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Q: see, i have a boyfriend..but i think somethings up with him, ever since his good friend started liking me, hes been acting weird lately, he usually talks to me all the time, and sits with me too..i asked my best friend..and of course she went over to him and he said she needed some space.....I dont get it..please help me understand this whole situation!

Well he is probable a little mad because his best friend like you. You should go up to him and tell him that there is no chance that you will be with his friend. you should also tell him that you are only his and always will be.

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Q: hey well last night me and my bf where talking online for like 2 hours and then he had to go and take a shower and left his away message on and while he was gone his uncle came in and saw what he was sayin to me and he got in trouble because he was sayin bad things online and for some reason i think it is my fault. is there anything i can do because now his uncle doesnt want him talkin to me so the only way i can talk to him is by email. can someone plz help me???

Hey well I would just get a new sn. But before you do that just tell the uncle that it was your falt that your didn't stop talking like that and maybe he will forgive you!

Q: Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go

I would just wait a little bit to ask her out to see if any other guys ask her out then ask!
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Q: i can't stop thinking about him and he keeps talking to my best friend saying he likes me and wants me to wait! but i don't feel i can but yet i can't stop talking about him! when i talk, i cannot stop talking about him! what do i do?

signed,
confusedbutinlove

Well Maybe you should talk to him. Ask him out on a date or something. And if you really can stop thinking about him then take it out on a sport or something!
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: my crush knows i like him and stuff but he always is behind in his studies and stuff! lately he's been running to me for help! is this a good thing and if so how? and if not how?

signed,
Lost-n-Love

It is Most likely a good sign because He wonts to spend time with you. Maybe invite him to your house to study if you can.
~Always looking to help made4monkeez

Q: my friend has adrinking problem and maybe even a drug problem! do you think there might be a reason he is turning to drugs and alcohol? becuz he does get teased by many for the way he acts! and if so is there any way i can comfort him or help him out?!

signed,
Friends 'til the end

Well it could be because of teasing but it also could be because of a probablem in his own house maybe someone died or he is getting hit by his parents. You should talk to him and show Him that that is not the best way. Tell him that he could talk to you if there is something wrong. He really needs help and you should do something
~Always looking to help Made4Monkeez

Q: whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

Well It could be that he likes you and he is sad that you aren't flirting with him. I would just ask him and see what he says. But if you dont wont to ask him ask one of his friends.
~Always looking to help Made4monkeez

Q: f/13
what are some good ways to get a guy to like you? i need some real good ways. what do guys like about the girls they like. How can i get guys to like me? i rate really high! PLEASE HELP!

Well one way you can get guys to like you is by like going to dances and make lots of friends. Also you should like maybe sit with them at lunch or something. Guys like the type of girls that talk back to them some times. also be funny and tell jokes. I like the way my g/f treats other people. She acts really nice and she always helps me when I am in a probablem
~Always out to help Made4monkeez

Q: Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart, and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
Thanks!

well most pot smokers dont like anyone. They use the gf/bf to get them weed. Also ya it is bad me might start asking you if you wont some. and it taste SUPER BAD when you kiss and he will have it in his close and it will smell realy bad
~Always looking to help Made4Monkeez

Q: so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this!

Well just remember how much of a dick he was and keep on saying i deserve better, over and over again. also talk to your best friend and ask her how she got over it
~ always looking to help Made4Monkees

Q: okay i've been telling this guy i like him and he's been showing interest! one of my good friend's says he likes me because well she talked to him! and everyone in my class is telling me that he likes me! we are talking more and i aam getting to know him better! any ideas for him and i to move forward and maybe move into a relationship?! people say i flirt like crazy and especially him! what else can i do?!

Well maybe ask if you too wont to study together afyer school or something. Another good thing you could do is maybe invite him to places that you and your friends are going to be going later. And if everyone is saying that he likes you just ask him out on a date just the 2 of you
~ always looking to help Made4Monkees

Q: my exbf just broke up with me and now im looking for people. well i didnt know this till yesterday but i met his cousin and his cousin was flirting with me and i was flirting back. his cousin even knew i was his exgf but he still flirted but i didnt know so i didnt think i was doing something wrong. now i feel like im doing something wrong! can i go out with my ex's cousin?!?! im so confused and his cousin seems intrested in me and he knows a couple things i never told any1 bfore. is it right to go out with him? i really like him and i know he likes me so please tell me or should we just stay friends? i think my exbf would get mad but he broke up with me. kk

thnx

signed,

CONFUSED

Well if his cuz broke up whith you you can date anyone you chose. And if he jets mad tell him that he cant decide who you go out with. Also if you dont think it is right then you might not wont to go out with this guy. But you might just think its wrong because he is your ex's cuz. First you need to find out what you think is happening then make your move!
~Made4monkeez

Q: ok ya*ll i have this big crisis i went out with this guy for a month and a half and it was the best time of my life but now all the sudden its over and then i found out a guy from another school likes me and i think i like him too but im not too sure b.c. deep down i still have tons of feelings for my ex and i have no idea what to do now b.c. i still feel empty without him and i would give anything to have him bak but then the other day i found out he liked me stil a lil bit too but then he started ignoring me and he dosent answer my calls and i think i like this guy from the other school too HeLp MEE!!!!~MaNdIE~

Well if your ex doesn't talk to you then he is not good for you. You shouldn't date the other guy if you dont know him. If you do I would just hang around with him to see how he acts around his friends. Then if he asts good then asked about you too. Chances are if you too already know each other then your love life will go great!

Q: i really really love this guy but hes might best friend. im not sure if he likes me so i dont want to tell him how i feel. what should i say?

Well first you should ask him how he feels about you like if he thinks of you as a sister or as a friend. If he thinks of you as a friend you should tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way. If he has another girl friend just tell HIM and only him how you feel but dont ask to date.

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