Hey guyz.. i thought id give this a try since all my other girlies are and i wanna see if im any good at givin advice? if i suck tell me lol..
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Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: August 21, 2004
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hey i like this girl me and her get along so well, we flirt like crazy, her family likes me alot, so so does she, but the thing is shes always looking at other guys, and thinks some of them r sexy, i donno if i should care or not, need advice (link)
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its usually natural for anyone to do that .. itd be wrong if she did that while u 2 were goin out so if you dont then u shouldnt really care cuz ur aloud to look at other girls 2.. hope that helps?
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my boyfriend and i have been datin for 3 weeks and my mom still doesnt kno(she doesnt care i have a boyfriend but doesnt want me to have one ...shes odd).my boyfriend hates hidin things from people and wants me to tell her but im just not ready to tell her yet. i honestly want to but i dont know how to come out and say it
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randomly start talking to her one day and ask her what she would do if u had a bf and then tell ur u like someone and he likes u bak.. then a week later tell her that he asked u out and u guys go out.. thats a warm up
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What do you do when you are in love with a guy but your parents forbid you to see him. im almost 18 and im having to sneek around at my best friends house just to see him. i cant even talk to him at school without getting in trouble. we have been together before and we want to be back together for good. we were together for 10 months. what do i do. (link)
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your parents shouldnt tell you what to do.. its your life.. when ur 18 ur actually free to do that by law and ur parents cant do anything bout it.. hmm.. u could try different ways of seeing him like tell ur parents ur goin 2 the movies or mall with some of ur friends and go somewhere with him instead.. i do this just to stay out longer.. id call my mom and tell her im over my friends house watching a movie and id go home when it was over...
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hey i really need help on this one..ive been with my b/f for 2 years and whenever i tell him to call at a certain time..he doesnt!!!! it gets me all worried that hes cheating on me since he has b4 .. and if say lyk call at 11 ..hell call at around 2 or even later and say he forgot to call or w/e or wasnt thinking bout it..but it also worryz me too cuz i wana kno hez ok and wen he dont call it makez me worry!! i mean, i kno all of his friendz and everything too.. i talked to him about this about a million timez and said everything i can possibly imagine to him about this and he keepz promising me he'll call wen hez supposed to but he doesnt!! (link)
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it could just be that hes busy or too lazy to call.. give him his space and just dont worry so much about when hes gonna call or not ... talk 2 ur friends that kills time and hell end up callin u
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OK theres this girl i really like. We used to go to elemetry school together but for high school we went to different schools. I just saw her again at the fair, but i didnt get to talk to her. How do i find a way to talk to her, and when i do how do i approach her so its not to look like i'm a stalker? (link)
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ask all of ur old friends if they still keep in touch with her or anyone she knows.. then if they still talk 2 her tell them 2 invite her over their house or the movies and tag along
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All of my friends at school are always asking me who I like. I tell them I like no one, but there is this one guy thats really tall and charming, but never really smiles. He asked me to come to his 'party' but I don't know if I should. I don't know him too well to go to his house. So someone please help me! (link)
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ask him if you could invite a friend and tell him that u cant go unless that friend goes with u.. get 2 know him and then see how things work out
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I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
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boys shouldnt be important when ur 13 cuz their not mature and they can be fags at that age.. wait till u get to highschool.. and be outgoing cuz guys like that .. be honest non conceited and always happy about who u are and ull do fine
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I find myself really attracted to gay guys. They are very cute and a lot of them are so sweet! And they're funny and fun to be around! Is this abnormal? Since they are feminine, does this make me not straight? Can someone please help me??!!?! (link)
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Well i think your attracted to gay guys because they all seem to be very open minded and opinionated and thats usually what a girl likes.. and their fun to hang out with and shop cuz they think just like u and they hav very good sense of style. it doesnt mean ur not straight but it means u like guys who understand girls cuz i think gay guys understand us more then straight guyz cuz they think that if they do something then their gay.. so they usually dont end up doing it and their all uptight and manly about it..
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If a guy that you like gets mad at you.. even for something stupid.. this happened to me during the school year.. and he was playin mad and stuff.. what do u do? cause like i always got close with a guy and we'd joke around or whatever and then he'd like get mad.. but not seriously mad just this like 'im not tlaking to u u said this " or whatever.. what do u do? (link)
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tell him that ur sorry for whatever happen and then dont talk to him until he talks to you.. give him a couple of days and if he doesnt say anything start a conversation, say hi ask him what hes up 2 and just be nice
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Alright i like this girl right, but i dont know how I can say i like her..each time i see her i just froze...i mean im a major guy in my schoool some girls want me some dont..but i realli think shes the one for me..i would bleed just to be with her..but each time im cloze to say those magic words to her i just get emotionally stress... and break right there on peak point...i dont know what to do so i thought i would come 2 you for advice.....wat can i realli do about dis sitiuation? (link)
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Well hun i know u truly like her.. if u do then why not tell her.. if she rejects u then u can look at it this way, shes miissin out on something great but become great friends with her and try to make her like u before u say smething
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ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~ (link)
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alright sounds like another thing ive gone through lol.. well 1.. if he let her do that then thats technically cheating .. he could love you and stuff but he lets his hornyness get in the way of that.. this kids gotta learn how to set aside temptation for the one he loves cuz some kid did that 2 me a bunch of times and all my friends were tellin me to dump him and finally i did cuz i couldnt take all the lies so now im happy and where still friends..
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I've been in love with my best guy friend for years. We tried going out when we first met but he didn't have strong feelings for me, so he dumped me and later on we became really tight. I'm still deeply in love with him and he has a GF who I'm close with too. No one knows how I feel and I know for sure he does not feel the same way. How do I get this wonderful, funny, perfect guy out of my head? What should I do? (link)
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I know how it feels ive been down that road before. Well think of it this way.. he gave you a chance right? Atleast you got that one chance but itd be best to stay friends because if you go out and end up having a rocky relationtion then things wont be the same as they were when you were just friends. Give him a little time and eventually hell go out with a bunch of girls and get his heart broken a couple of times lol.. be there for him and be nice and he might realize what a great gal u are and give you another chance.
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i really like this one guy but hes going out with a girl... and it seems like this guy likes me and he calls me almost everynight and when were together he always wants to like make out and things liek that but then if he liked me why would he be going out with his grilfriend? so i don't know what to do anymore just go with the flow or try and work things out and just be friends with this guy... (link)
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well if he has a girlfriend and hes doing all this who knows what else he could be doing. Ask him if he likes you and if he says yes then tell him he shouldnt because he has a girlfriend. If i were you id only be friends with him. hope everything works out!
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early? (link)
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Everyone feels love at this age because of hormones so its natural. If you two truly love eachother youll be together no matter what. This may seem odd but my brother has been goin out with this girl since preschool and after college they got married.. but they were both feelin down when they had to go to different schools. They talked on the phone almost everyday and he even wrote her a song telling her how sad he was without her. and each vacation they got they spent it with eachother.. when the time comes youll know what to do but dont think about it much now just spend as much time as you can with him.
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