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I am Mimi.

I am a 14 year old but I have been through a lot for somebody my age.

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Recently, i just got another boyfriend. Everything is great, he's nice, he's good-looking... but theres one problem about me that keeps getting me dumped!
Theres nothing to say!! Like say for instance, i see him at school or in class. We start off great:
Me:Hey
Him:Hey
Me:So how are you?
Him: Good, yourself?
Me: Im good too.
Him:Thats good.
Me:So... what are you doing this weekend?
Him: Nothing, you?
Me: Same...
And thats what happens all the time. I run out of things to say, and he get bored!
WHAT DO I DO?! I NEED URGENT HELP, FAST! (link)
Yeah...that used to happen to me.
Okay so you can tell him that things are ackward and ask him how it could change.
Or the other thing is to ask him how is day is and when he asks how yours is say good or whatever and tell him why.
Ask him questions.
XOXO


What is the best way to ask a guy that you REALLY like out? I'm really nervous about him saying no and ruining our friendship. I'm also a lil scared that he'll go telling all his buds and then say no. I've never had a bf and i've never asked a boy out...Should i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me or if he would ever consider me as a gf or more than just a friend??? We like to talk to each other and stuff like that. And everytime someone mentions that he might like me or he does like me he usualy smiles and turns real red. sooo idk how to ask him out!!! PLEASE HELP! (link)
Well...just talk to him casually and be like..."So I think you're a really great guy." wait for his reply and if he just says like "Thanks" I wouldn't take it any further. But, If he's like "Well, you're a great girl." or something jump onto the opprotunity.
Remember that you never know unless you try.
Break a leg
XOXO


i just got out of a bad relationship with my ex. and i met this amazing guy. hes really sweet. but come to find out, his sister is my best friend. and i wonder what our friendship would be like if her brother (elliot) and i were together. i dont want to lose our friendship or have it be ackward. any ideas? (link)
If she is a real best friend she will accept the relationship.
If not it's her loss.
I know my best friend would let me date her brother if I wanted to (Ew) lol but...it wouldn't mess up REAL friendship.
Talk to her about it...be like "Hey so...I really like your brother and if anything were to happen with us would you be okay with it?"
If she says "Yeah" you know that you have a great friend.
If not you get to make the choice. It'll be hard but that's part of life.
XOXO


Im really falling for this guy right now his name is dez. He really listens to me and doesn't ignore me like all the other guys i dated. The only problem is he libes in georgia and i live in washington dc. Im really falling in love with him. What should I do you guys. (link)
Well I'm sorry to say this but I learned first hand that long-distance relationships don't work...if things are meant to be they will happen...focus on friendship...if you guys get really close in a friend way maybe things will happen. Best of luck.
XOXO


My friend who i have been friends with since first grade is very flirty and wants to grab my ass. he like said "so i can look but can i touch..." i dont know how to respond to that. i want to be flirty back without saying yes or no. can anyone help pleaseee? (link)
Ahahhaa okay what you do is just do something flirty randomnly...he'll get the picture, trust me. Start small though.
XOXO


so. my friend just got this new bf. and hes amazing, we were chillin one day and i met his friend,at that moment i knew i had to have him.not only is he amazingly gorgeous but hes sweet anf funny and i just cant describe it. he comes from a rough-ish homelife and hes still amazing i see through his "tough guy" act i see him for what he is for who he is. BUT of course he doesnt even think of me in that way, not even close, hes like in love with this other girl and it tears me apart, i reeeeeeeeeeeeeally like him but im cluless as to what im supposed to do, how do i win his heart??????? (link)
Honestly, you can't win a heart...I learned that and it hurts to know but you have to leave some of this to fate...I know how badly it hurts but if he doesn't like you, you can't make him...be friendly and definatley yourself...be a really good friend and if things end with the other girl he will have somebody to talk to about it...knowing that he can trust you is a really good start. But untill then I'm sorry for the heartache.
XOXO


I've been going out with this guy about a month now. We like each other very much. Just two days ago he was telling me how I'm the only one for him and how he likes me so much. Yesturday I found that he got drunk three days ago and had sex with some dirty girl from school. He claims that he remembers nothign of it. He apologized many times. I don't really know what i should do. I still like him a lot but he still went too far with that girl. I dont know whether i should forgive him and go back with him, forgive him and just stay friend, or completely shut him out. And it would be weird at school because i see him for every class. He's 17 and I'm fourteen by the way. (link)
Okay I'm sorry sweetie but he is a jerk.
Cheating is horrible...drunk or not.
The guy I like has a girlfriend who cheated on him like that only not drunk and everyone is so dissappointed he's with her still. Anybody who would cheat would most definatley do it again.
Move on...it really hurts I know but it's the best thing that you can do for yourself...unless you feel you guys REALLY have something.
Sometimes ackward is how it has to be.
Good luck.
XOXO





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