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Hi everyone! Im 14 years old, i live in Sweet Home Alabama. I love playing basketball, going to church, and hanging with my friends. i also love the computer/internet. I am a Baptist Christian (if you need to talk about anything pretaining to christianity or whatever IM me) and im willing to share about my faith. Hope you enjoy my column!




Im sick of school (middle at least) i cant wait till this summer when i go to the beach and hang with my friends and my family. If you ask a stupid inapropriate question, then im gonna give you a stupid inapropriate answer.
Im not like most guys. (no, im not gay) I dont like fire or fireworks. Im not perverted or nasty, im not looking for a girlfriend. im not the kind of guy who looks at girls butts as they walk by, i dont care how bug your butt or boobs are. i dont care what you look like, im happy with smart, funny, good sense of humor, and someone who enjoys life. I just enjoy life, i dont care what people say or think about me. i have plenty of friends that love me, and thats all i need. My family is really good, but im not perfect, i have my problems and imperfections.. but im living. Living a great fun filled life.

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Theres this guy that i like. All his friends thinks he likes me and i think he does too. But hes real shy about it and wont admit. Well last night his friend invited us all over and a couple of my girl friends came over. The guy i like lives right up the street and they called him to come over but he never showed. Then today he was supposed to come to a party but he never showed either but his friends went. Does this mean he doesnt want to see me or what? (link)
yeah know.. normally i would be nice. but im in a weird mood. so, like, mabey, just possibly.. he, now this is just a thought, had other plans. have you talked him and asked him why he wasnt there? or mabey ask his friends or somehitng... your probably over reacting.


i am 13, and i got a boyfreind about a month ago. he was fun 2 talk to. lately, all he wants to do is kiss...and he is a bad kisser! he goes to private school, and is a year younger. i still like him, but it's sorta getting awkward for me. plz give me advice. i rate 5's if u give good advice.
-thanks (link)
lol... when your are kissing ihm the next time.. kinda pull away and with a sexy smile, say "hmm.. lemme show you how to really kiss" and show him!


I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life

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lilt (link)
let her know exactly how you feel.. and be serious about it.. tell her the people who are telling her that are jealous cant they cant have her.. be able to back up whatever you say too. follow your heart.


my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13 (link)
i know how you feel, except in my possition i cant have the person i want at all. you just have to try to move on.. and mabey its not possible right now, but you have to try.. and try to find someone else new. its may be the hardest thing ever, and you may not want to move on, but if your crusj doesnt like you then you ahve to move on, you cant let your crush get in the way of your life.


What are those so called "love handles"? (link)
heh.. its where your hip bones kinda poke out... but its fat too. like if you were holding a kid, its where their legs rest on. some peoples stick out more either because they have more fat or there hip bones stick out farther...


This guy in my class hates me. I like him a lot, and he used to like me. I don't know why he doesn't like me anymore. I can't eat, i can't sleep, and i can't think about anything but him.... he's everything to me and i know that guys will run if u say that to them so no one knows but me how i feel. I told him i really liked him but he just told me to fuck off. He's constantly making fun of me and i don't know what to do. Everytime he makes fun of me it hurts me really bad and there's nothing i can do about it it seems.... last week i was in the bathroom crying because of what he said. Yet, i still like him for some odd reason someone please help!!!! (link)
if he hates you that bad, for a reason you dont know, then hes a waste of time. and i know it may be hard for you to think that because it sounds as if your in love. but really... no matter how hard it is you need to get over him if he strongly dislikes you like that... so you can meet new guys, you know? but i always tell everyone this when it comes to somehting like this: follow your heart.


