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Hey yall, My name is Jay. I am 13/m. I go to Harris Middle School and i give a lot of people advice. Matter of fact they come to me and ask me what they should do so if you have a problem I think you should ask me. I give great advice...
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Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do? (link)
Ok U should stay with number 1 first off and second you shouldnt call #2. You said yourself that he is a jerk and will talk nice to you and bad about you all in the same sentence. So y go out with him. Oh! your friends think #2 made u cut yourself. Well being that he is a jerk and everything dont you think he will eventually make you cut yourself.


ok theres this guy josh and he follows me everywhere, its so annoying, he loves me and wont leave my side for even a second in seems like, but i dont like him at all. it seems like he stalks me, he carrys my book and kisses me on the cheek all the time. he's nice but i dont like him. Help!
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Just break it down and easily tell him that you don't like him. Try not to make him upset tho. Hope I helped


theres this girl at my school who really likes me and this other guy. both us guys like her and where like best friends. if 1 of us ask her out she says she dosnt want to hurt the others feeling. so i want 2 know if i should wait or move on. i really like her.

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thanks. (link)
You should definetly move on because if you or he were to ask her out yall are going to eventually have a big argument and not be friends anymore and that is just a waste of time...period...So move on. Hope I helped


im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??

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MaD LoVe (link)
Ok first, You cant really make anybody like you. And second I say yall stay friends because if yall were to breakup you no then yall wouldn't even be friends anymore. To me that is just not worth it. Hope I helped......Lil Chocolate Boi




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