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I don't know if I am straight or bisexual (i'm a 15/f) ... is there any sites I can go to that might help me or like a quiz I can take online or something. Please help thanks in advance.

No quiz or website will help you determine if your lesbian or straight. MFS is telling the truth. You will figure it out on your own. And believe it or not, everyone questions their sexuality at one point in their life and they figure it out for themselves. So wait it out and see what happens.

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alright, i used to mess around with this boy but i guess it never got serious between me and him. he was my first kiss.and i still like him ,but he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend is my FRIEND! and sometimes i see him when im with her..what should i do? :0)

There is nothing you really can do. If you want to be with him, you'll just have to wait until they break up. For now, dont focus on him so much and find someone else to like. Then maybe in the future you can be with him again.

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Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help....

You need to think about it sweetie. Maybe you've heard this a couple times before but 13 is WAY to young! Your not ready and to be honest, your boyfriend will probably have sex with you and leave you for someone else. Why give up something so special to a guy who you wont be with in the future. Sex is somethign sacred and should be with someone you love and you should wait till your older. Also think about pregnancy. What if your 13 and pregnant? Then what! Think about it and its your choice but be smart--Macwh0re

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ok, i like this guy. lets call him joe. i've liked joe for a few months. and we've become really good friends. and, my friend...lets call her betty...betty and i love to do 3 way calling. so we usually call joe and other people when we do that. but lately, like last night, he just seemed really annoyed or moody or somethin'. but i don't know if it was cuz of me and betty or not. and, lately, joe's been kinda...bleh. and when i was online one night i said hi and he never said anything. i don't know. i'm not sure if its me or not. i mean, is it just a guy thing? or is it me?

thx in advance!

Maybe something happened to Joe. Just back away for a week or two so he can figure everything out and start talking to him again after a while. You could also just ask him if he's mad at you.

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hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out??

Trojan. And he should take it out when he is ready to take it out lol But if it does break seperate as fast as you can.

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I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. But other days hes as sweet as can be. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. It's just weird how he can be nice one day and an ass the next..whats wrong? Is it him or me? What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy and I don't want to break up with him, but everyone says its for the best i just don't want to though!! 14/f/tn

Why would you love someone who is an ass to you? I think you should break up with him before anything bad happens. And he really breaks your heart!!

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hey im 14 and im male, i really like two girls at my school equally and i heard they both like me but i dont wanna choose one cuz then the other would get angry and im friends with them so i dont wanna lose a friend/friends what should i do?

Either you chose one or you dont chose any. I suggest just being really good friends with both of them and finding someone else. But its your choice.

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ok so i asked you guys adivce earlier on what i should get my bf of 2 years for x-mas, and most of you said i should make a scrapbook. i think that's a really good idea, but i really have no idea how to make one! i was also thinking about taking 12 pics of us to kinkos and making a calendar out of it. guys opinions here would be good, but girls are welcome too. which do you think would be better? how should i go about making the scrapbook? thanks

I think you should do a scrapbook. The caledar idea is good but I dont know if a guy would like that. Scrapbooks. I made one a few months ago. You go to the store, buy like a notebook/diary of some sort thats big enough to have pictures and cute sayings and stuff. Then just paste pictures and put words by them describing where it is. If you guys have a song you could print out the lyrics and paste it on the scrabook. Hope I helped-Sher

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k sorry but its basically impossible to lose freakin 6 lbs from NOT drinking soda and juice. wtf in ONE week? whatever,.

Yes it is true! She would drink a lot of it, she would drink like 14 soda's a week. So cutting that out was cutting a lot of calories. So she lost 6 lbs. Look if you dont want to believe it you dont have to.

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I was talkin to my boyfriend last night, and out of no where he said that he needed to tell me somthin in a real serious voice. I got kinda nervous since we've never realy been serious before, we're alwayse lauphing and having a good time. So he said- (remember when we first started talking and you asked me if i'm a virgin and i said yes.... well i'm not. I just said that because i didnt want it to be akward if i told you that soon. Then he said that everything else he has said to me has been true, and he felt bad that he hadnt told me before.) When he told me this i didnt know what to say.I feel really uncomfortable with it. I'm not going to do it with him, since i'm only 15 and i dont believe in that, but i dont want him to go off to some other girl when i say no. What should i do, because i really like this guy. He is one of the nicest people i have every met and i still really like him?!?!?!?!?! Please help

If he ever asks you to have sex with him, dont do it if you dont want to. Sex is special, and your first time should be with someone special. You should NOT do it with him just because your afraid of him leaving you. If he does leave you for that reason, then he was not good for you anyways.

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hey, i like this guy a whole lot, and he likes me 2. we are really close friends, so we dont wanna go out cause it may ruin our friendship, but we still like each other. what should i do? its kind of driving me crazy, but i dont wanna go out w/ him either! thanks, hope this makes sense!

Yeah maybe you could do "friends with benefits" or promise eachother, that if you go out when you break up you'll be friends still. Just hang out with him all the time.

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ok, well i have a b/f we been goin out for 2 months... well'z it was going really great for the first month... but he has basketball alot.. and so i harldy get to see him alot... and well its sort of a long story but he always says i love you so much to me and stuff like that!! but anyways i need help wellz my friend lets call him bob(and my b/f's bestfriend) keeps telling me that my b/f is talking bout me.. saying stuff like i dont care about her!! and stuff welllz then bob said that my b/f told him about me and my b/f's secret.. then that he told him that he (my b/f) didnt want to go out wit me anymore... but wen i ask my b/f about it he always says no... today i asked him about if he said that he was gunna break up wit me then he said no relly low and his eyes were all watery and stuff!! then he looked really sad/mad.. i dont know!! wat should i do? im confused!!

Maybe Bob likes you and wants to start rumors? If not, then Bob might be telling the truth. Its your choice wether or not to break up with him. But I think you should. you dont see eachother a lot, he doesnt care about you, and he does not love you. Thats crazy! Love? Only after 2 months. Yeah, right.

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