im 15 years young !
&& ilove my life even though its not perfect !
ilive by the quote live.laugh.love !
becuase the best part of life is livin it ryte?
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Location: Pensacola, Fl
Age: 15
Member Since: January 4, 2010
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i have a boyfriend named derek lyons.i have a father named bill vondran. my boyfriend loves me so much and im helping him with his drug addiction and he cant keep his anger in. my dad hates him he thinks i should brake up with him so he thinks i cant get anywhere in life with him but i can. he does grawls the metal voice and he can play bass perfectly. my dad is a christian my boyfriend is a demon.my boyfriend needs me everyday and we cant be away from eachother we are bound. my father wants me to get another and he thinks that im scared to brakeup with him. but im not im inlove. my dad truely hates him always trying to tell me horrible things about him but he dont know him. i only know him truely. i love him i dont want to leet him go. am i the only one that goes away from my father and follow my love??? (link)
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dnt worry about what that !
talk to your dad && tell him how you feel !
tell him itll really kill you to let him go !
tell him to stay out of it
let himknow your understand hes trina pretect you !
but some things you want to learn on your own !
if you love him be with him !
Not everybody is a saint !
who knows maybe you can change him !
never give up on what you cant go a day without thinking about !
LOve is stronger then any addiction !
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I don't like how I feel sometimes about my ex. He's my best friend and I know that we are meant to be friends. I don't want to like him as more than that, but the feelings haven't gone away. He broke up with me about 2 months ago because he said that his feelings weren't there anymore.
I know that he isn't right for me. I've known it all along, but over the course of our time together I slowly had stronger feelings for him until I really did love him. But certain things about us together were never ideal. Basically, I loved him and imagined my life together with him, but there was always a small amount of doubt. All the same, it didn't make it any easier after the break up. I felt like I lost the love of my life. I became extremely depressed for a couple of weeks.
We stayed best friends immediately after the break up. It's worked out well for the both of us. It's like he said, we can love eachother without all the relationship stuff. So now, I give him advice about the girl he likes and he teases me about my crushes. But sometimes, the thought of him with that girl together, it turns my stomach :/. And I know I can't avoid this feeling, eventually if something does happen between them, it could only get worse.
So does anyone know a way that I could deal with this? Anything would help. Thanks (link)
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im kinda in the same situation !
but sometimes good things fall apart so better thinks can fall together !
&& ikN0 how yew feel !
ibet you still get excited when you hear his ringtone ! LOl
itS hARd ikNo !
But the best thing to do is talk to him on the phone alittle more !
if he loved you hell fall for you again !
tell him how you feel !
be real with him !
tell him to let you kno Wat it is && what its not !
if he doesnt feel the same move on !
n0body said it would be easy they just promice it would be worth it !
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This is going to be pretty long, sorry.
Well, approximately 3 years ago me and my friend were walking down the street and we met these two girls. Let's call them Linda and Julia. Well, I am a big flirt so I started to flirt with Julia. And we hit it off. I invited them to a party that weekend. Long story short, we became really close friends. Within one year of our friendship, My friend and Linda have gotten pretty close and they started going out. And when I saw them going out, I decided to ask out Julia a couple months after that. All four of us became really close friends. Due to some family problems, my friend had to move which put a strain on my friend and Linda's relationship. They split but they were still pretty close friends. While he was gone, me and Julia were still together. But Linda and I have gotten to be really close friends. She was a like a little sister to me. A couple of months later, my friend moves back and him and Linda get back together. While they were all together, I found out that Julia has been cheating on me all these years. So I broke up with her. After that, everyone started hating her. Like I said, we were like a close family and when we found out she did that we didn't want anything to do with her. Linda was there for me. Around my friends I am the tough guy, but with Linda I knew I could cry and tell her anything. And after that, I started realizing that she's a pretty amazing girl. And I guess you can say I started having feeling for her. Two months later Julia comes to my door and I see she's pregnant. She told me I was the father. Since I didn't really have my parents there for me, I decided to give it another shot with her. Although my friend and Linda didn't approve of it, I was still with Julia. I came to found out that the baby she was having wasn't mine. So, I leave her. And after that I didn't feel so well. Linda was there for me once more. I told her everything and I she was always there for me. I soon learned to move on with my life, and I started hooking up with a lot a girls. I would says that I would have around 15 different girls a week. Linda didn't like it, but she didn't say anything. All three of us were still close friends. We told each other everything and we would always hang out. It's been three years into our close friendships with one another when my friend had to move once more. Linda and him still kept a relationship although it was a long distance one. Since he's been gone there has been a lot of problems with another guy trying to get with her. I met the other guy and we became friends. Since my other friend was gone, I thought I can get Linda with this other guy to be together. Lida kept telling me that she didn't want to have anything to do with him because he was a bad guy. I really didn't see that side of him, so I kept on pushing him onto her. I later realize that all he wanted was to sleep with her. And I told to back off. I then realize that I have feelings for her. I told my friend about how I know that they're taking a break and all but I like her. He told me to go for it if it's how I really feel.
I really want to ask her out, but I know she doesn't deserve me. I am a total party animal, I drink, I do drugs, and I'm always around girls. She's really conservative and she's a really good girl. She gets straight A's in class, nice, doesn't drink or do drugs, and she's overall a great a girl.
I want to tell her how I feel and I want to be with her, but I feel like I will ruin her life. And we're pretty close friends, I don't think she'll think of more as more than her best friend.
And she's been with my other friends, on and off for three years. I feel that she still likes him and she would want to stay true to him although he's far away.
These pass few weeks, I guess you can say I've been flirting with her. When she's at my house, I sit next to her and I play with her hair and hands. And when we're over at her house we're always watching movies on her bed and I get pretty close to her and we cuddle.
I finally came to the conclusion that I want to pursue a relationship with her. But how can I do it without being the best friend, the guy who has had a pregnancy scart, the guy who has been with multiple girls? I want her to know that I'm serious about her and that's she's not going to be like the other random hookups. How can I tell and show her that I want a serious relationship with her?
Help me please.
Sorry, if it's long. (link)
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you gota be real with her && let her know how yew feel!
tell her you want hurt her send her a text or call her!
stop flirten with other people !
let her know its all about her !
let her know no one comes above her !
ikN0 she wants to here it !
nobody said it would be easy!
they jus promice it would be worth it !
kuz sadly im in the same situation !
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sorry it's a little long.okay i work with this guy. i've known him for two years, im 18 he is 20. we have always flirted with eachother at work and this past summer we finally just started hanging out and "dating" we hung out and dated for about a month and after a month he told me that he was confused about stuff and wasn't sure what to do. before we started dating we were really good friends and he would always come to me with his problems. but when i asked him to talk things out with me, he said he didn't really know how to explain things. in my mind, im thinking that he doesnt wanna get too attached to me since im leaving this summer for college.
so i stopped talking to him, still seeing him at work almost everyday so its so hard for me to get over him. and at work, he acts like he always had.he still talks to me, flirts, and even gives me hugs sometimes before i leave.so just about two weeks ago, he texted me and ask me to come over to his place to watch a pens game. i went over and hung out with him and all his friends, which im friends with all his friends too. so we ended up hooking up after watching the game and after i left he texted me and we were texting all night but then after that night i haven't really talked to him. i really like this guy and i havent felt this way about any guy before. i just really dont know what to do cause obviously i still like him and still want to be around him, but im going crazy inside cause one minute he is into me and then the next he isn't. i try so hard to move on, but i just cant get over him. whaat should i do?!
thank you in advance! (link)
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