I am someone who likes to try and be as honest as i possibly can with everyone, and i do not like to sugar-coat things. i would like anyone who needs advice to know that i don't claim to know everything, and nor will i try to pretend to. my advice is based on my own experience and what i've learned so far in life.
***also, if you are a single female who is near my age and who lives in PG/AAC county (maryland) let me know, and i can give you info necessary to contact me by. i'm about 6' tall, athletic and kind. i play football and wrestle as well as swim and bowl. i have light brown (almost blond) hair and baby blue eyes. and best of all, i'm single. contact me if you are in PG/AAC county and are interested in a date***
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Okay, I would like everyone to be totaly honest you wont hurt my feelings.
Do you think that it is like pathetic/stupid/weird ect. that I have never had a boyfriend before? Oh and im 15.
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no. in fact i say its good. you havent had to experience being cheated on, and you havent been forced to choose between some guy and your friends/family/favorite activities. what i'm getting at is for now, don't worry about it because there is a bad side to being with someone that you are fortunate enough to not have experienced yet.
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well, my subject pretty much says it all... i like this other boy now... he knows that i like him - my friends tell him that all the time and i told him that i do like him once, just so he knows that what my friends tell him aren't lies... we used to be friends - well, i THINK we're still friends... but ever since he knew about me liking him, we barely talk anymore, unless for a couple of words - thanks, here - or we're in the same group for class and we HAVE to talk and help each other... was it wrong to tell him that i like him?? what can i do so that me and him talk again, but not seem desperate for him?? [[i'm not desperate for him, although i catch myself looking and searching for him at times...but you can't really help doing that... it's nature to look and find your crush, right?]] i would REALLY APPRECIATE VERY GOOD advices... thank you! i'll rate 5s (link)
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You were absolutly right to tell him. The reaction this boy is displaying is totally normal, allthough it may be aggrivating. By telling him that you like him, and your friends constantly reminding him, he is waiting for you to follow up on your first move. What i mean is that it is not unusual for a girl to pursue a guy, but traditionally the male pursues the female. In his mind you did what he percieved to be unexpected, and now he is waiting for the next move. Look at it for your point of view; if a guy tells you that he likes you and then all of his friends confirm this, what would you do when he starts acting shy? You would wait and see what his next move is, may it be asking for your number or finally talking to you in person. He is doing exactly that; waiting for you to try and talk to him about it. the pressure is off of him to make the first move since you already did that, so now the "ball is in your court" and you must make the next move.
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my boyfriend wont kiss me because he doesnt know how to kiss. im not a very good kisser either. im afraid to make the first move becuause i think he will pull away b4 i get to his lips and i will look like an idiot. how can i get him to kiss me? should i send him a site about how to kiss on email or what? i really wanna kiss him. (link)
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DO NOT send anything about kissing to him. the last thing a nervous guy needs is a 'how to' guide to doing something that is supposed to come naturally. jsut make the first move either by trying to kiss him or talking to him about what you want to do with him. he will get the message in a much better way if you take the initiative
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me and my bf have been together for 2 months but we spent alot of time together, i know he still wants to be together but i think it just isnt working, i dont like him as much as he likes me. I want to break up but i dont want to hurt him, how should i do it - as nicly a poss?
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honestly. lies, no matter how small, hurt more than the truth. sit down with him and tell him exactly what you do and do not feel for him. he should be hurt but that is expected. all in all, he will understand eventually and respect your openness.
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