..Hi i'm Kelsey Larson..
Hayy.. life can bring a whole bunch of un-expected problems nd` shit and sumtimes we just need someone to talk to and listen. I`m always open to talk to and i give advice. IM me at X kare 69 bare X or n3ver Endiinq x3 if you want know more about me.. i love you brian!!
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my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do - leave your screen name for AIM if possible ! (link)
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well if he told you that he would stop - then obviosly didnt... he lied to you, twice. You shouldnt take that from your boyfriend! i know how it is not having enough stregnth to talk to people about important things, but if you cant face to face.. have a good friend do it.. because if you tell him online it wont mean nearly as much to him..you can IM me at n3ver Endiinq x3
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hey kelsey. umm ok i have this problem. its kinda long so brace urself here. so i like this guy a lot...and we've become good friends. and it seemed like he liked me and stuff and we were hanging out a lot and it was great. so i was planning on telling him how i felt. so then i heard from my friend he was planning on asking someone else out... so i decided to tell him how i felt like right away. so i could get to him before he did it you know... so i did. and he was like yeah i think your relaly great and your really pretty and your hilarious and awesome and stuff, but i think im gonna ask out this other girl. cause ive been meaning to for a while and i never really got around to it. so i was like ohk im totally fine with that we can just be friends. but im not exactly fine with it... and i just dont really get it cause like we have a lot in common and stuff and he and this girl have like nothing in common...and me and him talk a lot more than he does with his gf...and like we were supposed to go to the movies and i was like yah you should bring your gf but he was like no its ok. so AHHH i dont know if i should act like i don't care and just accept his friendship and hope maybe one day he likes me? or should i tell him i really like him and tell him i think that he made a mistake. or AHH what do i do i need help so bad!!! (link)
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you should probably tell him how you feel.. like you should tell him that you feel like you and him belong together more then him and his gf.. sum boys are just stupid like that! but everything happens for a reason.. so maybe he doesnt want to go out with you because you two are such good friends and he doesnt want to ruin your friendship over a relationship..? but if you really want him bad then just tell him that you really feel that you guys belong together more then him and his gf and give him plenty of reasons for him to think about.
hope i helped..
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okay so im a female 14 years old. Valentines day coming up and well the is few guys that like me but they arent what i really want. What i really want is uhh well im not very sure there is couple guys i want but one of them i like never hang out with and another one well i dont think i have any cahce with him at all cuz he doesnt even think im hott. What should i do? Who should be my valentine this year?
plz help me! (link)
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you dont NEED a valentine.. yah one is nice to have on v-day.. but you wont die if you dont have one.. and that guy is shallow, even if your not hot then that doesnt mean he shouldnt go out with you.. just dont worry about it.
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i like this guy but hes my friends ex but she said shes over him but i dont know if he likes me...what should i do? (link)
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find out if he really does like you and if ur friend really is over him, or if shes just saying that cuz she wants to be..
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hey i really like this guy but hes GAYYY how can i get him!! HES HOTTER THAN ANYTHING MY EYES HAVE EVER SEENNNNN! (link)
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well if hes gay then there is really no way you can.. but if you want him that bad then ask him like if he would ever go straight or be interested in a girl..but if he says no, dont force it.
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hey kelsey, im 13, a female, and theres this boys i like and we are pretty good friends. it sort of seems as if he likes me but i don't know how to tell. i want him to know i like him before valentines day but im scared because i dont want our friendship to become ackward. what should i do? (link)
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you should just ask him.. "do you like me?" or else you will never know.. and if he says yes you should go out with him.. if not just stay good friends with him. but if you only want a bf for v-day then thats not too cool
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I tried to bake my girlfriend cookies for christmas kelsey, but it didnt work out too well... I added some bacon and ham in them and then i found out she got food poisening... shes all like uhhh and i was like whateva. she like dumped me and i kissed her and i think i got food poisening. did i get food poisening, and was that a good desicsion putting the meat in her food?
Btw kelsey i have a crush on you (link)
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wow, your stupid -- no. not a good idia at all. but i dont think you would get food poiensing unless the bacon and hm was raw.. and i have a boyfriend!
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Hey K-Dawg, Whats up G, im just wondrizzle what the hizzle is up with my gizzle? shes all meanizzle to me and im getting very sadizzle. Should i dump her because shes in the sped clasizzle? (link)
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sure.. if you want to.
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Hey Kelsey, well my friend like loves this guy and they are like really good friends. And my other friend likes him too but not as much as the other friend. The guy asked the one that doens't like him as much. Now my friend is like heartbroken, but she's moving along, but my friend that is now going out with the guy is so sad and won't talk I don't know what to do! I feel like I am stuck in the middle of this!! Thanks for all the advice
~Julia (link)
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well it seems like it has nothing to do with you.. its between ur two friends. they can work it out by themselves.
