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hi everyone! I am interested in fashion, music and sports. i really enjoy giving advice to people. i hope i can help you!!
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How can I find the best way to make my boyfriend to open his soul and heart in front of me?We have a relation since 9 years and we have now this problem. I'm a female and I'm 28
if he's been hiding his emmotions for 9 years you should talk to him about it. As you know, that's a really long time and it is probab;ly something important that you two should talk about to make your relationship work. good luck
John has known ive liked him since about october, durin football season i wore his jersey to the games, we havent really hungout and stuff but i dont know theres something about him. he is now in my gym class the last semester and lately he has been acting weird, flirting alot. and i used to just throw myself out to him but now i want to sort of play hard to get while flirtin at the same time.. what can i do? i think he has some thing for me even know i know he probably wont admit it ( its not really anything personal towards me though, its just how he is) i see him in school sometimes, hes in my 1st period spanish class and we dont really talk(hes on the other side) and hes in my gym class .. i want to attract him more and i might ask him to this party tomorrow me and my friend dave are having.. what is some cute things to do in gym? or body language things?
thanksss
Hey! Just act really friendly, always make eye contact with him and smile a lot. joke with him and be yourself. When you are in gym, try to hang around him and talk to him a lot! Sorry this is so late, but good luck with John
I really want to find the right guy
Well I dont know how old you are, but you could try to get a job and meet a guy there, or you could join a church group or something simmilar, depending on your religon. Or if you are old enough you can join some kind of dating service. Good luck
Okay, so I've been hanging out with new people lately, and I like this guy but I don't know how to get him to notice me. He knows I like him, and yeah I guess that's brought us closer. But he's always by this other girl. I've asked many people what to do and they say that he thinks I'm hott, but he's always by her. Please help me get ways for him to come by me and hang out with me instead of her!
13/f
If he wont come to you, you've got to go to him! When he's not around that other girl (or even when he's with her, who cares!) go hang out with him, talk to him, get to know him. Be really nice, sweet and friendly. You've just got to win him over by showing him that you've got a great personality! Be confiddent with yourself, that's key. good luck
The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on?
Oh my god he is horrible!! Dont even think twice about him!! Definetely move on. You cannot have a healthy relationship with a guy who is always critisizing you. And he shouldn't care about your weight, it's none of his buisness, and he should form an opinion about you by the type of person you are, not how much you weigh. You definetly have to move on!!
peace.love.happiness
At my school, we have this dance where the girls ask the guys (hence the backwards part). I have a few guy friends that I'm thinking of asking, but I don't know how to ask them. Girls, if you could share how you asked a guy out (or to a dance), and guys, if you could share how you'd like to be asked, that would be great. Also, none of these guys are romantically involved with me in any way. Also, if you can think of cute ways to do my hair or other dance tips/tricks (i've never been to a dance, really.) then I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much, and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. :)
Oh, and also, should I ask a freshman (I'm a freshman) or an upperclassman?
well, on who you are going to ask, it doesnt matter what class they are in, it is who ever you are most comfortable asking. my geuss is that if you ask a guy, youd probably be more comfortable with a freshman. if you go with a senior guy, a lot of girls will be quick to judge you by that (most likely they are jelous). Its your first dance, so just do what you're most comfortable with!! Second, on asking a guy, that's tough for most girls because their nerves get to them. Most likely f you ask a guy firned they'll accept!! Just say it straight out, do you want to go to the dance with me? dragging it out and making it complicated will just make it scarier!! Just ask him. Okay and third, buns, curls and half up/half downs are all really popular for dances, if you want something more specific, you can tell me your hair style and color and i can help you even more! Have Fun!!
peace.love.happiness