Hey, I'm Andrew. Now by all means I'm no Dr.Phill but alot of my friends turn to me for advice and comfort for problems and my advice has seemed to help in the past so hey give me a shot, got nothing to loose :)
E-mail: xfiji74x@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New york
Occupation: pot head
Age: 16
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Member Since: October 14, 2005
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ok I am talking to my xboyfriend about dateing again, but then again he is kinda talking to a 18 year old but he is 16 and he kinda dosnt want to date her... what do I do???
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Well first off how does he feel about dating you? Does he want too or is he like "eh....whatever"?. And this is more something he needs to solv rather than you but he's just gotta be honest, that he is really not intrested in her....if he wants to not hurt her he can always offer friendship.
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Ok I REALLY!!! like this one guy, every time he looks at me I MELT!!! and my heart pounds very fast... I can barely get words out of my mouth and that never happened before... he told my friends that he really likes me as well and the thing is he lives in IN and I like in KY!!! what do I do??? (link)
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Well long distance relations almost never work, I'm not saying that to be a dick or anythig but it's true. As for this guy, if he likes you and you know it what are you waiting for? You gotta go for it! I know it's alot easier said than done but you gotta keep in mind "he already likes me so I won half the battle already!" Now start talking to him...then drop the big question. Just a suggestion anyway
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I like this guy, and we talk all the time but as friends. i mean we flirt alot and stuff. we used to tell eachother we liked eachother and we used to hook up alot (this was lke a week ago) but thenhe hooked up with this random girl on an act of drunkness. we still talk and stuff alot but not the same way, and we only hungout once since then ( other than school). i want to get over him because i see him as a different person now, but its hard becasue i always think of the time we spent together and stuff. he is freaking everywhere i look and we hangout with the same peoople. but i want to find another guy, but he seems like the only one im after. HELP me get over this gggguuuuuuy :( (link)
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Isin't life a bitch at times? Well it's to bad that this girl he hooked up with while being drunk (can you say "what the fuck did I do last night?) ruined your friendship basically. Well the first step in getting over him is to start seeing other guys, I know you care for him a great deal but apparently he dosen't have the same feelings for you. So I want you to start thinking of other dudes you know, in your class, on your bus, at your job (if you work) wherever and start seeing who's single and flirt! Talk, see how he is and then talk to him whenver you see him and see if he likes you back and hey who knows, you may have a new bf =) Now if a guy that likes you wants to hook up with you don't be like "well I need time to get over Joe (we'll use this name as an example)" forget him! het out there and get over this dude and find someone who just wont lead you on like that.
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okay so there is this guy that i met at the beginning of the school year and i liked him. well at least i thought so. well on fall break we went to the movies and other dates. this past week i thought alot about him and if i really liked him or not and i realized the only reason i liked him is because of all the attention that he gave me and i just really wanted someone to care about me. but i cant keep leading him on like this and play some stupid game. so how do i tell him without really hurting him? (link)
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Awe, sticky situation but believe it or not this happends alot. Well theyres gonna be no real easy way but I'd suggest something along the lines like; Listen, at the time I really thought I liked you but the truth is I really don't and I think you deserve someone that will be able to devote themselves to you but I'd still like to be friends with you. This I believe would be a little less painful than "hey i dont like you...opps?" Well hopefully this helps some what if you need anymore help by all means ask me and I'll try my best. Good luck.
-Andrew
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my bf and I never have things to talk about. What can we talk about?
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Well you tow having nothing to talk about to begin with isint a good sign. But you two should try to establish things you like music, movies, things at work/school friends. I always find comic antidote to be a great ice breaker tell a funny story, crack a joke. Also try to get to know each others personal lives more ask him about life, his home life...I mean after you crack the ice itll roll right by but breaking the ice is the hardest part.
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Where May I Be Able To Buy a Penis? lmao
Love.
You Know WHo :) (link)
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Well the first thing you need to do is realise you have a penis problem. Penis this penis that thats all it is with you...god! I think you need help...with your penises.
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ok heres the situation...i love a girl but she doesnt love me. we are like best friends but she has a boyfriend now and we are getting farther apart. what do i do? (link)
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Dude, I am in a very simmilar situation and I sympathise for you. Now first off your scaring her off. I realise you care for her and you wanna show her you do but you may be forcing stuff on her. Now hopefully they'll be a future for you two after this guy but theyre may not be if you keep preasuring her, be laid back, be a good friend and even if it never happends with you two appreciate her for being such an awesome friend, DON'T LOOSE HER!.
-Andrew
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Ok soo I dont know where else to really turn now. My boyfriend moved back to his home state, which is 3 1/2 hours from where I live, and we broke up 3 days before he did to "make things easier" or so he says. He didnt want to try a long distance relationship b/c he thought it would be too hard. Well, he is/was the love of my life... I spent the whole summer with him. He was everything to me and he didnt even say good bye when he left which crushed me. Well my life has been going down hill since. I use to be an "a" student, but now my grades are consisting of "c" and "d"... I'm missing school beyond no measure, I've gotten kicked outta my house, I've made my mother cry several times (which is bad b/c my mother is hard to upset that bad), I even had to buy my first pregnancy test (was negative...), I've started to become everything I never wanted to be. I dont know what is up with me, I hate him so much yet my heart is screaming for him... I dont want to give up b/c I love him so much, but its one sided and somethign else kinda love... Any suggestions to how to deal with these feelings would be GREATLY appreicated.. I rate high! (link)
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First off my heart goes out for you it really dose but you shouldnt allow this problem to hurt your familly and most impordantly yourself. I understand completley that it is so hard to "fall out of love" with someone, infact it's nearly impossible. There will always be a tiny bit of you that will have feelings for him but it's time to say goodbye. You should start off by taking some time for yourself to really think deeply about your life and decide what you wanna do. After that get back on the dating scene! You sound like a sweet caring person who will give 110% in a relation and that's excellent. Let go to him and find someone who will make you happy. That's the best I can do if your situation get's worst please get back to me.
-Andrew
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My guy friend needs help. He was just on the phone with me ( cause he knows about my site and figured i could help ) and said that theres this girl that he really really likes, but this other girl that he dates ( not a relationship, just dates ) likes him, but he doesn't like her anymore. And he told me she cries to him sometimes on the phone and that she says she doesn't want to lose him and such and he doesn't want to be a jerk, but he doesn't know what to do, and I don't know how to answer. Please help.
Love,
Mel (link)
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Well first off let me start of by saying that he's in a tough situation. Now the best approach to this problem is honesty. He should say something to the effect of, listen, I know you really like me but I unfortinatley have don't have the same feelings for you back and I think that you deserve someone who can fully devote themselves to you. That's the best I can do if this dosent work by all means get back to me and mabe we can try a diffrent approach
-Andrew
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