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Hey im Kara and im 14 years old. My boyfriend Brandon and i have been going out for about 1 month and 14 days. He likes me a real lot and he trys to see me all the time. But i dont even like him at all. Like, not to be mean but i havint liked him this whole time! I only see him as my bestfriend because he was my bestfriend for about 2 years now. And i also like this other guy who likes me back and we hang out more then i hang with Brandon. But anyways, what shuld i do? Shuld i just tell him i dont like him no more, that i like this other guy and not him and break his heart?
P.S. I have asked him what he would do if i broke up with him, and he said he would cut his rist! What shuld i do about that also?!
PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
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ok, well first, when he asked you out you should have said no if you didnt like him in that way.. just say that things arent working out and you would rather be friends again. he wont cut his wrists. if he does then he wont kill himself. if he wants to kill himself i doubt hed cut. but if he does its ur fault for saying yes to him.
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okay... im a girl and 14 and i really like this guy & he liked me too and we went to homecoming and everything was going great... after homecoming, he said that he likes me too and that he wants to go out with me ((but he didnt technically ask me out yet)) so then a few days later we went to this party & he wasnt there... & the whole time i was thinkn about this other guy and kissing him and what not... but then we went to a school nearby at around 10 ish & lit off fireworks... that was a long story but the cops came & "gatherd" all of us "kids" to go back to the house the party was at. and the guy was just walking around looking for his cat & the cops told him to go back to the party too. okay so then we were all watching a movie & the OTHER guy that i was thinkn i wann'd to kiss and i were sitting on the chair and we started making out and what not... right in front of the other guy that i hella like that liked me too. & well.. needless to say.. he doesnt think things will work out with us.. he said he still likes me a lot.. but after that he couldnt EVER go out with me cause i hurt him so much. i kno i made a huge mistake expecially cause he means soooo much to me.. but what should i do cause i really want things to b right with us again.. a lot of time has passed and we r just now starting to BaReLy talk again... please help me out & dont call me a slut or w/e cause i've gotten plenty of that around school.. (link)
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dont worry. i would never call you a slut. because your not one. if he has a sn then talk to hiM! tell him that you called to say you want things to be right.. and you never meant to hurt him. and he means soo much to you.. and from how it sounds would would do alot to get this guy.. and it sounds like its worth it. and if you cant talk to him get one of his friends to tell him that or to give him a note or something!
basically.. he needs to know how much he means to you! because if you guys barely talk..i doubt he ReAlLy knows...
*hope i helped*
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hey me and my ex went out for like a really long time like 3 months ago and i just recently saw him and it was like total magic all over again i swear and i already have a boyfriend except that night i accedentally kissed my ex and now i feel bad but i think i still have feelings for my ex but i dono what to do because i love my boyfriend now and yeah. thanx great advice you give. (link)
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Hmm well which one do you think likes you more? who do you think will be more true to you? maybe if your boyfriend finds out you kissed your ex he might not want to be with you anymore.. so then you might like your ex more... but you need to think who do get along with best and who do you trust and feel more comfterble talking to
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im 12 and theres this girl who i really like and i wanna tell her i love her but im too afraid, help me out (link)
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Hmm.. i duno if you could love sumone when ur only 12.. but you could ask her out and say she means alot to you or you like her very much. but if you dont want to go out with her then just IM her n tell her that.
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HEY WELL UHM MEH AND MY B.F OF 5 MONTHS JUST BROKE UP IT JUST WASNT WORKING OUT LIKE WE WANTED IT TO .. IT WAS HEAVEN FOR US BOTH AT FIRST AND THEN IT ALL FEEL APART .. HE BECAME A CONTROL FREAK AND I JUST COULDNT HANDLE IT .. I LOVE HIM AND I THINK IT IS GONNA BE REALLY HARD TO GET OVER HIM .. BUT HE SAYS WHEN I GROW UP AND I AM ALOUD TO DO MORE STUFF WITH HIM TO LET HIM KNOW AND I WILL BUT I JUST DONT WANT HIM TO MOVE ON LIKE TO ANOTHER GERL .. BUT HE ACTS LIKE THIS IS REALLY HARD FOR HIM .. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO .. =\ HELP PLEASE (link)
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tell him that exactly -- say that he was being a bit too controlling and you wanted things to work out differently. you can also tell him when he was being controlling so he will have a better understanding of what he was doing wrong.
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i have never kissed anyone... how do i do it.. and um.. will the other person realize its my first ? im a 14 female (link)
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well no one can really tell you how to kiss sumone, but usually guys dont care if its ur first time kissing them!
