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Im Nicole. Im currently 15 [16 after July 3rd]. I've been through alot of life issues. When it comes to Parents; Friends; Guys; Love; Moving; things like that, I know my stuff. Im a really social person, & Im good with words. I write music. I also adore quotes.------------------------
♥ -Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't- ♥
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Yeah, so I am a 16 year old guy and I'm feeling a little conflicted. For the longest time I have liked this one girl. We dated for nearly a year, and she broke up with me. I have to say that I was pretty devastated at first, but I recovered, although I never stopped liking her. Then a month or so ago, it seemed like she might still like me too, but since then has never said anything. It was like she built my hopes up for nothing. Then a week or two ago, I started to like this other girl. She is nice, funny, and just great, but I'm not sure if she likes me too. I guess I want to know if you think I should pursue the girl I used to like, or this new girl I like now.
P.S. Yeah so I'm not going to remain anonymous. This is Kris, so if you want to know more about this situation, just comment me on Myspace or talk to me on MSN. Your help would be apprecitated!
Awwww..kris that is sooo cute.
anyway..i talked to you about it already. and OMG! you are going out with Becca! Whooo! Thts super rad. so anyway. ill talk to you later!
okay..so there's this guy that i've sorta always liked..and we dated at this beginning of this year but we broke up after like two weeks..and he told me a few days ago that he likes me and he wants me to ask him out or something cause he'll have more respect for me..anyways i really dont wanna get hurt like i did last time and i want something that's going to last..and he says that he's tired of being single and he wants a relationship..but i dont know if i should believe him or not. so what do you think i should do?
Dont go jumping into his arms just yet. It sounds like he just doesnt want to be single, and hes aware that you've always liked him. And if you feel like you'll get hurt again, well..thats a risk you may have to take. Before you ask him out our anything, think to yourself.."is he worth another heart break?"
Good Luck ♥
O.k. i like this guy and he is 16 and i'm only 13 but it doesnt bother either of us and sometimes it seems lyk he likesme but sometimes its like he like hates me.... and like it all started coz he just randomly said thatwe should hang out sometime... and somtimes he will like barley talk to me but sometimes helike always talks andstuff idk it confuses me do you think i should just ask him staight out if he likes me
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Yes, you should ask him..straight up, its the only way you'll truely find out how he feels. The age thing is perfectly normal, love has no age limit. But just remember, since he is older, hes more mature and wants to do more things..like getting physical. thats all older guys think about. But if he treats you like shit, he is not worth your time..there are plently of guys out there who are just as good [or better] then this guy who will respect you and treat you the right way. Plus, your only 13..you've still got alot ahead of you ; lots of time to find the perfect guy.
Hope that helps you darling ♥
Well ok i go to this YMCA Camp at Summer, & well its summer, so anyways, i met a boy named Devin, & i like him ... ALOT! well my friends Alex & Damien say me and Devin make a cute couple and Damien told Alex that he though Devin liked me. & alex told me Damien said that. && Kolton, (Devins Best friend) said "Hey! Devin want's you!! he likes you & stuff" but then Devin makes a face & goes "Ewww. Gross, Sicko!" So i really don't know what to think. Should i give up on love? because thats what i feal like doing right about now, High ratings for just trying. Please. this situation is bugging me, bad! =]
Dont give up on love just becuase he said that. Most guys say that when another guy yells something that embarrassing, and that obvious. No guy was going to come out and say.."YES I DO!" If some guy ever does that..it will amaze me. Just talk to him yourself, and find out what he really thinks of you and if he really thinks your "sick" ; or if he was just saying that to keep it cool.
