Hey what's up Im Ryan, Im ambitious, playfull, funny, an all around great person to be with! If you want to know more ask me!
The United States Marine Corps is my life and i love being relied on to protect this country! I love going out to eat at a nice resturant and a very nice man or woman picks up my check just out of respect! I cant explain how it feels when people come up to me on the street and shake my hand like im a celebrity and tell me that im their hero! brings tears to my eyes. Mission before all else. God, Country, Corps, Self. We are America's 9-11 Force! First to fight, Last to leave. Thanks to all that care!
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Location: San Diego, CA...Originally from MN
Occupation: United States Marine Corps
Age: 20
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Hi Ryan! Thank you so much for helping me with my question about Dylan!! You really did make some interesting points that made me think. Here's what's happened so far as I followed your advice. I've realized that he is the kind of guy that on the phone and the computer he tries to act all smooth with the ladies but once you get to know him he is very childish so i suppose he isnt ready for a gf yet but when he approaches a girl he likes he's always like "there's___ my girl" to his friends so idk he just sends mixed signals. He does seem to like when I flirt with him but he'll never say he likes me though his friends continue to tell me he does. I dont know what to do anymore bc one minute he's supposedly telling his friends that i dont know how to act then he's acting so flirtatious and stuff...ugh i just dont know anymore! plus on top of that one of his other friends likes me and when i mention dylan he always says "dont like him he talks about you bad" but im never sure if it's true or if his friend is just saying that about him bc he wants a chance with me and doesnt want me to like dylan. andway if you could please help! you really knew what to say last time and i really appreciated it! thank you so much! please help if you can on this one! thanks again! (link)
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hmmm lets see...his friends tell you that dylan likes you but one of them that likes you says different. That to me is kinda weird? He's probably bringing up all the negative things and no positive points about dylan because he likes you and is jealous. It's not good to get information from a 2nd or 3rd party because it always gets mixed up somehow some way. It does sound to me that dylan likes you. Anyone can talk game on the phone or on the computer because you arent right in front of him. The childish part is probably because he hasn't matured yet. Im not sure how old he is but sometimes it will take some time for a guy to actually come around and stop being such an ass. Sounds like me when i was 16 haha. But what you need to do is not wait around forever for this guy. If he's going to act all childish and think he's top shit cuz hes got a girl that wants him then you have to show him different. Why don't you try to ignore him one day and see if he calls you up and asks you what's up. Now if he calls you dont give in and make it an hour long talk. Keep it short and sweet and say something like "hey im busy let me call you back later" and hang up. You have to show to him that you arent interested and ignore him a little bit and not be all over him and pull his ego into the sky thinking that he knows you want him and then he should realize that he really likes you and it will eat him alive to know what's going on. If that doesnt work then i would have to say move on. If you have anything else to add let me know alright.
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**hey guys! ok im 14/f. ive been friends w/ this guy since like 6th grade, and we r in 9th now. we have become better friends cause we have a class together, and we hang out sometimes on weekends w/ a group of friends. he talks to me a lot more now, and we r good friends. he even tells me like who he likes and stuff. recently he told me he stopped liking this girl cause he needed someone he could be himself around (his crazy...crazy self... lol) he'll call me babe and stuff like that sometimes 2 (im not sure if hes joking or flirting...?) what do u guys think? and... how can you tell if a guy likes you or not? for guys: what do u do to show a girl that you like her? thanks all** (link)
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guys usually flirt big time if they like the girl. Does he get physical with you...like wrestle, play fight anything like that?? It's usually a no brainer when a guy likes you because it's so noticable. Why dont you just ask him if he likes you?? what do you have to lose?
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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!! (link)
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get his friends to get him to come around. I dont know how old he is but he could be afraid of a relationship...maybe he doesn't know what to do with a gf? But if his friends start gettin in his head that he's a retard for not going for you then he could probably come around. But you need to find something to light that fire under his butt to get after you! If you have any other questions let me know alright
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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
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well if it keeps burning up your brain by not telling him then you should. If he loves you in return he will find a way to forgive you. Next time you should think twice about going to an x's house alone and kissing him later that night. That isn't cool. But if you want to take that weight off your chest you have to say something because if you dont you will have that burdon on your shoulders everytime you see your bf.
