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Does he like me?
I've been reading your site and I think you give great answers, so I hope you won't mind me telling you my situation. Sorry it's long. My best friend and I are both 16 and have been best friends since we were 12. I've liked him since... well... pretty much when we met. He's even admitted to me that he's liked me before but "didn't think it would work out" (whatever!).
Sometimes I give up, especially when I find someone else I really like. All our friends tell me it really seems like he likes me and he flirts a lot (and I flirt back) but nothing ever happens. Well, we've talked about sex a lot and he likes to talk dirty to me and we've seen each other naked but never done anything sexual... but he's told me that he masturbates thinking about me. Anyways, ever since him and his gf broke up and I broke up with my last bf about a month ago he's been asking for making out and oral and even said he'd have sex with me if I wanted to do it.
Do you think he likes me at all?! As more than a friend I mean. I've given him plenty of opportunities to tell me if he does. And should I start this friends with benefits relationship with him if I like him? Should I tell him I like him? I've kind of hinted at it but when I do he seems like he doesn't want to get involved... but I know he isnt afraid of commitment because him and his last gf went out for 11 months. I don't know what to dooooo.
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to answer your questions. yes i think he likes you but the real question is what part does he like more you or your body. you have to look at yourself and think would you really want to not have an emotional connection with him? because if you do sexual things with him everything changes. You wouldnt be his gf hed be free to do what and who he wants when he wants bc really there is no commitment there. you obviously care about him but if hes not willing to commit to you then you certainly shouldn't do something with him that he might not hold as high as you do. in my opinion you should tell him that you have obvious strong feelings for him and after that if hes still not willing to commit to you then he may like you for the wrong reasons. and also you have think about the way he acted while he had a gf. did he openly flirt and talk dirty when he was dating her bc thats not commitment thats him disrespecting his gf. would you want him to treat you that way? most of the time the whole friends with benefits thing doesn't work bc someone always gets hurt and i dont want that to be you so before you do anything you should see if there's a possibility of you guys dating first and getting naked later. i was 14 when i had sex w my boyfriend and now @ 16 and 2 years of dating i still wonder if i made the right choice of losing of my virginity to him and continuing to have sex with him.
think about it first and i hope it works out for you :]
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