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well i think i like this boy buti'm not sure because i talk about him a lot with my friends and my parents say i can't date him but i really want to. i went out with him once already and i actully kissed him but the thing is we are not together and he tries to protect me to much like if i talk to another boy he gets mad or if it's my offit. but i thgink he likes me.what should i do? (link)
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if your parents dont allow you to date, you can always "sneak" around, but be safe, and dont do things that would really prove to your parents the reason they dont want you to date.. be smart.. if he is being protective, and sounds like jealousy, he is deff. into you and likes you. no guys is that way unles they like you, or bestfriend type.
if you and him start to get serious, you should talk with your parents, tell them all about him, and explain your situation, introduce him to your parents, so they will feel safer about you dating, just talk to them about it..
hope i help at least a little =)
and hope all works out well!
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well to make the story short
i know this guy for about 2 months, we have seen each other a lot of time since he knows my parents, it is natural that he comes over to our house everyday. At first i didn't really talk to him because i feel like i do not trust him and i do not know him well, but later on i started talking to him and find out he is very nice, he talked and joke around alot. His family and ours are getting along very well, and he is nice to us. During my spring break, he asked my dad if he could take me and my sisters out since its our spring break and he doesn't want us to feel bored, he took us out that day, i felt great because this is actually my first time going out with a guy that parents know of. okay so then we just hung out and then we get closer and closer everyday. Well i told my best friend about him, and told her what he did to me, she looked at me for a while and say the weirdest thing ever, she thinks he likes me. i was like no way in earth that could happen, he is 27 while i'm only a senior in high school. There is no way he could like me, we are so different in age, but then she told me age don't matter in love, and then she said i should look for hints when he talk to me or do something for me, hints that show he likes me. I have been trying to look for those kindda hints but somehow i can't find them, i saw what he did to me and he did the same thing to other people. My friend said only the outsider can see what is going on. I don't really take that into consideration until one day my sister told me, the she thinks he likes me, again i was shocked. i don't know how they came up with that idea and i don't know what is going on. can someone tell me whether he likes me or not? (link)
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its a little hard to tell if he likes or not based on this, but from what your friend and sister picked up on, that he is into you, it could very well be so. and your friend is right, age doesnt really matter when it comes to feelings of the hearts. i would say the best thing to do it continue hanging out with him, and still look for little hints, if you like him, be flirty and stuff, becaue if he does like you in return he will most likey pick up on the flirting and flirt back. some guys are "shy" no matter the age, so he may be totally into you but not sure what your feeling/thinking.. so if you like him, give him hints aswell..
but if other people are saying the see he likes you, they are probably right =)
hope things work out well for you both!
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ok i need help, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months now and we were friends for a year, hes perfect and he treats me very very well.and we both love each other very much also.but 4 years ago i feel in love with a guy and we were planing on dating and things didn't happen that well because my best friend at the time made up lies about me which he believed and later ended up dating her.now that he knows the truth he wants to come back to me and start dating me but i cant because i love my man and i wouldn't hurt or leave him.. but on the other hand i want pay back and i want to see what it would have felt like if i was his girlfriend because i still have small feeling for him... can anyone plz help me out .. plz (link)
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i think you should stay with your current boyfriend. you say he is perfect and you love him and he loves you. why ruin that for a "what if "situation, when you already have a "perfect" situation. you may have loved him once before a long time ago, but likeyou said you only have small feelings for him... dont risk losing something perfect ((your boyfriend)) for something inthe past...the past is the past nothing can change it.. the future is whats important... do you see yourself having a future with your boyfriend or with the guy from the past?
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OK, so we know what lust and love is.. but is it bad to just be in 'lust' with somebody rather than 'love' even though you're like really good friends with the person? (link)
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of course it is ok to be in lust rather than love, love is one of our strongest emotions and it is ment for someone specail. and to be in lust with someone is just as specail, i would even say i prefer lust to love, it is less drama, and wit lust, you cant get your heart broken.. you get get hurt, but not damaged... if your in lust with someone it is perfectly fine and a sweet and nice thing =)
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Sorry this is long but..OK to start out I'm 15/f.
