Well I am 13, but I am not your typical 13 year old. I have been through alot, so you can ask me anything. I love to be on here, so I can see what problems people have, so I can try to relate to them. I am a punk, I am no where close to a girly girl. I wear what I want to wear and if anyone doesnt like it then thats their problem. I dont care what others think of me. I wear black nail polish, punk hair style, and I skateboard ALOT! I think there is no problem with bisexuals or gays, even though I am straight. I have a best friend who is gay and I think he is so awesome. I love to help people, and I am really funny once you get to know me. I love my friends to death, and I hope I can help you in anyways that I can.
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Age: 13
Member Since: July 9, 2007
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About 2 weeks ago my xboyfriend said he wanted to be friends and I was fine with that. We broke up about 4 weeks ago but ever since we had been friends he been wanting to have sex (link)
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Well it sounds to me that he is only using you for sex. If you want to have sex with him then that is a different story, but I would advise you not to. Having sex with an ex is a bad idea, and its only going to cause more conflict. Just tell him no, and like someone else said, if he keeps on asking, then he's not your friend and you shouldnt talk to him.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now, and things are great between us. but we tend to have awkward silences whenever we talk on the phone, and it's really annoying. it also makes me feel bad because it seems like he's bored when we're not talking. what are things i can talk to him about? we talk about basically everything, but i need specific things i can talk to him about.
thanks. (link)
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Well it depends on what he's into. Talk to him about maybe sports or, something you and him both watched on television or something. Also if you and him are at school, talk to him about that. Ask him how his day was, etc. Find out things that you and him can both relate to, or something you both like.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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okay, my boyfriend calls me his everything.. and that he doesn't want to loose me and stuff like that.. and me & him worked out EVERYTHiNG so theres basically nothing wrong in the relationship. but one of the things that we worked out still bothers me.. cause yannoe it was dealing with this girl .. who used to be my friend cause she talked behind my back and stuff.. and was also his last girlfriend. and it had been almost a year since they've broken up. and hes kinda stupid in relationships cause they stopped talking because she was talking behind my back to him, so he didn't want to be friends with her anymore. and like 2 months later she talked to him first, and now they're friends again. like.. bestfriends. so thats why i can't trust them together yannoe? cause she told him that she doesn't hate me and she stopped talking about me a long time ago. but EVERYBODY knows she hates me... she even left some clues that are obvious that says she hates me.. and she talked about me to him, but he was slow enough not to know. and he says "she wouldn't lie to me.. cause we're good friends." and he even talks about our relationship problems with her.. but the reason why i have changed, and i don't want her to get to know me anymore. and then when we talked it out... he told me that he'll change and he'll come to me now, and talk it out with me for now on. and that he loves me, and that his ex and him are bestfriends.. but she could basically be his mother (not the first time i heard that), and that i'm not competing with her or anything. >. (link)
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Well ok first of all I am sorry but this is going to be kind of long. Ok well first of all you have to listen to your heart, and if your heart is telling you to be with him then stay with him, no matter what your friends or family says. Also maybe he has more girls that are friends than guys that are friends. You just have to learn to accept that. Part of a relationship is being honest with each other, and if he told you that he is all yours, then you have to trust him. Although I do agree that him becoming best friends with your ex friend (even though she talks about you all the time) was a little weird, but even the less you should still trust him. He is your boyfriend and he seems like he really loves you alot. He is all the time telling you that he loves you, and I mean since you and him have been through so much together I think that you and him really have something that alot of people want. You and him have such a relationship where you and him can go9 to each other about anything, and you and lucky enough to have that. So I think that you should just trust that he is all yours and just believe him. But another thing. About him going to him friend for advice isnt wrong. I mean he has a close friend who he can tell anything to. I dont think you should pressure him into coming to you. Just go up to him and be like "look I understand you have a friend who you can tell anything to but I just want you to know that if you ever need to talk, I am here for you." That always works. That way he is not pressured into talking to you about it, and he knows you are always there for him.
I hope I helped:)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
P.S sorry its so long :(
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theres this girl that i think i like but never talked to and i want to get to know her better but dont know how to talk to her like i need advice how to become a conversation starter. I'm not very good at thinking of stuff on he top of my head. HELP!!! (link)
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Ok well I liked this guy, and i didnt know what to say to him. So I just went up to him and was like "hey what's up. Do you wanna hang out some time, (as friends), and he was like yeah sure." and it happens that were going out now. But I have talked to him before. So you might just want to go up to her and be like, hey whats up. And just talk to her about something you might think she likes. Give her a compliment or something. Just make sure you dont seem bored when your talking.
I hope I helped :)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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15/m ok i need to get over some girl i wet out with one year ago, going out with people dosent work alls it does it makes me forget for a while, any ideas (link)
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Try to become friends with her. I went out with this guy (im 13/f btw) and me and him became friends, and that helped me get over him. Then who knows maybe later you and her might decide to go out with him. If you still feel the same way about her after a years time, then that could mean something.
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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this is me: im 13 im only a small bit over average height, i have slightly tanned skin, im pretty thin, i have short spikey dark blond hair, i skate, i play football, i have a deep voice, i like to wear boards shorts, flip-flops, tee shirts and caps. i wear abercrombie and hollister.i like to play sport and im easy to talk to. (link)
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Well I am 13/f and it seems to me that your a pretty good guy. I think that any girl that doesnt go for you, is really out of it. Trust me it's their loss not your's.
