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E-mail: lovebeingyou17@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania, USA
Age: 15
Member Since: July 17, 2012
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Last Update: July 20, 2012
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19/f
he is 22.
I've liked him since last august. i see him maybe every other month. but in the summer it's more like every few weeks. everytime i'm with him he gives me so much attention, hugs me first, walks me out, etc. he loves Jesus and i love that about him. he likes my statuses and pictures all the time.
but we don't text for fun or anything, maybe a little if he has a question. what does this mean?! does he even like me? why does this happen?! (link)
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He could like you or he could just be being friendly. i feel like you should start texting him maybe or messaging him. Then one time bring up the topic, but don't ask him if he likes you, ask him who he likes. But I would not bring this up beginning of conversation. Talk to him and little and when the conversation gets boring bring it up.
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Hi so I really really like this guy. He is crazy hot and is really sweet but he hardly ever notices me. I really want him to notice me so we can start getting to notice eachother but we are both the real quiet type and he is always in a big group. Just never talking that is. So how do I get him to notice me and start talking To me with freaking him out?please help!!
Ps I'm thirteen and don't tell me I'm too young cause I've had three boyfriends since I was 11. I'm obviously female and I have the ability to change my personality to suit if need be. (link)
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I would maybe try to get a chance to hang out with him. Either you can somehow find a way to become friends with one of his friends if you can't get anyway to hang out with him or if one of your friends is somehow friends with him then get them to have a small party. Then you could have a chance to hang out with him, like have not many of his friends come so that you guys have a chance to talk with him. If you can't do that message him of facebook to start talking to him. That is how I became friends with a lot of my guy friends cause it is easy to get a conversation started and talk a couple times. Then get his number and maybe try to meet up with him at some sports event or party. This way you will be able to talk to him and get to know him. This way he will also get to know you and maybe even like you. Hope this helps :)
-Logan- F/15
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So, 13/f and I met this dude. 16/m and I haven't really met him offiicially or seen the guy. I just try to imagine him. Lets just say his name is Mike. When I think about his REAL name the thing that comes to mind is blonde hair blue eyes and let the rest fall in place. Well, we talked over the power of the internet and he sounds really nice and harmless. I don't know who he really is or what he looks like we met by chance on this really cool website and happened to hit him up about it. I think I like him, he sounds pretty harmless to me, but that's just the internet, he might be some homeboy trying to get a life. Who knows he might even a 50 perverted year old dude who is lonely and stupid. So, how do I get to bring up the subject of what we look like in a convo while chatting?? Is 3 years older than me way out of my league?? I mean, IDK if he's in a relationship wit someone, but I want to get some ideas. Can you guys give me some please?? Thanks so much. (link)
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To be honest I really don't think it is a good idea to meet someone over the Internet. One time I met this one guy online and he was super nice. Then he asked me to friend me on Facebook so he sent me a link. I looked up the link and it was a blank profile, no friends, no picture, just the name that he told me. It was obviously super shady so I don't think he was real. It is super easy to fake being someone on the Internet, so I would just watch out and probably not fall in love over the Internet unless some how you could see a real picture or like video chat him or something to make sure he was real. (I probably wouldn't video chat him though)
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So I've been talking to this guy for about a year off & on. I'm 13 & a female. Yes I'm young, but my maturity level is VERY HIGH. The guy I've been talking to is everything I look for in a guy, he isn't like the others. But he is 15. Now remember you donot know me, but anyone that does knows I'm very mature for my age. & this guy I like he isn't asking anything from me. He's not a virgin, but he's only had sex ONE time. With someone he was with for awhile. Anyways, what is your opinion opon such a an age difference? (link)
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I don't think that is a huge age difference. You guys are only two years apart and I think that is okay. One of my best friends dated a 17 year old and she was 15. You are almost in high school and he probably is so I think you are okay. As long as he doesn't want to have sex with you I think you at okay. If you guys ever hang out and he tries to get you to, I would not and stop talking to him because then he is probably using you. Since he has been talking to you for a year I would go for it, if he was just using you he would of probably given up on you not to long after to move on to another girl. I think age does not matter as long as you are in love, or atleast clost to in love. :)
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Ok, so his name is [john], we went to the same middle school and high school and never really talked, we graduated 09and he facebooks me, eventually we end up hanging out, it was not awkward, as if we just hung out a couple days ago,he ended up kissing me, and he was kinda rubbing up on me, im not gna say i hated it, but i feel it was a little too soon. I feel like i have a connection with him, hes an aries and im a cancer. He was showing interest that night till he went home and dropped me off. The next morning the texting was lagging, show little signs of interaction, hey, i'm a girl, I am going to think about this lol. I haven't dated anyone for about 2 years only because i got out of an emotional relationship and no one really catched my attention, but he did, he even gave me buterflies :) what do i do? Im 21, and i know he is attracted to me, i just don't know what to say/not to say. (link)
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I definitely think you should go for it! I know I am a lot younger then you but I think you should tell him how you feel. Hang out with him a few more times and then tell him. Tell him you do really like him but you havent dated in 2 years and don't want to mess it up. If he likes you he will understand and who knows maybe he hasn't dated in two years or even longer.
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There is this boy I've dated 6 times this passed yearand I totally liked him a lot but he keeps going out with my friend and I found out he really liked her. I want to know if he likes me still? If we could still go out?
I know I should be over him by now but I. Can't get him out of my head. What do I do? How do I get over him? Or how do I get him to like me? (link)
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I think you should talk to him, maybe bring it up in a conversation. You can see what he thinks, how he feels. Maybe he still feels the same way, just didnt realize it. If he doesn't like you think of all the bad things about him, maybe the reason why you and him kept breaking up. I don't really think there is any way for you to get him to like you because you shouldn't be fake, just be you. And if he doesn't like you for you then he doesn't desereve you. Also find someone else you like, look into guys you never really notice. Who knows maybe you will find someone you love, and they love you just the way you are.
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I've. Been texting with a guy that I saw once. I got his number I've sent hime pictures and say I look good,but at times he's like no I don't want nothing,but then when I text him back or send a picture he will start texting with me again. What does he really mean? (link)
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Who knows, you could have fallen in love with him, but he maybe hasn't with you. To be honest I really think he just keeps texting you to get pictures. If he would keep talking to you and you don't need to send him pictures to get him to keep texting you it would be different. Guys can be gross and just use you for that, but that happens a lot. Guys are interested in looks, thats what gets them hooked, so get a guy that really likes you for who you are and wants to hang out with you.
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Is it possible to end up with someone if it started out with sex?
I know it's always better and relationships work out better when you take it slow. But what if it was the total opposite? Do you think it could still work? (link)
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If you really think you have feelings for a person it could. I'm going through something like that right now with a guy and it is kinda rough because it does also seem awkward when we try to hang out or talk. But I feel if you try to talk to him, like bring up something that interests you both, maybe something could happen it the future. It all depends on the guy and how you both feel about each other.
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