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Ok theres this boy and we hooked up BUT now hes like I like this other girl better then u HOW do I get over him? (link)
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Keep busy with other things like...shopping with friends. Go out and meet new guys. The only way that will help you get him off your mind is to keep busy so you dont think of him
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Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!! (link)
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maybe your nervous? But yeah you gotta give him some lovin for being your man! Let him kiss you...or go out on a limb and kiss him when he doesn't expect it. good luck
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i rly like my boyfriend but when he asks me to do sumtin gi dont really want to bt i rly rly like him so... idk i think its becuz im shy around him and dont tak much but i want to be able to talk more around him and not be shy anymore. (link)
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you need to relax. Get comfortable around him. Stop trying to think so much and go with the flow
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ok here it goes i really like my best friend but i dont think he likes me and i dont know how to ask him and i don't want my other friends asking him because i don't want them to lie to me to make me feel better and i was just wondering if anybody knew how i could tell if he likes me or not (link)
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well do you flirt with eachother...wrestle, tell him you like him...or ask him how he feels about you. what do you have to loose??
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i love this boy nd see we broke up but it was a big mistake nd yea .. long story but umm hes suposed to mayb comin over onr day nd hes goin to kiss me or make out wit me in other words nd im scared bnot that i haven done it before but i feel real strong for him nd i wana kno wat should i do to help me not be so nervous ..
Help .. i rate (link)
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go with the flow! If he kisses you then kiss back...only do what you are comfortable with! good luck
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What do you get guys for gifts???? (link)
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Sex, money, and video games
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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.
*female 15* (link)
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Kiss him dont hold back!
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i jest found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me with my bff should i not be her friend or dump him or do both. (link)
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that's messed up! you need to talk to your girl! For the so called boyfriend...bag his ass!
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okay so im a 15 year old female
and i have this huge crush on
one of my brothers friends
his name is wesley..but hes 21
and in the marines..hes leaveing
for iraq in 8days..but i like him
allot and dont no how to tell him
or how him being in iraq and me
being 15 and in pennsylivania er
w/e my state is spelled would work
but i saw him at the mall tonight
and he was at my house tuesday and
at my brothes game..and when i saw
him tonight we stared at each other
for a longgg time..and we talked at
the game last night..and for like
an hour when he was here tuesday
so i really am starting to become
attached to the kid but im not sure
what to do ya know? well i hope some
one can help me
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Im a Marine myself....it's hard leaving home and everyone you love. What you need to do is tell him how you feel and im sure he feels the same but the age difference is a little big...I know that marines are strictly told not to date anyone under the age of 18 because of what has happend in the past but you need to do what your heart tells you to do
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wut do you look for in a gurl?
would you rather have a good gurl or bad gurl?
hard to get gurl or easy gurl??? (link)
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the girl has to have a good personality. She cant be retarded and an idiot. Be both good and bad....just be yourself! You can go both ways on everything. but most of all be yourself you will get any guy you want
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i have a bf but i'm not sure if he is really into me nemore we use 2 tlak bout everything bout now we barely talk.I call him sometimes n he doesn't really seem lyk he wants to talk he never calls me n he is always busy n cna never do nething. i talk to his brother on the IM n ask him but he doesn't really kno wut am i suppose 2 do...how do i find out if he really lykes me or not? plz help! (link)
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Ask his friends....walk up to him and ask him what's going on. I would probably go for someone else if he's going to be like that
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theres this kid i really like and he likes me too so he asked me out last night and i said yes. then today hes like i like yoo more as a friend so want to be just that so im like sure , but i dont know how to act towards him now, do i be friendly or ignore him, i dont know what to do. (link)
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Hes scared.....he doesn't have the experience in relationships. Just be friendly to him and make him feel more comfortable around you.
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i knew this guy for a couple of months and we really seemed to become great friends. we even had some type of conection. but a few months ago he just stopped talking to me. i thought we were friends, and then he just left. hes never on the computer and i dont know his new phone number. and his nephew wont tell me anything! how do i get ahold of him how can i get him back?! (link)
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throw the booty at him
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Im a 16 year old girl and ive been dating this girl for 3 months I want to make a move but dont know how, what do I do? (link)
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Kiss her...
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Hi im a 16 year old girl and I have been dating this girl for 3 months now but we dont really talk, and i can tell my friends think i should break up with her, but i really like her and i want to go out with her but i want us to talk more what should i do? (link)
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Talk to her! Don't second guess yourself. Maybe she thinks you dont want to talk to her. So give her a call and say what's up!
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I like this guy, I don't know him that well but he is really cute and is in my honors class so he is smart too. From what i hear, some other girls like him too. We haven't really had a conversation since i've only been in school now for 1 week. I don't know if i should tell him that i think he is hott like some of the other girls, or just look for a guy that isn't in everyones mind.
If i do tell him, how should i say it or bring it up in a conversation. (link)
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just walk up to him and say hey you're cute! from there it's all gravy for you!
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