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so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 and a half months. just recently, hockey season got over and he was free to do whatever he wanted .. well he always used to get high and drink and stuff and i'm seriously not into that ... he is like ditching me for his friends to go get high with them .. i've tried talking to him about it but he doesn't understand the way it makes me feel .. he's told me stories about him going to parties and getting high then these girls walk around with their shirts off and stuff .. am i suppose to like that or what? because i don't and its starting to really bug me .. he's always like just come with me but i hate seeing him high and fucked up because he doesn't pay attention to me. again he doesn't understand and i just don't know what to do. (link)
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weLL.
since your not into that, don't go obviously. LoL. no really, this is serious
Since he doesn't understand, sit down and talk with him more. cuz once he understands, maybe he'll stop.
he shouldn't be ditching you to get drunk and high. it's a bad combo, and plus, if he is playing hockey normally, what the fuck is he doin?
I realize that this is his hockey time out, but wtf!! seriously.
Um, when he starts talking about that shtuff, just ignore him or change the subject. i would have dumped him by now to be perfectly honest.
if he isn't going to respect you and your wishes, then you shouldn't be with him.
HOpe i helped huN!!
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Okay I really dont know what to do right now.. I have been on and off with a guy for about 4 months. Yeah i know thats not that long but i really truelly think that im in love. We havent had sex or anything and he treats me like a princess. Well i was kinda mean to him all the time and took advantage of him because i thought he loved me too much to leave me but i was wrong. he left me but always took me back.. we would be really good for a while but then i change and i really have no clue why! me and him both have very difficult lives and hes the one i always talk to! well he just broke up with me about a month ago and told me he isnt coming back! and what makes it extra hard is that me and him were never really friends.. we just jumped into a relationship! I really love him but now he likes another girl and my heart is broken! i dont know what do to now! How do i get him back? or how do i get over him because its really hard! i really do love him with all ym heart! please help... (link)
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weLL.. there isn't any way you can get over him
i hate to say it, but there isn't.
let fate take it's course. eat lots of chocolate and just try to relax.
him and that girl prolly won't last long.
he'll be back hun, it's ok!
and if you tell him how you truely feel, then you'll feel a lot better and maybe you'll be friends and then work up to a relationship!
Good LucK!
if you need anymore help, let me kno!
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well i had sex with some guy .. but no just some guy i dated him for three years on n off .. you could say he was my first love in fact he was my first everything .. we still have a thing for eachother .. so a couple weeks ago we had sex n didn't use a condom cus he likes it better but he pulled out before he busted at least i hope .. well the problem is i was supposed to have my period like prolly bout a week ago .. i am soo scared i don't no what to do .. n if i was pregnat i would never be able to look my mom or dad in the face again cus i would have let them down .. could you give advice maybe .. THANKs
oh yeh i am 15 female thanks =\ (link)
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well --
If you have a cousin that's a girl or an older sister you can trust, ask them to get you a pregnancy test. take the test, and if you ARE pregnant, tell the guy and then your parents.
They will be dissappointed for a little while, but it will eventually go away.
There are 2 options -- keep the baby, or put it up for adoption. ABORTION = NO!!!!! Your killing the baby that way. if you keep it, or put it up for adoption, it can have a good life with you or another family. whatever one you think is best. it is a very long emotional train tho.
I'm 15 as well -- my OLDER sister is 19 and has a 6 - 7 month old baby girl named Neveah. My sister was 18 when she got pregnant and 19 when she had her. The baby was born 6-6-04, my older sister was born 6-4-85, and i was born 6-2-89. So that right there is unique.
Try not to sweat it. They may be dissapointed, and then again they may not. Try to prepare yourself for the worst tho, cuz then you won't be so shocked or whatever. Your young true, and have your whole life ahead of you. But these things happen everyday
Everyone's parents have different veiws. When and If your parents get a grandchild to love and cherrish -- that is when you decide if you made the right decision. Of course, if you are pregnant and you keep the baby - it's by by partying..... =/.. but that can be a good thing. if your pregnant, i'm sure you'll be a GREAT mom!!!
