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Well, im 5'5 i have brown/blonde curly hair, i love to dance. i have no idea what i want to be when i grow up, hehe. i love giving advice!!!!! iv been threw alot and i love helping people do the right thing ;).

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Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???

And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high

Gomesy

Hello,

Well i would think it would be okay... lots of people do it guys like girls who arnt shy.

How to do it

Well make sure not to do it by phone, or computer..face to face is best... Just ease up on the question like soo who do you like..... once he anwsers be like well i like some one and its you... trust me it will work, you just have to try it.

Lovely.

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lord i dont no what to do. my dad is prejudice and theres this black boy i love half to death and he likes me i want to go out wit him but my dad said he'll kill me and that boi and i was like is love worth gettin killed over please tell me what i can do..?

You should always choose family over boys, its bad that your dad is racial, but you wont alway have that guy, but you will always have family. hope im making sence.

Lovely.

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Hey I'm 14/f and lately one of my best guy friends has been asking me out, i really care about him but right now i am dealing with other things in my life. such as trying to get into a good highschool, and my other hobbies that are really imortant to me. yet on the other hand, i really like him. my question is what should i do? i mean why should i risk a relationship when we are just going to break up sooner or later? what is the point in a young relationship right now? besides "having fun" because i know that loving someone is a lot more than "having fun" please answer, ill rate fives as long as you try to help

Well your right whats the point if your gonna break up sooner or later, but what if you really feel something for him, and he feels something for you, its not just gonna be "having fun" maybe hes the one for you. In life you have to make mistakes to get to where your going. This might be where your going or it might be a mistake. You just have to Jump in.. take a chance.

Lovely.

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ok me and my bf broke up because he found that i was talking to another boy but that boy really dont mean nothing to me i love my bf so much. anyway he took me back but i no he dont trust me! what can i say to him to get him to belive me? plese help me im so sorry i didnt mean for none of this tohappen
shaiina

Tell him, if you really love me you will trust me thats what relashionships are all about trust. if he dosent understand maybe you should consider someone who loves you and that will trust you.

Lovely.

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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do?

Trust your boyfriend, if he really cares about you he wont do anything to hurt you, if you cant trust him, maybe you dont like him as much as you thought.

Lovely.

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I'm hooking up with this guy, and I don't know if he's hooking up with other girls or not. We're not in a relationship or anything, but I would just like to know if he's with other girls or not. I don't want to straight out ask him, and i don't want to involve my friends, so is there a way I could get him to tell me without straight out asking him "are you hooking up with other girls?" All advice is appreciated. Thanks all!

If i where you i would casully say how is your dateing life? you know something like that.

Lovely.

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i am 13/f and i have a boyfriend even though i'm not really supposed to. anyways my little sister who is 10 found out and now she is threatning meand i don't know what to do.i don't want to break up with him. i tryied talking to her but that made it worse! what do i do?

Sounds like your sister is the devil, no im just joking.
But dont do what she says if she tells denie it all, if your parents ask just be like we are doing a project thats why he calls but dont give into your sister. Get something on her so you can black mail her.

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This boy asked me out the other day for this friday. I really, really like him. But the thing is, I'm afraid I might say something. I don't want to give away his name...he's actually "famous" or w/e (my dad's a prop manager for the show he's on).
So we're supposed to go out this friday and its going to be hard. I know he's a normal guy...and so far I've treated him normal, when I see him for like 2 minutes at a time... and thats just on the set. Whats it going to be like out in the public with other girls everywhere?? And what do we talk about? Should I bring up the fact that he's on tv? That my friends want to meet him? IDK!!!!

Just do what you would usally do around guys, dont ask him about the show you dont want him to think your using him, and also dont let your friends meet him he will also think your useing him.

Lovely.

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Okay well about 3 months ago i met my boyfriend. And its really werid how we met because he liked my friend and i tried to hook them up but she didn't like him. So, he came over to my house and we were just hangin out and then after that we talked on the internet and he said that im beautiful and he had alot of fun and that he REALLY really likes me... so we went out that nite. I told my friend that were going out and she was happy for me and everything. Well this is my question now that you have the background... I don't like having my boyfriend around my friend cause i feel uncomfortable knowing that he used to like her!! i love him alot and he does to and were in love but i still feel that way is that right or should i stop worrying cause hes with me and not her.... HELP!!

If your really that worried about your Boyfriend, it means you dont trust him. so try to relax. its probly just you. if he really loves you he wont do anything to hurt you.

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