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okay so my boyfriend we have been dating for about 3 months now and we talk on the phone constantly! i mean i really love him but i have a life and i dont have time to just talk to him for hours every night! and like when he calls he barley has n e thing to say! wut should i do? i dont wanna break up with him but i mean it will b really hard to tell him not to call me n e more!
aahhh please help me sooon!! b4 he calls again!! lol jk but yea i need advice soon (link)
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oh gosh thats hard! just tell him that your parents yelled at you for how high the phone bill was!! thats what i did. tell him its ok to call once evry few days but not for 3 hours every day. ill agree thats way too much! if that keeps goin on you too could get sick or each other and want to break up!
*hope i helped*
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hey im a female im 14 years old ok so there is this guy in my school who im like in love with and he liked me back so we went out 4 a week maybe then he dumped me and i was in schock cuz i really liked him so i called him and i talked to him about it and he says that he still likes me and everything but he dumped me cuz he didnt think i really liked him and he thought i was ganna dump him cuz i liked other guy and he said he will get to know me a lil more and then he might ask me out but i made a huge mistake while i was telling him how i like him i was telling another guy that i like him too so he figer out about it and he got all piassed at me and everything but i called him and i told him that i only did it cuz he hurt me and so i was just so deseparate so i went 4 someone who liked me well then he belived me and he said that he does like me but he wont ask me out cuz he doesnt know me and thats just piases me off really bad cuz like i really dont wanna be friends with him and if he likes me y wouldnt he go out with me like he already went out with me so i say it doesnt make any sense
please tell me what should i do or what should i say to get him back cuz i dont think i could go on with out him!
love ya lots! (link)
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oh gosh, you could go on without him! ur only 14! you either break up or get married, and there is a very small chance that you will stay together all through highschool. but anyways -- explain to him that you onl like him and no one else. and you would do almost anything to get him back! and if he still doesnt listen then hes not worth it!
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hey kelsey well im a female and im 14 and i really like this guy in my school who i went out with but he broke up with me a week after he asked me out and he said it was because he wasnt really ready for the realtionship and he didnt think i really liked him butim like in love with him after i told him that he said that he still likes me and everything but he wants to get to know me more and then go out but i think its really stupid because he already went out with me so yea i dont think its going to be any different when he get to know me more and anyways i really dont want to wait and like now when i ask him if he likes me he doesnt say yes he says may be and its pissing me off
please tell me how do i get him back because i know he likes me its just something standing on the way between us
i really need to know what should i do to get him back
love ya lots!!!! (link)
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just tell him the truth.. say you need to talk to him and let it all out -- let everythihng out that is on ur mind.. thats most likly what he wants to hear. flirt with him a little and make it seem like you really like him! just be urself -- and if he doesnt like you then hes not worth it!
*hope i helped*
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ok so me and my ex-boyfriend broke up after about 3 months of seeing eachother...he said that he found someone new. Well we didn't talk for about a month and now about a week ago he IM's me online and was like hey whats up and i was very hesitant to talk to him bc he really really hurt me bad and i loved him and all and i thought he loved me (he told me he did but i didn't think it was true). Well he asked me if we could talk. So i went to meet him at our usual spot that we used to chill and he was like how have you been and everything. I asked him why he started talking to me again and he said bc he felt bad about everything and said that he acted like an A**hole. which is true. Well then i asked him how him and the other person he met was doing and he told me that it didn't work out between them. I was like oh okay. We hooked up and i knew i shouldnt of an now i like him ALOT again. I dont know if he only is talking to me bc it didn't work out with the other girl or what! can someone please help!! sorry its so long ill rate u high if u answer! thanx!! (link)
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if he is willing to come back to you and have the guts to talk to you after a month or so and see fi thing are still ok then i think he is worth it! give him another chance! at least he is acting like a man and saying he was being an asshole. i wish guys around here were like that! well it is obvious that he likes you and you liek him so give him another chance!
*good luck*
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Mkay.. im 13 and i am really falling in love with my boyfriend. Like i want to be with him for the rest of my life and ive never felt this way before. How do i know if this is really true love? Is it to eairly to have a serious relationship?
p.s. my aunt found her true love in Jr.High. they got married so maybe it will happen to me! (link)
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Wow, your lucky! You can fall in love at ANY age. Ignore those people who are telling you it's only a "crush" because if your heart tells you your in love, then most likly you are! but the thing is, i was like that too, and i got dumped! after 8 months..so unless he feels the same way about you, then dont get too attached. because if he does dump you.. you'll be really hurt. but just remember you have you hole like to find the right one!
*hope i helped*
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