Hope I helped:)
and good luck
P.S. Trust me there will be a girl for you, you just have to wait for her to come along.
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okay well i have been having a problem lately. so its summer and you know how the whole fling thing goes and all. well there has been a few guys here and there but nothing major. now i tell my bff about them and she listens but now it seems like she is getting mad about it. cause i will have this one guy and then another comes along so i get to now him a little bit better and then end up liking him. this has happened a few times and now i dont know what to do, i have finally found the guy that i like but she doesnt believe me because she thinks that he is like all the others but he isnt!!! and i know that you probably think that now too but i promise you.......i really like this guy. so how do i get my friend to believe me? i have tryed talking to her but that isnt working out so well. i just want her to accept that i really like him and be there for me. pleeze help!! (link)
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Well since you have switched she is not going to believe you. Just give her a lil time and show her that you really like this guy and that he is not like the others. You have tryed talking to her and thats all you can do. Now just give her about a week and in time she will come to realize that you really like this guy.
Good Luck:)
Hope I helped
-MCRxoLoVeR
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well, my boyfriend is in new mexico for a week of marine camp. I want to do something special for him when he comes back, what do you think i could do/ make /whatever to make it special for him? any suggestions? (link)
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Definetley throw him a suprise party. Get like all his family/friends to come as well as yours. Have refreshments, etc. Then you should take him somewhere he loves to go, like a certain resturaunt or something. Make sure it's just the two of you. That way you and him can spend some quality time together.
Hope I helped
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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help! im m/13 and ive only ever made out with a girl who wasnt my girlfriend and wasnt hot! whenever girls meet me they seem to be interested and curious and first then just get bored of me easily and dont really talk to me..... i have a little bit of difficulty talking to them but i get on well enough when there is a good topic. (link)
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Well I am 13/f and I got my first kiss this year (he happened to be my boy friend) Well I dont really get what your question is so I am just going to try to answer everything you talked about. (lol) Umm about the difficulty talking to girls, just find out something that she likes to talk about, and then just talk about that. Also give her a compliment. That will also get her really perked up. About the getting really bored with you, well I think that if a girl just gets bored of you, then they shouldnt be your girl friend, or friend. They are just hanging out with you when they feel like it, and that is wrong. I think you should find a girl that doesnt get bored with you, and then just talk about something you both like to talk about.
Good Luck
Hope I helped:)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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M/15- I'm in the middle of nowhere and i can't find any girls to meet. Only the ppl in my neiborhood and it is small and it seems like no1 here is my age. I want to meet some1 but i feel like there is nobody here 2 meet. What do i do? (link)
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Wait until school starts. I know exactly what you're going through. I am 13/f and there are NO guys here. But when school starts back, you will see that it changes. Just go to school and I am sure you will meet some one.
Good Luck :)
Hope I helped
-MCRxoLoVeR
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lol okay im 16/f and i like my friend whom i known since i was 4. and i talked to him in 7th grade. and then yesterday on myspace. and i like him a lot.and we might hangout at the mall. and im not sure if i should tel him yet that i like him.because im afraid he'll get scared. because i notice guys do get scared when u tell them you like them or something. what should i do? (link)
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Like everyone has said, dont just blurt it out. If you pressure him into liking you then he will get scared. Just bring it up, and if he doesn't feel the same way, then tell him you understand. He might need some time to think, since you and him have been friends for so long. But do think about this though, if you and him start going out, then it is a possibility that if you and him do go out then if you and him break up yall might not be friends anymore. But since you and him have been friends so long, I am sure yours and his friendship could survive through anything.
Hope I helped
Good Luck!! :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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okay well basically every question i ever posted was about him. I know i need to get over him but ive liked him since september and he just doesnt talk to me anymore but when he sees me he always somehow makes sure i know that hes there. I know he doesnt like me anymore and before we went out his best friend warned me he was a player but i already liked him for 8 months so i didnt wanna believe it. Before we went out i tried to get over him but i couldnt. then we went out but only for like a week and he broke up with me. It made me really upset because i liked him sooo long and then i had him...just to lose him. We broke up beginning of june and hes still all i think about/ I think i started to love him. I still talk to his best friend and just the other day his friend IM'd me and said "I told you so when i said he was a player" As i said before i try to pretend hes not there when i see him but he makes sure that i know and hes always with other girls. I know i need to cry it out i can feel it but for some reason i just cant cry. i start to tear up but then i stop . I dont know what to do. PLease help me =/ (link)
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First of all I am very sorry to hear that your having a complicated time. But sounds to me as if he's rubbing it in your face that you and him are no longer going out. And I think his best friend was right, he is a player. I have had a guy do the exact thing to me. He went out with me (knowing that I liked him for so long) and then when he broke up with me he always (somehow) was with all these girls in the hallway and he was rubbing it in my face. My opinion that shouldn't be the guy you like anyways but for how you would get over him, just try going out with other people. (I know it might not work at first but in time it will) Like go out with one of your guy friends, some one you trust with your heart, and I'm sure it will all turn out great.
Good Luck!!!
-MCRxoLoVeR
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