I speak my mind, care about many people, and i am strange for my age. i am an atheist and i respect other people and their religion. i have a boyfreind named james and we have been dating for a little over 2 years now even w the problems we do have. i love my family including my pets. i love having fun but cant stand it when people get carried away w/it. I dont really get along w/conservative people especially if they have a negative view on gays. im opinionated and i try to put my opinion out there.
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Age: 15
Member Since: June 11, 2009
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ok uhm, does it hurt to have anal sex (link)
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yes, did it once never doing it again it was like losing my virginity all over again.
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What does it mean when someone says "I have my heart on my sleeve."? (link)
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It means you show your feelings publicly
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I've been reading your site and I think you give great answers, so I hope you won't mind me telling you my situation. Sorry it's long. My best friend and I are both 16 and have been best friends since we were 12. I've liked him since... well... pretty much when we met. He's even admitted to me that he's liked me before but "didn't think it would work out" (whatever!).
Sometimes I give up, especially when I find someone else I really like. All our friends tell me it really seems like he likes me and he flirts a lot (and I flirt back) but nothing ever happens. Well, we've talked about sex a lot and he likes to talk dirty to me and we've seen each other naked but never done anything sexual... but he's told me that he masturbates thinking about me. Anyways, ever since him and his gf broke up and I broke up with my last bf about a month ago he's been asking for making out and oral and even said he'd have sex with me if I wanted to do it.
Do you think he likes me at all?! As more than a friend I mean. I've given him plenty of opportunities to tell me if he does. And should I start this friends with benefits relationship with him if I like him? Should I tell him I like him? I've kind of hinted at it but when I do he seems like he doesn't want to get involved... but I know he isnt afraid of commitment because him and his last gf went out for 11 months. I don't know what to dooooo. (link)
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to answer your questions. yes i think he likes you but the real question is what part does he like more you or your body. you have to look at yourself and think would you really want to not have an emotional connection with him? because if you do sexual things with him everything changes. You wouldnt be his gf hed be free to do what and who he wants when he wants bc really there is no commitment there. you obviously care about him but if hes not willing to commit to you then you certainly shouldn't do something with him that he might not hold as high as you do. in my opinion you should tell him that you have obvious strong feelings for him and after that if hes still not willing to commit to you then he may like you for the wrong reasons. and also you have think about the way he acted while he had a gf. did he openly flirt and talk dirty when he was dating her bc thats not commitment thats him disrespecting his gf. would you want him to treat you that way? most of the time the whole friends with benefits thing doesn't work bc someone always gets hurt and i dont want that to be you so before you do anything you should see if there's a possibility of you guys dating first and getting naked later. i was 14 when i had sex w my boyfriend and now @ 16 and 2 years of dating i still wonder if i made the right choice of losing of my virginity to him and continuing to have sex with him.
think about it first and i hope it works out for you :]
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It is hot for an athletic type girl to have a really nice body? I've been told I have a 'sick' stomach (sick as in like crazy good ya know). And I've been told that my arms are jacked. Is this hot, or not right cause I'm a girl? I'm 16. (link)
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depends on the guy. the thing that brings guys down is when the girl is stronger than them or has bigger arms then them. and i can tell you guys do like the abs and the arms are just depending on the type of guy. dont worry about it there are many guys out there that like differant types of girls.
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alright. me and my boy dated about two years..so so so amazing the first 6 months... then got a lil bumpy, then went down hill slowly ater a year kinda, then crashed close to two years. we fought a lot, i had a ton of anger because i would hear things about him, i didnt know to believe it or not, all i know is when we were together we were always fine thats why it was hard to let go. but we fought a ton.. and one day, it was over the limit and i just broke up with him told him i fuckin hate him never wanna talk to him again because he ditched me basicallyy...
that night he made out with another girl. the night we broke up over a text i was furious did nottt talk to him once period for over two months
i ran into him a few weeks ago.. he saw me, and ever since then hes been wanting me back bad.. he is always talking to me, hsa basically cut of all contact with girls.. he invites me everywhere, even though i dont go, ive been such a bitch and hes still staying around... i know how that the things i used to hear had to not have been true cause he came clean on everything.. thing is, he had sex with two people, one of the girls he double teamed with his guy friend... its bugging me. it replays in my head..
anyways i went over to his house the other dya, ended up stying longer than i expected, we talked about a lot.. i was not nice, he kept trying to kiss me hug me all that i was like no.. but he bought me food, bought us a movie, and i left halfway through it, he offered to give me massages offered to take me to get ice cream. even though i didnt show it at all i felt so bad caue i was being so mean to him cause of everything he did.
thing is, idk what to do. if he even deserves another chance, if i even wanna be with him again.. idk anything. im lost, hes already acting like towards me like were together again, i think its cause hes trying haard and thats the only thing he can think to show hes interested. i just dont know what to do.. any advice would be sooo awesome. thank you (link)
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i dont think you should. if this guy did that kind of stuff and your not over it then you shouldnt because it could cause problems in the futer. as for the guy try just being friends and see if in a while your ok w/him and see if hes honastly changed or if hes just doing the act to get you back
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I'm 25/Female and stuck! I'm in a serious relationship, but still haven't completely gotten over my first relationship back in high school. That guy and I don't talk anymore, but he constantly visits my website, so I know he's at least thinking of me too. My question is, is it a bad idea to make contact with him, or am I setting myself for more trouble by just being silent? I guess it depends if you're practical or whimsical, and I'm a little of both. (link)
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i can tell you right now if you 2 arnt over each other and you talk its not gonna come out good. since i dont know your bf i cant really tell u hes gonna get jelouse but there will be some jelousey there. i say dont talk to him it might come out bad. but if you think itll help get over him then talk to him
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josh decided he would choose between me and kelsey but he would need a couple days because he liked us both. i finally talked to him and he said he was sticking with kelsey...so once again he led me on and broke my heart! its so hard to find the right boy, should i just give up on him? (link)
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give up on him. if he needed a few days to chose between you and another girl then he doesnt care. drop him dont let him drop you
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My boyfriend and i broke up.
we broke up on sunday and it was really weird how he explained it. We broke up because his mom thought we were geting to close. He said that we could still be friends, hang out., adn go on dates. He said that we could still do everything we were doing whenever we were dating but we aren't going to be dating. He still tells me he loves me and calls me babe. BUT! he hasn't called me in 2 days nothing at all. idk what to do. he broke my heart but i still want to be his friend but not with benifits im not a slut.. (link)
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i think he came up w/an excuse. make him know that your not going to be that girl, your dating him or you not theres no in between
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My boyfriend of 3 years, "Dave" and I have recently moved into an apartment with his friend, "Bob" and Bob's girlfriend, "April".
Bob has to go to basic training for 4 months so it is only Dave and I plus April.
I have to house sit for my grandparents for a week while they are on vacation and am over an hour away from the apartment so I'm nervous leaving Dave and April alone.
I trust him, but I came over to visit yesterday and walked in the room and he was on the computer in our room (he had no shirt on and pj bottoms) while she was on the bed watching him.
I don't know her that well and it freaked me out that a stranger is in our room with my personal stuff and on my bed with my boyfriend, alone.
What I want to know is am I over reacting and should I ask him not to have her in there alone or is that too controlling?
What would you think about this?
Thanks. (link)
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i think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him where you stand. tell him that that made you uncomfertable and ask him if he could just respect your feelings by not being alone with her in your room or to keep a distance. also maybe you should talk to her too and tell her you werent comfertable with that. hope it works out for you.
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