for about seven months. sometimes, when me and him get into a fight, i would try to break up with him.. but then he would just cry and beg me to stay. but sometimes, i feel like i want to leave and be single but hearing him cry always gets to me. i always start crying because he cries, my heart feels heavy. i wasn't sure if that him crying would hold me back from what i wanted to do... or i just notice that i really do like him? i'm not sure... help me please? (link)
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i think its unreasonable for him to cry whenever you try and breakup with him. but before you breakup with him you should really think about how you feel for this person. if he is truly the one for you than of course stay with him. but if not...don't wast your time. follow through with your decision and don't let him change your mind.
good luck :}
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I wanna know everyones' opinions on age differences in relationships. Mind you, this is out of total curiosity, as a friend of mine and I were discussing this the other day. So I just want to know what you think, like, how big of a difference is too much, and what not. (link)
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well i am one of those people who likes to think age is just a number. but the law likes to disagree with me. in a relationship i feel the age difference should stop around 5 or so years(when you are still in your teen and early adult hood ages.) but as friends who cares?
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So I am really really into my next door neighbor, he's my age and we're friends. We hang out a lot . But i thought at the beginning of the summer that he might be into me and i've liked him for the past few months. My friend just told me though, that he told her he doesn't like me, his exact words were ... noo, that would just be wierd... I really feel the need to get over him because i would much rather be friends then nothing, and liking him and not being liked back will get in the way of a friendship. I have no idea how to get over him though!! whenever i see him i like him again, and i always see him, he lives next to me!! but he is on vacation for 3 weeks, now is the time to get over him, but how do i do it? I like him so much, i can't even explain it....... (link)
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well hun i can for sure relate. i would have to say the best way to get over him is to try and meet a new guy. but first u might want to text or call him telling him that u like him in the first place. just to make sure.
good luck though :]
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