Hey i'm Melissa i'm 14 me and my friends and my so-called friends have been through everything together soo if you have a problem we've probably had it to, so dont worry im here with advice and i'm pretty sure i can help you with any problems you have.. wanna i-m me and ask me on aim go ahead:: Brunete x Hottie or NevaHadSum1LikeU x-0 Melis*
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My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?
What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?
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Kelsssss
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My boyfriend and I've been going out for three years now. When we met (16 at the time), I told him that if he wanted to become more than a friend to me then there are certain things he needed to know. I've told him I've been clinically depressed since I was eleven years old and that I'm self destructive and he understood. Instead of disregarding me, we fell in love.. The problem is, he breaks up with me when I'm at the point where my depression becomes unhandling.. basically, at times when I need him most. However, he always ends up coming back to me. This has happened at least twice since we've been together.
I'm 19 now and I've just started college. Ever since college has begun, I've been becoming more or more sad with my life. Everythings been so stressful, living away from home, being in a new environment, the college work load.. etc. Two nights ago I told my boyfriend that lately I've been crying a lot and that my depression is getting worse. Well, last night, out of no where, he breaks up with me over the phone. Two hours later, he wants me back.
I feel as if he doesnt want to be with me because he doesnt want to deal with my depression.. Thing is, I dont burden him with anything, I just go to him to talk about what's bothering me. It's like, he can't handle it and he gives up on me.. I know he really loves me though and I would never doubt his love for me.. it's just that I don't like being thrown away and then taken back. I dont like when people take me for granted. I need advice on what to do, because I really do love him and want to be with him. But I just cant keep having this happen to me.. him breaking up with me especially over something I can't help: my depression.
Thanks in advance.
Sorry for the length.
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Listen i think you need to talk to him about why hes always breaking up with you. Maybe it's not what you think it's for. If he broke up with you because of your depression he wouldnt take you back.. soo it's obviously probably not that. he obviously loves you, but i think your both lacking the talking part of your relationship.. i hope everything works out.. Good Luck
x0o Melis*
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my friends and i alwayss hang out together. thing is, i kind of want to have some alone time with my one guy friend, if you know what im sayin. how could i go about hinting this to him? (link)
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Why dont you just invite him over.. by himself
and if your other friend gets offended, than just talk it out with her by telling her listen i kind of want some time with him, because you kinda like him or you wanna see whats the deal with him..
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O.K... I'm a 13/f to start with
I like this guy named Wade. I started liking him when my friend, Carissa, told me he liked me and I had always thought he was hot but he liked me and I was just... wow. Anyways, I flirted with him. We're both really shy and we hate it when people make a big scene if I like him or he likes me. We don't flirt a whole lot. I really thought that if I just talked to him more and let him know slowly and gradually that I liked him, he would ask me out. I thought it was because he was shy... but a month after that, he still didn't ask me out. But he asked out this new girl named Sarah and she's REALLY ugly. I don't think I'm the prettiest person on Earth but I KNOW I'm prettier than her.
Well, they were going out and than, in science, we had this chemical elements project where we had to partner up and I really hoped Wade would ask me to be his partner but instead, he asked this girl named Shireen. Shireen had said that day that she liked him. She's this ugly, weirdo, skinny girl thinking she can get anyone she wants. Well, a weekend passed and when we went back to school, I found out that Shireen went over to Wades house to "do the project" but they actually made out! I was so upset and mad I wanted to scream but that would be a little outrageous. I really am jealous that he's so shy around me but not all these other girls. Don't even say "It's because he likes you." because if he liked me, he would've asked ME out, he would've asked ME to be his partner, WE would've made out but instead he makes out with other girls and has the courage to ask out an ugly girl but won't ask me out. My biggest question is... WHY? I really like Wade. I would prefer a guy to answer this since they kinda have his point of view but if any girls want to answer and they know the answer, it's fine with me to answer. I just want advice on what I should do. I only have 2 classes with him but his girlfriend only has one with him. I am closer to him... why didn't he ask me out. Thanks a bunch!
Luv, Kayla
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Listen this isnt the answer u want but.. he likes u trust me.. my friend has the same problem thid guy wade.. hes nervous around you, hes not nervous around other girls because he doesnt like them hes not trying to impress themm.. do you kind of get that ?
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okay i like this guy lets call him bob so at lunch my friend told me that she likes him too and then i was fine with it but then in 7th hour this girl that i CAN NOT stand told me that she likes him also and i was soo madd i like this bob alotttt BUT i also have a boyfriend we've been going out for 7 months but i really like bob and so do alot of others apperantly what should i do (link)
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Well listen first of all i'd like to make sure you know which you probably do that none of these girls are telling you they like him to get you mad. SEcondly, you have a boyfriend you need to tell yourself do you like him more or "bob" after you've made that decision the rest is pretty self-explanatory.
x0o Melis*
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Okay, I need help. I like this guy, lets call him Mike. Well we grinded a couple times and he's always hugging me when he sees me. I heard he was going to ask me out. Well the problem is my ex, lets call him Devon, wants to go out with me again. I kinda still like him and he asked me out but I said I don't know. I know he's gonna ask me again in school and I don't know what to do.
Please Help
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I Can Get Your Problem you dont wanna ruin things with either of them but Devon .. u already gave a chance to. and there was bviously a good reason u two broke uph right? I say give mike a chance .. and either hes very affectionate, likes you, or is just leading you on.. i say you find out ..
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My past relationship hurt me so bad, that all I want to do know is be cool with everyone. The only thing is a lot of boys want to go with me and I want to talk to them but everytime I think about the hurt that this last boy caused me that I don't want to go through it again. Can someone help me think of ways to get over it. Thank YOu (link)
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This may sound hard but You cant let him get to you .. he probably wants you to not go on going out wiht other guys.. you holding yourself back from having fun in your teen years isnt gonna make him come back or make you have the feeling you had when you were with him.. guys will come and go but theyre not all bad i myself have found a good one.. some of themm wont hurt you and the ones who will arent worth it..
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okk my friend likes this guy. `nd i know for a fact he doesnt like her. me `nd him hung out the other night `nd she called me. `nd shes like oh hes wit u let me talk to him .. so she was talkin `nd stuff .. `nd he got off `nd he was all like "why did u make me talk to her shes so fuckin annoying", then he was goin on about that for a while.
`nd i kinda like him too .. but my friend would get mad at me but he doenst like her .. `nd shes like the kinda girl who juss gets over guys really quick .. but i dont know what to do .. b/c he doesnt like her .. `nd theres chance he might like me .. i juss dont know (link)
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ok now listenn this is going to probably sound liek you've heard this a billion times but what do You value more.. friendship or.. boys.. see she will always be there but he well he will come an goo as he pleases.. and what if in chance you tell her o yea i like him and she gets mad.. and he turns out to not liek you.. ? what are you gonna have no boyfriend and no best friend soo i think that you should let whatever they have break apart .. because if she gets over guys easily she willl move on trust me .. i've been in this situation before
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