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E-mail: kim20850@netzero.com
Gender: Female
Location: MD!
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: IStilBelieveNLuv
Member Since: May 31, 2005
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i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
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He actually told you that?? How rude...Well, honestly I know it must be so hard, but trust me you will get over him. Just look beyond him. He clearly isn't good for you! You sound like a caring sweet person and he isn't ready to handle that. Just try to find other people because there is someone out there perfect for you and he is not that person.
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ohk so i've gone out with many people b4 ... some were crushes, dares you know your typicall 12 -13 year old stuff only like one or two i really truly loved . yes loved i would do anything for them. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few ... but why is it that all a sudden i feel like love can be/ is such a scary thing ? (link)
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Honestly, love is a scary thing. It's like you are giving someone your heart to hold and take care of, but that also gives them the power to break it. I am afraid of love as well and I still take chances because I know that one day that perfect person will come along and all those broken hearts and tears will disappear. Just think of it like, love is about taking chances and your heart may be broken a few times, but in the end someone will come along and mend it and keep it safe forever.
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Everyone is saying that my boyfriend is bi! Even my bestest friends! It's really annoying! I don't think he is but everyone else does! I know I should just go with what I think and ignore all of them, but it's really hard for me to do. He is soo cool and nice and hott! And I don't want everyone thinking that, cause it might ruin my rep. too!! Help me please!! (link)
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wow, i had the sameeeee exact issue with my boyfriend. lemme tell ya your friends, if they dont have any proof they could just be saying their own opinion in form of an accusation. he prolly isn't bi and people were saying my bf is gay and we ended up dating for 11 months. ask him, not your friends!:)
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I've always wondered this...
Why do teens think that they "need" a boyfriend or girlfriend? What's so great about it?
I follow that at least in high school and college it's kind of a time to experiment with relationships and all, but I just don't really follow why teens think they "need" someone, especially since a lot of it seems to end kind of painfully for people.
Anyway, long story short, I'm confused about why people think it's something they need, why they seem to look so hard for it at a young age, and what's so great about having a boy/girlfriend.
Thanks. (link)
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People want bf's/gf's so they can feel loved completely by one person. As if that one person was made for them. It is a form of security and when you have someone that loves you that much, insecurities tend to go away.
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ok so there's this really hott guy in my grade and i really like him (b.c. hes really nice too not just hott although thats a plus) and he would always smile at me and compliment me and say hi to me and i started liking him and all my friends said that he liked me and than my friend (without my permission) called him on my cell while i was in the bathroom and was like hey do u like Carry (me) like would you go out with her? and he was like umm i like her as a friend but i dont think i would go out with you and Allison (my friend) told me and i was super pissed and the day before i heard from one of his friends he liked me so the next day i asked him who he liked and he said he like Allison so i don't know what to believe. would you please help me!?!? thanks in advance!!!
and im not the most popular girl in my grade, but my friends totally is.
*.:~*totally confused*~:.* (link)
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Okay...so your friend called him? Not you? Well, in that case I think you should definetly talk to him yourself. He might've just lied to your friend because like the previous person said, he's probably shy.
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hmmm where do i start? well im 13 and me and my friend "Jane" went to this little bbq cook out thing for another friend "LEE" and her frind "sam" well they invited another boy named "JIM". well that night b=me and him really hit it off. we flirted and talked and i really like him and i think Jane does too andi kbnow LEe does and i think he likes me cus he flirted alot and said i was hott and stuuf. Jane wouldnt mind if i went out with him but i know Lee would probally tell him some lies about me.well he entered his cell # into mine for the heck of it and hes lijke i may call you somtime. and he didnt call so and i think lee mighta said some stuff about me so he wudnt call cus she is obsessed over him. My questions are do you think he does like me or do you think i should call him cus i really like him . What do i do? (link)
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I think you should definetly not jump to conclusions:). If you feel Lee has said something you need to talk to the boy you like. Call him, definetly. There's really no other way out because talking it out is always the best solution!!:)
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