i have a really complicated sitch but here it goes: ive been with guy A for a bit over a month and since hes really shy, he wont talk to me or make time to be with me.he doesnt like talkin on the phone, in person and he never checks his email. i was the one that asked him out for this reason. he said he liked me and everything but he never shows it and im guessing its cuz hes a bit immature.
anyway, guy B has been my friend for a lil while and i got him together with one of my girlfriends (cuz he liked her) then she broke up with him for no reason...hes a sweetie and did everything to make her happy (he was goth and he kinda changed for her) its been 5 weeks since they broke up and i was talking to him about guy A and how i wasnt sure about him. he told me that bad side about him and how i should wait or just be paitient. then when he was helping me (after talking for 5 hours online) he admitted he liked me. im so confused... i like them both and well im on the verge (dumping guy A) and guy B is on the rebound so i dont know if its "real". please give me your honest view and help. ill rate you for answering honestly...not just go with the first thing that goes through your mind. (link)
i think that you should wait just a little but longer. for one, to see if your boyfriend now will loosen up and two to see if you actually do like guy B. if guy A doesnt loosen up and you stiull like guy B then definetly break up with guy A and go for guy B. but if guy A loosens up, then give him a while longer. unless you start to like guy B better. follow your heart. ^_^


Ok, so my friends are telling me this guy likes me, but it's not the guy I like. They said he might ask me out, but I don't have feelings for him. How can I say I don't want to go out w/ him without sounding mean? (link)
everyone goes through this, you dont want to be mean to him, but you really dont like him as more than a friend. just tell him that you just want to be friends, that if you go out with him it might make a hole in the friendship when you break up.. just be honest.


Alright, so.. I'm torn between two people. I was asked to this dance, by a guy completely out of nowhere.. I mean, he was more of an older brother than anything.. I was hoping the guy I like would ask me, (( keep in mind I've liked him since sixth grade )). Anyway, so.. I'm not sure if should give up on my crush and try and like my friend.. or still hold onto my crush.. By the way, me and my crush are really good friends too.. have known eachother since kindergarden.. (link)
well... i dont know how they do dances where you are but here just because you go to the dance with someone doesnt mean you have to like them. i would say go with your friend, you would probably be more comfortable with your friend. but you can still like your crush. dont give up on the crush. follow your heart..



Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???

And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high

Gomesy (link)
i dont think it is at all... some guys dont realize that a girl likes them until they get asked out, and mabey then the guy realizes they like the girl too. but dont make it sound desperate. just tell him how long youve liked him and then just ask him if he would go out with you.. its always best to do it in person.



i've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and we still love each other a lot. i show him all the time how i feel about him, like by giving him a back rub or making him dinner. he tells me that he loves me and is still in love with me, but he never shows me anything that can prove what he says. he has a hard time saying i love you first. i just don't know what to do (link)
just because he doesnt show it as much as you do, doesnt mean he doesnt love you just as much as you love him. he just may show it differently. but if you might think he is cheating on you or something of that matter. then i would confront him about it, tell him its okay to show that he loves you, that he doesnt need to be embarrassed or shy. and dont stop showing him you love him.


i wrote before about "carl" and what had happended well i stil realli want him and i want to tell him but i dont know how i mean you wont just go up to him and tell him you like him when hes taken right or is that what i should do? i dont know but anyways, we started talking more now well more than before and we joke around and stuff and i just wish hed like me like i like him but i dont think he does. and i was talking to my best friend about it and she told me she was getting made cuz all i ever talk about is "carl" and i told that i do cuz i love him so much and i want to be with hi and nothing would make me happy until we are together and she looked at me like i was on drugs. so what im asking is should i tell him and if so when and where and HOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!plz help im so cunfused. (link)
i do think you should tell him. as for when, it sounds like it would be best if you told him when nobody else is around, just to make it easier. as for where, i dont know, cuz i dont know where you see him or anything. and how, just tell him you like him a lot.. you dont have to make it a long complicated explanation. but, if in return he says that he doesnt like you, dont be all depressed and all, you cant get everybody. its important that you tell him though... because you need to find out if he likes you back or not, so if he does mabey you two could become more than friends, and if he doesnt then you could move on to other people. people, no matter how impossible it seems, better than him.





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