Hope i helped...
if you need anything else
let me kno!!
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i have been going out with my boyfriend for a little while now.. we were really good friends before we started dating and he is so awesome. he lives down the street from me and comes over alot and my parents like him. but they are really overprotective so i havent told them that i am dating him yet. im really worried about what they would do because i dont want them to stop letting him come over and stuff.. i meet his parents the other day and they think im a good person & his mom want to take us to a movie. but im afraid that when she meets my mom she will tell my mom that i am datin her son. so i dont no if i should tell my parents or not? what do yall think? i will rate 5's
ps. my sister knows that we are goin out but is waiting for me to tell them. (link)
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you should break it to your parents gently and when they are in a SUPER good mood!! that's what i always did. My dad is really protective of me and whenever i get hurt he likes to try to hunt down the guy and bitch at him, but anyways. Go ahead and tell your parents, if they like him and his family likes you -- then your ok! they can't stop liking him just cuz your dating him, in their heads i bet their asking themselves why he is over all the time, dontcha think? LoL
HOpe i helped huN!!
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Okay i go out with this guy ... we have been together for a little less than a month but I have liked him since like september .. Well i dont know like since i got on break for school i just havent wanted to talk to him at all .. I mean he got me a really cute christmas present and hes sweet and everything but I'm not sure if we ya know like "click" ... I want to break up with him i think but tha last time i broke up with a guy we had been together for 5 months and i just felt i didnt like him n stuff but now hes happy with his new g/f and i regret it badly and i dont want to break up with my current b/f and regret it too ... what should I do? Please help -XoX- (link)
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follow your heart. you may regret it, you may not.. either way -- it is how god wanted it to be... not to be all religious or anything..
if you don't feel a "CLICK" anymore or if your questioning it, talk to your friends and ask them what they say when you two are together, your friends always tell the truth -- but see if they all are ok with him, like if they hate him, don't take their opinion seriously, ya kno what i mean?
just take it a day at a time and advice by advice. you'll figure it out sooN!! =D
please rate my advice! =D
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ok now the last gf i had didnt work out but i got another one and we were going out for about a month and now were taking a break but we have alot of fights and one time we got in a huge fight and i kicked her out of my house we eventually made up the same night but now we are on a break and we are fighting even worse than before i even called her a perra which means bitch in panish as you know and i dont know what to do anymore rachifer can you help on this one i really need it more than before
-thnkz
-love hunter (link)
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Why of course Sir. Hunter!! i'd love to help you. First i'd like to say sorry for the fights your having with your girlfriend. it's gotta be hard!!! you still in hastings? or did you move farther from me *tear*. LOL. But anyways. Umm, since your on a break, your bound to have more fights.. hate to say it, but i kno from experience. just sit her down and tell her how you feel, and give her a chance to say how she feels. callin her a perra wasn't nice, but it was just your anger. calmly and rashionally talk to her and apologize. . . we girls love that sort of thing. LoL. and i hope for the best. You can come to me for anything
Love you man!!
- Rachifer
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hey my question is me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 weeks the first week was fine but now my girlfriend like never wants to talk to me and when im hanging out with her she turns away and walks toward someone else she hides her feeligns from me and i just dont know what to do plz help me rach
love,
hunter (link)
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Hunter --
My Main Man! =D haha! i'll help you buddy! after all, i am the one and only rachifer! =D haha!
well --
hmm, your a very funny person, and very romantic at times (so i've been told =P), so just put on your charm and funniness on her whenver your with her. she'll see what she's missin when she walks away and hides her feelings.
she could be shy now or sumthing. Or thinking its just too good to be true.
If all does fails, just tell her what you've been noticing. Girls aren't that sensitive. just more sensitive than guys!
Hope i helped!
Love you man!!
