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Hey Guys! My name is Ashley and I live in Katy. I go to Katy High School and am active in FFA. I love volleyball and hanging out with my friends! If you have a question about anything just feel free to ask me! Don't be shy! :-D xox aShLeY xox

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dear ashley,
i am writing u today b/c me and my boyfriend are having difficulties. u see we love having sex and all but latley it is boring. and he always wants to do it but i dont know wat to do. cause i mean who wants to have sex every minuet of everyday?? umm...not me!!i just dont know wat is goin on. i mean i think i love this guy. but if all he wants is sex wat am i suppose to do please help me out!! thanks alot hun!!! confussed one!!

Thanx for writing! Now about your situation .... If I were you I would seriously talk to your boyfriend about this. Tell him how him always wanting to have sex makes you feel. I know you think you love him ... do you think he loves you??? If all he wants is sex then you need to dump this guy. I know it would be hard to do but you have to do what YOU think is right. But if he really does care for you then you need to stay with him! You just have to do what your heart says and follow it. But you HAVE to talk to your boyfriend about the sex situation and let him know how you feel! Hope I helped! Good Luck and if ya have anymore questions feel free to drop them in my box! * ashley *

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I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend?

If I were you and found out he did anything with another girl I would have dumped him the minute I found out, but I know you stayed with him b/c you liked him alot. You will like him for a while, but you will evenually get over him. I know it's hard but you gotta stay strong. No your not wrong for being his friend, but it just makes it harder to be around him if you still like him. Try to stay a little distant from him if you can. Well hope I helped and please rate. If you have anymore ?s just feel free to drop them in my box!
* ashley *

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I look at a lot of the questions and then the answers they get..a lot of them have to do with sex..and a lot of the answers are saying it is okay as long as you use protection and you really "love" them. These are usually teens, like me, too! I agree with having safe sex and stuff but my main concern is the actual action of sex. Sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. At this age, it is very unlikely that you will stay together forever, no matter how well your relationship is going. Are there any people on this site waiting for marriage? Does anyone agree with me?

*Flabbergausted*
i like that word =P

Yes I agree with you! You should wait till marriage, but these days it rarely happens. Everyone feels they should do it because everyone else is doing it or they think they love the person. At our age it is rare for people to stay together forever. And yes there are alot of people asking questions about sex and sexual things. Everyone is really curious about the whole subject of sex. Well if you have any more questions feel free to slip them in my box.
* ashley *

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ok so there's this guy who is a friend of my family and he comes to all our parties and holidays and stuff. last year he came on vacation with us and we hit it off and became really great friends. we started dating on valentines day and he was always so sweet and affectionate and caring. we talked online every day for hours and everytime i came home from school on weekends we hung out. it was hard for us since i was away at college but he always said things would be so much better when i graduated (in may). then all of a sudden he started acting distant and we stopped talking as much. he has a really stressful job so i believed him when he said he was just really busy. but now that i'm home he like NEVER talks to me and i dont understand what happened! but when i see him he acts like normal again and every once in a while he'll call me or something. its so weird. if it was any other guy i'd be like forget him...but i know we'll be seeing each other at family stuff anyway and i dont understand why he would want to throw away our friendship and everything! does anyone have any insight as to what i should do or what this means? should i tell him he's hurting me or just wait till he comes around again?

That's really weird! Maybe he thought you were talking bad about him or something. I don't really think he's just busy all the time. There has to be something wrong with him if he acts like that. YES you need to talk to him about it and tell him how this makes you feel! Don't wait till the next time you see him b/c then it may be too late! You really just need to tell the boy how you feel and see what's goin on with him! Hope this helps and everything gets better! Please rate me! * ashley *

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ok so theres this guy who said he liked me and i was like totaly excited and ya no how it is so yea he asked me out but then was like were not going out and then was like we are so i just ignored him for the last 2 months and i just recently started talkin to him again and we've been talkin and well now he keeps say he loves me and i dont believe him cause of last time adn hes always saying this when hes at a friends house but he dose it at his too but hes more calm about it...i dont trust him and i really dont believe he likes me but some of my friends do! OH and also hes gone through all my friends well most of them saying he wants to "hang out" which i no means more cause of what was said to me by him...ugh i have no idea what to do and i dont want to talk to him about it cuase its like AHHHHHH lol what should i do!?!?!?!?!?


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I would first say go for it with the guy but then you said he has been through all of your friends. That's a tough decision for you to make. As much as you don't want to talk to him about it, I really think you should because it's the only way you will know forsure what he's thinking. Ask him what the deal was with the first time ya'll were going out, why he always wants to hang out now, if he really means the "i love you"s.. stuff like that! Just let him know how you're feeling and what you think about all of this! In the end things will turn out for the best! Good luck and hope everything works out the way you want it too!

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