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Q: this girl i like is popping by just to visit me in a bit. im only gonna see her for a few minutes. truth is im really falling for her and i dont know what to do. alot of the times i find we just have alot of awkward silence, like tehre is nothign to do and absolutly nothing to talk about. i really like her, and she likes me somewhat. i dont think she would say yes if i asked her out, because she doesnt do the whole commitment thing but that doesnt mean she wont hook up with me. so what should i do, she'll be here soon, and we will only have a short amount of time together. what can i say to get her into a romantic type of feeling maybe so we can make out or somthing. because honestly, i dont know what there is to talk about anymore, we've talke forever about almost everything. and i really like her.
Do you really like her or do you just want to hook up with her? Just...try not to make it look to obvious that you wanna hook up with her. Try like listening to music with her and just tell her how great she's looking and well... i'm not to sure because i've never tried to get a girl to hookup with me before sooo... just like complamint her alot :) hope i helped a littlee insy bit.

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Q: well,my b/f and i have been going out for 6 weeks.my b/f's birthday is in less than 4 weeks time and im not sure if i should get him a present.we will be going out for 10 weeks then and i think we will still be together because we love each other.what should i get him?should i get him something?what do you think?13/f,xxaoifexxx
think of something fun and original! make him a cd with songs that remind you of him instead of buying him one! make it specail!

Q: OK so I've been dating this guy for a year and I'm totally crazy about him but I'm his first girlfriend and I've dated 2 guys in the past. One of them I dated on and off for almost 2 1/2 years and we are still really good friends. I've only kissed my bf, not like madeout or ne thing but my old b/f and me made out a bunch of times. My best friend thinks I am being dishonest by not telling my new bf about what me and my x have done but he's never asked and it's never been a problem so I don't see why he needs know. Question: am I being dishonest and does my new bf have the right to know or should I leave it because it's in the past?
you're not being dishonest. I mean if he hasn't asked then maybe he doesnt WANT to know about your past things... just concentrate on the future... you seem so young to be so serious babe!

Q: theres this one boy, eddie. We're best friends, and i'm in love with him(but he doesn't know). today, me, him, and two other friends were all together, and one of them asked him if he thought my other friend, kim, was hot. he kind of blushed, and he didnt really say yeah but he didnt deny it either. and then she was like, so you do? and he kinda said yeah.
but he kinda acts like he likes me. he sits next to me whenever he gets the chance, and he's really nice to me. when there are a whole group of us, me and him always end up walking behind the rest, talking to eachother.

does the fact that he thinks my friend is hot mean that he can't like me? does he sound like he might?
boy best friends are very complicated. There is a huge possibility that he does like you, and while a boy likes you he still has opinions on other girls OR he likes you when he's around, but okay.. lets put it this way... he wants his cake and to eat it to. EXAMPLE.. "Kim" is his cake. he wants to be able to have it but "U" are the eating it part.

Also... sometimes when you like someone it's easy to read more into their feelings because you want it to be there.

But like i said, there is a very thin/complicated lines between boy bestfriends and girls. They're your best friend, so its easy to fall in love with them, and the fact that they're a boy lets there be the sexual side into it. because think about it, if your best friend was a girl she'd be everythng you looked for in a guy BUT not attracted physically too.. thats why boy bestfriends are complicated.

hope i helped. i was in a VERY similiar situation.

Q: i have my boy friends myspace password. i accidently signed on his and saw that he had a new message. i read it. it was him and this girl have cyber sex. i know i shouldnt have been reading his messages because that is personal. but do i have a right to be mad at him? and what should i so about it?
I know how hard it is NOT to use your b/f's password for myspace when you have it. Curiosity usually wins so you're normal...we've all done it. While it's true, you shouldn't have been reading his messages, something in your mind told you that you couldn't trust him and that's why you looked... and you had good reason to, but yes you have every right to be mad at him! Cyber-Sex is just disgusting first of all, that's how petofiles *Spelling?* are made! Second... hes YOUR boyfriend. Not that other girls... she doesn't get the privlage of having his sexual attention. PERIOD. it's yours. I would confront him about it, who cares if you were in the wrong for looking at his myspace? he's only going to get pissed because of what you found not because you snooped. Hope I helped!

Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 years now and im really upset tonight because he promised me he wasnt gonna go somewhere because todays our anniversary but then when he got here he told me he had to go and he couldnt help it. we got in a big fight before he left. i just had surgery and he wasnt able to be there because of his dad and this weeks been terrible. anyway we had a big fight and he said he was just gonna go so i could sleep and not be angry at him. and i havent talked to him since then and that was several hours ago and he said hed be back before then. i guess i dont really have a question, i just need someone to tell me something idk if anyone wants to talk on aim please leave me ur sn
sounds like me and my bf a little. we've been together almost 2 years. he used to do that stuff on our annaversiry too. but he doesnt anymore, i talked to him and i told him how much it hurt me because those days were special.

i think you need to have a talk with your boyfriend because 1.you just had surgery, unless his parents are making him do something he should be there with you and 2. ITS YOUR DAY! you know?

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Q: Umm this is kind of hard to ask but... why does it feel like I'm peeing razor blades? I heard this could be either connected to a bladder infection or an STD. I've never really had sex except with these guys that kind of dress up like girls, because I heard you can get STD's from having sex with women. But you can't get STD's from anal/oral sex right? Well what I'm trying to say is does anyone know what I can do to make the pain go away, short of chopping off my own penis with a butcher's cleaver. 13/m if that helps.
oh yes you can get STDs from anal AND oral sex! it could be a bladder infection, but males rarley get them. you need to get to the dr. ASAP and read up on STD's because you can get them from both things you've listed. i advise you google it and look it up.

Q: Alright there is this girl i really like her she is funny and beautiful and all that good stuff but i don't know if she likes me to. Well i want to know what is the best way to go on about this.
do you ever talk to her at all? ease into it. talk to her in class, like ask her what kind of movies she likes and if she says comedy be like "theres this new movie "TITLE" and ive been dying to see it, do you wanna do?" or maybe if shes into bands, see if there are any local bands playing and invite her to come along with you.

Q: I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am.
I think that love knows no age and you could fall in love at anytime. I think you are definitly old enough to be in love, and i think you were old enough at 14. Age cannot tell your heart how to feel.

Q: So there are 2 guys lets call them #1 and #2 well i work with #1 and today at school he waited for me when i got to school and walked around with me then gave me a hug. But #2 I found out really likes me I don't really know him but today he told my friend don't forget...meaning don't forget to tell me that he likes me. I like both of them but what should I do?
well before you can really do anything about it you have to decide which boy you like the most. If you don't really know #2 then how do you know you like him? Do you just like him because he likes you?

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