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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks! (link)
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be honest with your heart. you should tell this boy exactly how you feel. ask him if it makes him feel uncomfortable,and ask if it makes the relationship wierd!
hope i helped
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Ok, here's the deal.. I like this guy we've been friends for a while.. I've told him that I liked him before but he had a g/f and he thought that he "lead me on" or in his words "gave me false hope".. well his g/f dumped him like a month ago and I told him that I still liked him.. this time he thinks it will bring us closer.. well what he said is "like last time, i felt bad that i gave u flase hope, but now i don't feel that, and wit that we could work 2 fix watever and be better friends".. I don't quite understand what he is saying.. can you help?? (yeah I do understand that he is saying he doesn't like me tho!)
-Molly (link)
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Molly - -
he isn't saying that he doesn't like you, he is saying that this could bring you two closer, which means a possible dating discussion! don't worry, just relax and let faite take it's course!
good luck
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* Rach
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Hello! I have this boyfriend and we have been on and off for about a month, and every week he breaks up with me for some odd reason......
im not sure what to do......
signed--
off&on-chica (link)
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.... Well..
Tell him about this, see what he says!!
Choose your words carefully tho!
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I've been going out with my b/f for a week, and I don't feel a spark when I'm with him.. he is nice.. but i don't think i wanna go out with him anymore.. and I don't know how to dump him and still be friends!! help please! (link)
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- - ask him if you two can just be friends, make sure you tell him that you don't feel feelings towards him anymore. and ask him not to be mad at you for that. Guys can be really big asses.. so please choose your words carefully!!
much love
* Rach
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Help!! what do you do if you ex boyfriend says that you are loose when you aren't because he is the only guys you've ever kissed!!?? and he goes around saying that yeah stuff that isnt true? If I dont get a good answer of somthing to do I just mite kick his nuts!!
-Mite kick my ex!
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- CALM DOWN!! It's ok... get evidence that you aren't loose. Get friends to back you up and shtuff.. if he keeps doin it, you need to show that it doesn't bug you, cuz if you show it does.. he'll just do it more and more!!
let me kno how it goes!
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Ok here is my problem. The other night at my friends house we decided to play truth or dare. I was dared to make out w/ my best'guy'friend. We decided since it was just a dare and that it wouldn't mean nothin we would do it. So it turned out different than I thought. My friend got carried away I guess...he was really into it and very passionate. I don't know if he really thinks it meant somethin more or what! bUt I feel weird around him now & talking to him. Soo please help me out! ;) thanks (link)
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- - well, i think you should have a talk with that best guy friend. Cuz after all, if it seemed more to him, well maybe it does to you as well. Tell your best guy friend how you feel!! he'll understand!! =) good luck!
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I just found out my Girlfriend is really a MAN!! she (he) told me that he asked u for advice!! how could u!! i dont kno waht u wrote but thanks alot!! *sarcasticly* you ruined my life!!! I feel so messed up because i still have feeling for him but it goes against all my morals!! but i am strangely still atracted to him!! do u think i could be gay? I dont kno what to do!! should i tell him how I feel? should i break up with him? PLEASE HELP!!
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confused love (link)
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- - your not gay. you can't help who you love, but you can help what you do about it! so, just tell her(him) what you just told me.. sorry for messing it up if i did!!
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i'm 19/m and i have a huge fear of regection. in fact i've only had two girl friends, and i'm still a virgin, any ideas on how to get over my fear? (link)
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try going with a girl younger than you. we/they are always looking for older guys to have a good time with! =)
hope i helped!!