It started when I was 12 and in 6th grade. There was this guy named Jack and we both liked each other, but neither of us admitted it to the other...then he told me that he was going to move to another country (permanently, not just vacation). When he was there, we would sometimes talk on AIM. He admitted that he liked me, and I did the same. But eventually we lost contact because of the time differences. Well then at the end of that year, for the last quarter of school, he came back. Apparently his school in China was awful. By that time, I had a boyfriend. Jack kind of layed off talking to me at that time, because I think he didn't want to cause trouble. But I dumped my boyfriend before the school year was over, and when Jack found this out he started flirting with me again. But then he went back to China. Then the summer after 7th grade, he randomly called me and told me that he was in town and that we should play tennis. So we played out and then he asked me to a movie. (Last year I was in 8th grade by the way). So then this summer (after 8th grade), I emailed him and asked if he was going to be in town and if he wanted to play tennis. He responded and we played tennis/went swimming. It was awesome, and perfect and we really clicked. Then he called me a few days later to see if I wanted to see a movie with him...we saw a movie but nothing happened. He didn't hold my hand or anything but it almost seemed like he was trying to but couldn't get the courage to or something. Anyway, he's leaving tomorrow (I saw him last night), and I really want to have a relationship with him. He's going to be in the country this coming school year, he's going to a boarding school in the east coast. But I feel awkward initiating it, and there are so many potential problems that could happen if I admitted I liked him. 1) He could say he doesn't feel the same way (I'm pretty sure he likes me, because he was acting so charming and amazing). 2) He could say he doesn't want to have a relationship, and if that happened, if I ever saw him again it would be really awkward. 3)He could say he does like me, but then find a girl in boarding school that he likes better and break up with me. I can't get him off of my mind though. When I knew it was the last time we'd be seeing each other for a while, I just started crying. What should I do? Should I hint at liking him through email or something? The longer answer the better, thank you soo much! (link)
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well i think you should tell him, yes all the risks are there, but i think there is a bigger risks of not taking a chance to be with the people you really care about... it is possible those things could happen, he could find someone else at his school, he could say he doesnt want a relationship... but it could also o this way, that he will be head over heals inlove with you and all the girls at his school wont matter and he would love nothing more than to be with you...
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Okay, Eric is a friend of mine. We've been friends sence the forth grade. We have gone out but so much drama came out've that so we both agreed to stay friends.
Well that was months ago, and after that he started bragging that we had sex.. which is a complete lie! Yeahh we kissed, but besides cuddling I didn't even think of doing anything with him. He's not like that though, well infront of me. He dinied ever saying it but Ive heard itfrom people I trust with my life so I kinda broke apart with him. Well A bunch of friends of mine and me decided to drive to Florida and we live in New Hampshire so It's a big trip and It was Me(im 14) Rachel her Boyfriend, Eric and his cousins who's like 30. Well Rachel had Kile to sleep on like put her head on his soulder and Jayy(Erics Cuz) stayed in motels most of the time with random girls. So me and Eric talked. And he explained everything. The whole having sex wit me he said that when he was waisted which doesnt make it right but it explains some. And i donno it was like there was no history between us, no barrier to keep us apart. And yeahh we kinda got close, and went swimming in a pool at a hotel in like well my underwear and bra but in his boxers and we were so close.. I cant explainhow I went fom hating him to loving him.
I want to go back out with him.
How do i tel him.. (link)
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well dont tell him right away, start hanging with him a lot, and flirting, and see how he reacts... and if its all good with you guys, and it seems like he is into you, then tell him that you would like to give the relationship another try, that you have strong feelings about him and would like to be with him.. dont say you love him, at least not rigt away, itmay freak him out a lil (guys are like that) but just simple say you have feelings for him and would really like to try being together again =)
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15/f
If you're a guy, and you have a (guy) friend who is a year younger than you... and he has a sister who is a year younger than him and she likes you, would ever consider going out with her?
If not, why wouldn't you?
If you would, how would you act towards her? Would it be different if her brother was there?
