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Okay so i have been talking to this girl for a really long time and she wanted to hangout really bad so she came over one night. I flirted with her a lot and we had sex. And i know this girl likes me A LOTT. but the thing is i dont like her at all and i tottaly led her on by having sex with her so how do i make it as easy as i can on her without dating her? (link)
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lol you've been getting some harsh advice dude :-p
i know you're not going to like it... but you need to be sensitive, and have a deep conversationg with her... explain that the situation got out of hand, and you didn't plan on having sex, it was happened.
it was a spur of the moment... it felt right at the time, but right now you can't commit to anything, as you're not ready. tell her that you do like her, but nothing else can happen at this point in time.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
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LONG BUT i'LL LOVE YOU FOREVER=/. i'm not a total idiot, and i usually don't need advice i just give it. me and my ex- [we will call danny] were going out since Nov. 7, 2004, yeah but broke up 4 times. the second to last time it was for a month because i liked another boy [we will call him cody] and i wanted to give him a 2nd chance, yes... i already had gone out with him. so it ended and with a little struggle started going back out, everything back to normal... felt good. i was always comfortable with being with danny. last friday, i'm dissapointed to admit, i cheated on him with cody. danny hadn't been calling me, and when he did VERY RARELY. so i called him yesterday, he doesn't know i cheated, and we argued & he said he didn't know if he wanted to go out with me. so i just said it's over & he said he wasn`t happy but was going to go. i haven't talked to danny since. cody REALLY likes me and everything and he's a really good boyfriend, but i always end up just wanting danny. please just give me .. SOMETHING, anything. my friends are too dumb for this stuff. (link)
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heya,
woah that's a tricky situation.
if you still have strong feelings for danny, then you shouldn't be with cody, until you're positive you're over danny as it's unfair.
and if you're finding it difficult to decide which guy you have real feelings for, then I suggest you "take a break" with cody whilst you sort your emotions out.
hope it helps
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else :-)
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ok. ive been goin out with this girl for 2 months and i wanna kiss her bu ti dont know what to do to get to that point. we hang out everyday at this place that alot of our friends go to. should i kiss her there?. or there but somewhere private. what should i doo?? (link)
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you should most likely kiss her in private, as it can be a little embarassing and awkward when infront of your friends...
and just relax, put your arms round her, gently pull her in and kiss her...
good luck dude :-)
feel free to get in touch if you need anything else
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theres this guy troy. i really like him and he likes me i think. we hung out today and he took me out to lunch and i donno we get along really good. and we were totally flirting. the only problem is..its my best friends ex boyfriend. their still friends a little..but she broke up with him...its notl ike he broke her heart...she treated him like shit. she doesnt know how lucky she was to have to boy like that! he drove to see her all the time, doesnt cheat, always called, and never canceled on her. hes soo hott too.and he met my mom today. and she likes him to. and were hanging out friday...and when he walked me back to my door today he gave me like the longest hug EVER...but hes my friends ex!! err idk what to do..help?
ps..when they broke up i told her shes going to regret it cause hes such a great guy...and she was like then you can have him..but she said it sarcastically...omgg i dont know.. :( (link)
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the other girls are right; you need to talk to your friend about this guy, and explain that you like him and are getting along with. but to be honest, it sounds like she didnt really care about him when they were dating, so don't let her make you feel guilty for flirting with him, even if he is her ex.
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Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.
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Heya,
to be honest, relationships are built on trust, so if he doesn't start trusting you soon, it doesn't look good for your future together.
How do you act with your guy friends? do you flirt at all? Because if you don't then invite your boyfriend to hang out with you and your guy friends, so he can reassure himself that there's nothing going on between you and your mates.
He's just insecure about himself, and most likely thinks that he isn't good enough for you; so go easy on him and just try and talk it out, explain that you love him, and that he's the only one you're interested in.
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