Good Luck ♥
Ok so I met this guy and blah blah blah...long story short..I REALLY like him. i haven't liked someone this much in FOREVEEEER. anyway, I found him on myspace and I was wondering if I should add him as a friend--but then, if someone did that to me..I would think.."Ok..you weirdo, stalker..how do you even know my full name to search me?.." Now, I don't see him anymore..but should I still add him? ok lame question I know..but I'm desperate! Thanks :)
I say ; Add him. He may remember you and be like "OMG! I know her! Thats totally cool that she added me on myspace." Dont mention that you searched him to find him..and he'll think its just a coincidence. -Fate- you could call it. Leave him a few cute comments..and maybe you'll find out that he likes you just as much as you like him. If you ever need anything, im here for you. Take Care ♥
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there is this guy who i was like in love with and he was in love with me for 3 months but i guess he stoped... annyway about a month ago he asked someone out without telling me(we didnt want to start going out because he had dumped his gf for me and didnt want to make it obvious)and i heard about it from someone i knew and i got really mad and to make a long story short we ticked eatchother off preddy bad and he started talkeing again about a month after i got his gf to dump him and now hes acting like im some obsessive wierd chick just because i want it to be like it was before and i just want to get over this creep before he hurts me anny more. anny ideas? i rate high thank you so much
Most people would tell you to find something else to do, like a hobbie. But i know that doesnt work. What you need to do is try to steer clear of him, bcuz everytime you see him or talk to him, you will think about what you had before and you wont be able to get over him. Go out with your friends ; movies perferable, and check out all the guys at the mall. Put all your attention to another guy that may have caught your eye, or you know has a thing for you. If some other guy likes you, get to know him..he may just be *perfect* you just cant see it yet. -You cant find the "Right Guy" ; if your holding on to the "Wrong One"- Good Luck ♥
On September 20, 2004, i started going out with this kid, Bryan. Me and Bryan only lasted like what? 3 months? we broke up on January 3, 2005. Even though it was a short relationship, i can't get him out of my mind. But when we were going out, the world felt like there was no misperfections at all. During the time we were together, i met this other kid, Rich. Rich was hotter than Bryan, and I wanted to get with Rich. [which was stupid of me]. Bryan did everything he could to change my mind. When I broke up with him, he came to my house the next day with roses. Anyway, now, i think about him all the time (bryan). When we broke up, he started to pretend like everything was okay. He was an ass to me, and everyone knew that it was because he was still mad that i dumped him. and i told him i was sorry. But he just doesnt listen. I know that he still loves me though. The bad thing is, is that he went to DR two days ago. He's staying there for a YEAR. i cried when i found out. Me and bryan had our convo's where we talked about the past, and he always said stuff like "I was the best thing you ever had". or like "I gave you my all, and you gave me shit". And i know he's upset, but i still love him. And i don't want to tell him [even though i think he knows], but what should i do? He says that he never loved anyone in his life, but theres a feeling in my gut that tells me that he really loves me, but he doesnt want to admit it. Maybe i'm just imagining things, but i dont know. So what do you think? Should i just get over him [which i've been trying for 2 years]? Or should i tell him everything..how i feel..and all that. I'll rate 5's to anythingg.
-Dont leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love..and it will just be you- If you still care for him..tell him how you feel. Its better to of told, then not told at all. Oh, all guys are like that. Its in their ego to act all tough, like they dont have a care in the world..thats when they really care the most. He most likely still has the same feelings that you do. Why else would he say those things, and bring it up like that. He cant get it off his mind either..you'd be doing a wonderful thing telling him your feelings & fixing your relationship. 3 months may not seem long to you..but a week in love is almost a lifetime.
Good Luck ♥
OK let me just say I am the type of person who can settle arguements easily and I can cooperate and really liten to my partner so dont think I am selfish. But lately we have been fighting about everything. And he likes to just ignore it and talk lets say the next morning or w/e. The problem is that I cannot sleep until I fix the problem. Today he said something that really hurt my feelings and i am sick of solving problems and him not giving a shyt. I love him to death but think i should dump him.
If you love him, like you say you do..you wont give up on him over a fight. You've tried to keep it together in the past..dont let all your hard work just slip away like that. All men say hurtful things, especially if you make them alil mad or want them to do something they are too lazy to do. Dont let that phase you unless he begins to say [or has said] hurtful things repeatedly.
♥ -Love is bitter sweet ; sometimes just bitter, and sometimes just sweet- ♥
Lately, I've been getting pretty serious with my guy friend who just happens to be 18. The problem is, I'm 15.
He, however, is still in highschool and still has one more year to complete.
Is this consider child molestation or anything like that? Could he, or I, get in trouble?
Also, I turn 16 in about a week, when I'm 16 is that still illegal?
That better not be illegal! My boyfriend and I in the same situation [i dont turn 16 tho til July].
I doubt its illegal for you to go out with each other..but sleeping with each other is a different story, im not so sure about that one.
so i really like this guy 1 but i also like my best friend, now me and guy 1 used to date but we broke up but i think he still likes me but my best friends also likes me and im totally confused i need as much advice as i can get. any scrapbooking tips would be awesome too
It all depends on how close you are to both of the guys. Do you feel you'll be better as a couple than as friends [with your guy friend]?
And this [ex], why did you guys end it? Becuz of something he did? And your friends may say he likes you, but that just may be gossip.
You'll never find the "Right Guy" if your still holding on to the "Wrong One".
The real thing you need to ask yourself is, which could you see yourself with in 2 months? 5 years? Which would treat you right?
ps [i dont know a thing about scrapbooking! sorry]