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Ok here's the deal... My ex you see.. well I still like him..
but anyways.. heres how the story goes.. on july 16 was our 1month.. the night b4 he promised it would just be us too.. so he called the next morning i went to his house to meet him and he brought his brother and his friend along.. and so we got in a fight.. then we made up cuz i said srry for being a b!tch and well yeah so.. then saturday and sunday went by.. saturday we had a talk about the fight the day b4.. then manday comes along.. we are getting along AWESOME i mean better than ever!! so we are still at my house watching a movie cuddling.. ok then he says I love you and ya know so i say it back.. and yeah but then like 2-3 hours later we get to talking he says that all his friend are tellin him to dump me cuz well they r just fags and lets not go there.. but anyways.. we are tlaking about it and so i say "well do u wanna break up?" and he says "i dont wanna say yes but i dont wanna say no" so we sat in silence for like 10 min and i said well u know i love u right and he said yes and i loved you too.. so ok 10 more minutes rolls by and he says "sorry but i think i'm gonna have to say yes" now yeah ok i got it.. i started to cry.. and was like can u stay for a bit so we can talk he said "no i need to go or i will cry" but anyways yesh then about 3 hours later i went to go meet him cuz we had to practice bmx.. and he was all jokin aroung.. sayin haha blah blah blah "you looked pretty upset" "we have a new nickname for u now it is crabby"(his friends and him) so yeah....
what i dont get is why he said I love you and sh!t so please help me if u can!! umm I wanna ask him back out cuz i think we shud give it another try cuz we both kinda took it too seriously b4 but yeah.. can you please help me?? My AIM screenname is HHSgolfer73
-Molly
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- - Molly - -
I think you need to be honest with your ex boyfriend. i can't tell ya why he'd say i love you and then 2 or 3 hours later break your heart in two. I'm sorry about the fight and everything, it sounds super hurtful!! just keep happy.
you could ask him back out, or
see how he feels about you now...
I vote for asking him back out if you think you two should try it again (which if you ask him out is what you should say, if ya know what i mean)
Good luck girlie! =)
I hope everything works out well!!!
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OK... me and my b/f broke up.. but they day we did we were getting along fine and he told me he loved me... so i duno what to do.. why did he break up with me after he told me he loves me? I still reallllllly like him and we are still best friends but I don't know what to do.. please can u help
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- - Honestly, i have no clue what to tell you. I've never been thru anything like this. But, i'll give it my best shot...
- - Why he told you he loved you and then broke up with you is beyond me. Sumtimes guys are like that. My ex did that to me... and it sucked. since you still really like him, you should tell him. you two are still best friends which is good. Tell him how you feel...
- Good luck
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Much Love
Rachie
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Ok... I just broke up with my b/f not that long ago... and I thought I was over him.. but I'm not... what should I do?? I think I still like him.. but I'm not sure if he feels the same...
P.S. don't use my name because you probably know who this is (link)
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- - Honestly, I say you need to tell that guy how you feel. Even if he doesn't care, he needs to know...
Good luck..
Rach
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Ok, first off don't say my name if u kno who i am..
Alright.. My ex lets call him bob, well i like his friend lets call him Vlad.. but I think my friend lets call her Kristy likes vlad too... but i know that vlad likes me also... what do i do??
help please! (link)
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- - Ok, well, let's see here.. honestly, i'm having a hard time understanding that question, but oo well, i'll make what i can of it, please correct me if i'm wrong. Ok, so your Ex is Bob, and you like his friend Vlad, and you think your friend Kristy likes Vlad as well... and you know that Vlad likes you as well...
ok, i think i have it down..
Tell your ex's friend that you have feelings for him, and then ask kristy if she likes him and then tell her you like him..
Good Luck
- Rach
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my best friend introduced me to her ex-boyfriend... and she still liked him... me and him got to be very close and we started goin out. and it's been a month, but now she hates me, but she says shes over it. But she always tells pple that she can;t trust me... and see he makes me really happy, and i make himm happy. I don;t want to lose my freind ,but i want to stay with me bf... what do i do?
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- - First, Have a talk with your best friend, and then see if she is ok with you staying with him. tell her how happy you two are. maybe set her up with one of his friends or sumthin. try to get her happy.
- - Second, keep the boyfriend, if he means that much, keep him...
she prolly doesn't hate YOU
It's probably the situation
- Rach
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