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Hi im 15 and i really like this guy. he is a grade younger than me. so when i hang out with him i don't get nervous or anything but i guess just self concious about like making a move since i'm older. i know he likes me cause i asked him out as a joke and he said yes. i went to the beach with him today in the ocean, and he kept grabbing me and puttting me on his lap. i'm ok with that but my sister was there so it was weird. he would start to pull his hand away from me around my stomah but as soon i put my hand on his he froze and just kept it there. but then i would relize what i was doing and i would pull away. so i guess i am just scared of getting rejected idk what i should do and how i should not pull away. (link)
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I understand what your going through mentally. Many people are afrraid of being rejected. But rather then being scared you need to take a chance. Just be careful that he is a good guy. And there is nothing wrong with you asking him out. I say go for it. Tell me what happens
Good Luck
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I'm not allowed 2 date [period] and I was wondering if you could help me convince her 2 let me date @ 13 like reasons ideas 4 dates etc. Like she had some issues with her dating xpieriences so yea but like what is a bf @ 13 yrs old what's the difference between a 13 yr old dating and a 16-18 yr old? Like dates what you do when you date (at 13) and what I should tell her.. I know I'm asking a lot but I really need a LOT of advice so if you would PRETTY please
Best wishes, B (link)
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This might no be what you want to hear but Im going to be honest with you.The purpose of Dateing is to get married one day. Dating at such a young age can cause you to make decisions that you could regret one day. Ive seen a lot of girls get hurt dating young and when they are older they are bitter and it becomes really hard to trust a guy or believe that a guy could love you. I really think a good time to start dating would be at 18. Thats what I did and I found the love of my life and am now engaged to be married.
I hope I helped
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I loved your advice so I'm asking you another question. You seem much older than I am. I'm only 13 bout to be 14. My boyfriend is the bestest. He is home now but he is definately hiding something. He asked me to dinner and the movies so we could talk about something he wont tell me til then. I'm scared. I think he really is lying to me. What do I do? (link)
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Im 18 if u were wondering
If he has something negative to say he wants to have a good time with you before hand. Remeber sometimes there are things that are out of his control. Give him the benifit of the doubt until you know for sure. If you assume things a relationship can go real bad cause the trust will disapate. Try to enjoy yourself and make the best you can of it. Let me know what happens. I real feel for you. I knwo when I was your age people always told me "your so young, you have so much time". its true. I was patient andI found my true love. Im actually engaged. shh...not a lot of people know. lol. IF you 2 are meant to be then it will be so. Dont b bitter if what he tells you is out of his control.
If you end up getting hurt. tell me about it. Ive helped my friends with stuff like this all the time. Pain can do alot to a person.
All you can really do is wait. Act from there.
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i know this is really weird, but nobody i've ever dated was really into the neck kissing thing, but my current boyfriend is. and i have no clue what to do while he's doing it. sorry if i sound like a completely douchebag. haha. (link)
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I kiss my Girlfriends neck all the time. She closes her eyes and ejoys it. She always start runnin her hands through my hair. It makes me feel real good. try it.
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Ok. I think my boyfriend is lying to me. First he told me he would be back from his dads Friday. It'd Wednesday and he still isn't here. I miss him like crazy. I talked to my best friend who is his ex. She told me that when me and my boyfriend talk on IM he sends her our conversations. I asked him about it and he said he would never do that to me. But a while ago he told me he was gonna move in like 2 years. Now I'm hearing he's gonna move whenever his mom just feels like getting up and going. He said he really doesn't know when he's gonna move. I love him. What do I do? Trust a guy who could be a bad boyfriend or dump the love of my life? (link)
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It doesnt really seems like everything here he is lying about. the IM thing is a maybe but the moving part is out of his control. He might actually know when he is going to move but is scared of losing you if you find out that is really soon.
My girlfriend stuggled with this whole threat of me moving away for college. It didnt happen but when it was still up in arms she was torn cause she loved me and I her.
If he had a choice in staying and you know he would now that he was a good guy. There's one problem: you only find out what he tells you.
You really need to sit down and think about this. Depending on how old you are this Love may not be everything you think. I dont know this though. Follow your heart. When it comes down to it you just need to ask yourself:"Do i trust him?"
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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend about a week and a half ago then i left for a trip and got back the other day. when i got online i was telling him all about it b/c he imed me first and he said he still wanted to talk to me b/c he wants to stay friends. so i was telling him about everything but i left out the part about this guy i met at camp b/c i didnt want to hurt him. he got mad anyways and was like " all you talk about is yourself" but he never talks about him even if i ask so i was like umm im sorry? then he went into detail about how he got drunk, and went to his best friends exes house and hung out w/ her in her hot tub. then he was like im gonna go its hard to talk to you b/c i still love you so much. then he signed off. i was so pissed! what the heck is wrong w/ him? i got so mad that i sent him an email that was like " why would you tell me about u and that girl and then tell me you love me? " it just pissed me off! so then i was like "fine, ill tell him about the guy at camp!" so i did and w/ great detail just to piss him off b/c i wanted to give him a taste of his own medicine. i know that was wrong but it just really made me mad about what he did? what should i say to him later when he ims me and gets mad? i kno he will, but i just dont know if i should say sorry a million times, or be just as angry at him as hes gonna be at me. thank you so much im sorry this was so long! (link)
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Your right you throwing things back in his face was wrong. Really the best thing to do here is to just not be friends and not to talk. It will simplely cause you headaches. Being "friends" after that simply wont work. Tell him that its better you two dont talk and leave it at that. If he still tries just block his IM and ignore him. Seems kinda harsh but its the most affective coarse of action.
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i let my bf down by not going to see him i didn't mean to but it took me awhile to get to the first place i was going...well now he's actin funny when i talk to him and he hasn't called me i have to call him. I'm really sorry but i keep doing dumb s**t and sayin sorry and i think the word is a little overused. Please help me i really don't know how to handle this i think it's going too far. (just to say i'm 14/f and have know him since 4th grade,i'm going to 9th) (link)
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For guys at time it gets frustrating when He always go to her and it seems like there is no attempt to try and see him. In reality though if your relationship is serious he should be able to get over it. Give him time and space but dont think you have to ill ur self makeing apologizing for something you couldnt control.
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