Rainbow Diva
I m a lesbian woman, but I can lend my ears, heart and mind to any situation given it s one of distraught or curiousity.
I know all the heartaches of being lonely and can help u as we both go through it. NO i do not have all the answers anyone who says that they do is a fool i do believe that u help others and others can help u so i am not perfect and tend to need a helping hand too.
I ve been at both ends and will gladly lend my good and bad life s experiences with u so u can overcome some of the adversity in your life!
NO worries:)
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Member Since: May 8, 2004
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im a 14 year old 8th grader...and the guy i like is a freshman and i dont want to get pressured into anything bad... ok so... i like this guy... but iv never really met him...but i talk to him on im... and what i know of him i really like...and he asked me out...what do i do??? (link)
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Hello!
Well judging from the information provided it seems to me that u met this guy online. I think that u shd simply forget about it. I know that may be hard to or easier said then done, but what a person says online can all be a lie and u may actually end up getting into more trouble than u think.
I don t know what u find so interesting in this guy but I feel that u shd keep things the way they are right now and try not to change a thing.
If something is going to come of it then it will and u will not have to even try so hard.
Just focus on being young and enjoying your life your too young to be thinking of getting tied down in a relationship. Being young is all about having a great time and learning fun and exciting things that u can laugh about as u get older.
Just do what u know in your heart is right and if you can tell your parents about it then it s ok!
No Worries:)
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I'm a 14 year old girl, and I constantly fantasize about older guys...sexually. I haven't done anything about it, but they're in my dreams, while I'm in school, and I've talked to some online. Is this common? Is there a certain reason why I keep thinking about them this way? (link)
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Hello!
The feelings that u r feeling are valid and u shd not feel embarrassed or ashame of them. I think there is only a problem if u at ur age pursue these older guys and they take u up on the offer. U must understand that a minor being involved in sexual activities with an adult or a person over the age of 18 is a crime.
U shd not pursue them and hopefully they won t pursue u because that isn t right. I feel that u r probably just going thru a phase that many people ur age go thru especially when it comes to puberty. Ur hormones r most likely just getting the best of u right now.
No Worries:)
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I have a boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone else,what should I do? (link)
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Hello!
I ve definitely been in this situation before, and if u have it good wth ur man why go anywhere else. Ur looking at someone based on their physical attributes and may not know much about the person. U have a boyfriend that shd be treating u right and loves u, the other guy u have a crush on may be abusive, rude, or boring.
If ur not happy in ur relationship then move on and let ur boyfriend know that ur interested in someone else.
Only pursue the guy u have a crush on if ur not happy in ur relationship, other than that
peeking aint cheating :)
NO Worries:)
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BTW~ this is a question I asked earlier but I'm repeating it cuz I continue to search for more imput. *'s are additions
Hiya!
I'm Annie (13, fem, MD). There's this guy and we used to be together like last year but I gave him the dump. I'm starting to feel that it was a mistake- I mean thinking about it, I can't remember why I dumped him in the first place. It was for my own good, and I know good from bad, don't smoke straight-A's only drink a little is my description. But this guy- he's so amazing. I totally can talk to him really closely and he has all these amazing aspirations for his life. He hangs with me at parties a little but he's a little safe- no kissing, no sex, though he is a druggie. I like the fact that he has very few friends- I admire people who don't require a possie to function. SO anyway, you probably are accustomed to giving guys advice but I really hope you can help me. I need to know if he likes me at all. How can I tell? And if so, what moves should I make, like how fast should I make them, aswell? And what can I do to keep him liking me? Please help!
*muah*
***~I'm pretty cute looking, but I havee kinda small boobs. Would him being predjudice against that be a big factor in the eqation, particularly at this age? Do guys REALLY care about that?
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Hello!
I think that, speaking from personal experience, most people that do illegal drugs and are constant users are abusive.
Maybe he s not that way though who knows...
Anyway i feel that the way to know a guy likes u is if u can burp and fart around the guy and he s still there. If ur comfortable being with this guy u shd be able to talk about anything and just share ur worries that u shared on here with him.
Let him know ur insecurities, ur fears, and ur feelings. sex is important in a relationship but it is not so important to the fact that u can t wait. there are other things the two of u can do to stimulate each other, but that s if u and him get serious enough to even get to that point.
Just know that u r perfect the way u r and if he doesnt think so then it s his lost not yours!
WOMEN ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURES IN THE WORLD AND U R NO EXCEPTION TO THE RULE!
NO Worries :)
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