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Theres this girl at school ,shes my friend ,so I LIKE HER ALOT
she doesn't like dating but i think thats because her friends are around her . What do i do?
From, Jdo225 (link)
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Would it be possible for you to provide a little more like both of your ages.
Does your friend know you like her? How do you know she doesn't like dating?
I don't want to assume anything in my reply to you...the more facts, the more help I can give.
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Is it a bad thing my girl friend had sex with 34 people (link)
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Well you never said how old she is for one.
Without more information I really can't say...both your ages would be a good start.
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Hi guys, I'm 16 years old and I am female. I have been dating this guy for a little over 2 months and I am always In the mood to have sex with him but I am soo very self conscience about myself. I'm technically not a virgin but it was like 2 years ago. And he is double my size... Literally and I have to go on top cuz he will squish me. He's told me this, that when it happens I go on top. But how do I make myself feel more comfortable? Please please help me!! Thankyou so much! (link)
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Doesn't matter about your age. Doesn't matter whether you are a virgin or not. Sex isn't hard when it's someone you are totally at ease with. In fact it's like breathing! It feels natural. And sometimes being squished is good.
However, if your not comfortable and feel self conscious...this is your bodies way of telling you that you're not ready. For a woman to be sexually confident, she needs to be secure in her own body...confident in the way she feels and moves. Happy with who she is.
It's not a bad thing to be not ready and don't confuse being horny with being sexually mature. If you really like this guy, take it slow and easy...stick to foreplay. Because believe me when you are ready to have sex...you won't be asking how do I make myself more comfortable. It will just happen...
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I am 20 years old, female and my boyfriend is 46! We have been together for almost a year and a half. My parents are forcing me to break up with him! And are taking everything away from me untill I do. like my truck, phone, and are going to kick me out. I just started a minume wage job and can't afford these on my own yet! Not sure what I should do? (link)
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Ok...the parents are playing hardball. I imagine they are rather disturbed by the age difference. There is no easy answer to this.
He is old enough to be your father springs to mind. However, one could say Catherine Zeta Jones likes really old men too. Some people are wired that way.
You need to sit down with your parents and get them to tell you why they are against this relationship. No getting defensive.
It might not be the age but the person they don't like. If you still don't agree with their reason then you need to make a choice...your family or not. It's not a good choice but you do have one.
A family at odds is never good...communication and honesty are key. What is more important to you...your family or your man?
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