(I'm the sister in this case) (link)
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i would say yes it would be ok to go out together, and as for acting differently, i think it kind ofdepends on how the brother is.. if he is the protective type, the laid back cool type, think its gross that someone likes his sister.. stuff like that...and how he feels about his friend..like if he thinks he is good enough for his sister or not, thinks he will treat her right or not, stuff like that... but all in all it really will involve all 3 people the brother the sister and the friend/boyfriend... but yea i say its ok if the people like eachother =)
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well.. i aint really done one of these before.. but here i go..
i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now.. but i have only known him for at least 4 months.. before i started talking to him.. i never knew him or spoke to im before. but neway.
for some reason. when im with him. i aint myself around him. im not shy like in the bedroom or anything. but normally im a happy person and full of energy. but when im with him. i just sit there looking sad a and borin.. he says he thinks im normal. but im different wen im with my friends. i dont no how to be myself aorund him. i keep gettin scared that he is gonna end it. i dont no y but i do. and i dont no weva thats y i cant b myself around him. coz im scared of loosin him. i need advice on how to b myself. and be more fun to be with?? (link)
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i am the same way when i first used to be with my boyfriend... its kind of like your nerves and if your anything like me.. maybeyou think that if you are yourself maybe he wont like you.. so you just kinda sit there.. and think a lot.. how i over came that was, i would tell him lets go do something fun.. go to something you really enjoy doing, something that relaxes you and makes you happy.. you will start to loosen up and get more confortable... dont be afraid to be yourself, because there is a reason he is with you, because he likes you, so be you and have fun.. everyone gets like this at someone point with someone theylike... even the boys.. they just dont admit it lol... but i would say go to something you like to do, loosen up and once you see you and he are having a good time and you are being yourself, you will then slowly start to loose that feeling of "shyness" and the fear of him leaving you....
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ok so im 14 and im in complete love with my boyfriend and i know u here that all of the time but we hang out everyday and when im not with him its the worste feeling in the world and we've been together 5 months and we've been inseperable ever since so we were down in my basement the one day and me and him r kind of kinky haha and we like to fool around but we've never had sex and we arent going to b/c wer'e too young and there is too many risks so anyway, i went to put on a skirt [so he didnt have to pull my pants down b/c my mom was upstairs] and then i told my mom i was going to "model" the skirt for him so i wnet downstairs and out it on then he was laying on the floor and i went to step over him so he could look up my skirt and as soon as i did that my mom came down and saw that! i told her i tripped and she came down at the worste time ever it was soo bad and now she thinks im like a whore or something and i told her im not but im not going to tell her that ive done everything but sex esp. if she thinks ill ive done was make out yanno? and now my bf thinks my mom hates him but she doesnt so i dont know what to do! please help me! what do i do? :/ (link)
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well if your sure your mom doesnt hate him the try to convince him over to your house for dinner or something that involves your mom too, so he can see that she doesnt hate him...
if your mom really thinks your a whore, just sit her down and talk to her, in a serious talk.. (of course you can lie a little)... tell her you know all aboutthe "birds and the bees" and you arehaving sex or anything like that, tell her to trust you.. that you areway smarter than that, that you know you are to young, and you know about all the risks, just tell her all those things so she wont think bad about you, and the one thing that will really make her feel good.. tellher "mom you raised me right, dont worry" i said that to my mom before... and she cried (of joy) and completly just ignored the stuff that was going on and now she thinks im a little angel.. lol...
so just talk to her in seriousness...like you and her go out to eat or something and talk... and invite your boyfriend over to prove she doesnt hate him
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ok so i got off work the other day and was waitin for a ride home.
i ran into this guy and we hit it off pretty good we talked for awhile and exchanged numbers.
we have been talking alot on the phone lately and he keeps saying how he wants me to be his gf but i tell him im not sure
i mean i like him alot but he is 18 and im 14
is that a big enough difference to not date him?
i mean ive dated older guys forever but its illegal since he is 18 not like we'd get in trouble but just the thought. but still i like him alot
ahh
someone help
PLEAZ.. (link)
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well fist, heknows how old you are right?
second, yes it is illigal, but if your ok with it, and he is ok with it.. then i think its ok to go for it...
maybe this is very dishonest..but maybe keep your parents out of it..because maybe they will not think it is ok and involve the police about it.. and then he will get in trouble.. and if you guys have sex... there is a great chance he can go to jail...
so basically just think hard about all the risks you guys would be taking, and if it still seems worth it, then yea go for it...
ope i telped =)
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