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Heyyy; Im Keanna. Also known as KayChapman. I love too give advice. So; here i am on Advicenators :) Im 14 years of age and will be 15 on June 10. I may be young but give great advice and be sure to try my hardest on giving my best. Im very experienced. Not in a bad way but i have had sex, been fingered, etc. So whenever you need advice. Im here :) Thankks.

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-KayChapman

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13, female
So there's a guy... He's 16 and he doesn't have a girlfriend. I think he's really cute. We see eachother at parties and there was a party yesterday, and of course there was music, so we danced together to bachata. It was nice, but I guess I should've talked to him more while we were so close together. It could've been the perfect time to talk to him.(NOTE: he doesn't make fun of me or anything like that.) One thing I don't get is that he flirts with me once in a while even though he doesn't have feelings for me.

Anyways, I know he doesn't like me, but I really want to tell him that I like him, just so he knows and so I don't have to be so sneaky all the time. Should I tell him? How do I tell him?

Thank you to everyone who answers! Even if you think your answer won't help, please write it down there!

Girl, you'll NEVER know how he feels until you go for it and talk to him. Most guys like a girl who makes the first move. Just find a perfect time and go for it. Let me know how it goes, I hope I helped.
- KayChapman.

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i apologized to him about what happened and he said that it was ok and he laughed about it :)what else could i talk to him about? and when i talk to him how can i make myself not nervous around him

So sorry it took so long too respond. But talkk about yourselves; What you like, he likes, and lets see. Picture him as if you've known hem for years. Lke he's yer bestfrann. Maybe then you'll be more comfortable around him. Hope i helped!! Let me know.




-KayChapman.

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My question is pretty self explanatory. Long story short I was in an amazing relationship that began in July and ended well in September. I ended it with him because I couldn't all the drama that came from it (not from him but the catty girls and his dad thinking I didn't like him for him because I was so pretty, his brother thinking I'm a ****, etc.) and I still liked him and it killed me to do it and I still miss him a lot. My friends are all like you're too good for him blah blah the usual. I've hooked up with eh about 15 guys so far at parties, mixers, etc and no not like blow-jobs, or having intercourse or any of that. Just you know making out and stuff. I'm by far one of the classiest girls at my school and I still have looks to die for. Anyways yeah and I'm still NOT over him. You'd think after 15 hookups one including an American Apparel model that I'd be totally over it but nope. Can you guys help me out?

If you still like him then it shouldnt matter what other people such as your friends; the catty girls; or his dad. Its how you two feel. No1 else matters in yerr guys relation ship. Give it another shot :) Hope i helped!. Let me knoe how it goes!!



-KayChapman

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I like a guy,who seems like he wants to hookup with me but as well be a really close friend.I want him to become interested in me and want to go out with me.What could I do to maybe be hard to get or make him want more than just a friendship/hookup?

Its good that he wants too be your friend because in a relationship; You first need a friendship. Not all guys like a girl who plays hard too get, But if he were too ask you out be like "Cant; Already have plans sorry" itll leave him thinkking "I wonder what she's doing or with who". Or stuff like that. See what i mean? I hope i helped. Let me know how it goes!



-KayChapman

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Thank you for responding :] but like she doesnt like going out. idk how to explain it liek she is kind of a shy person and iv asked her to do things with me but like her mom never lets her do shit so it suckss

Your welcome :) Anyytime! Buhhh lets see.. Do like things for her that no other would do (sounds hard; but its really easy] right her cute little love notes in stuff. Girls love that. & Dont be shy either. Have feelings girls love a man who show emotions but are also tough when needed too be :) Once again, let me know how it goes! And if you need anymore advice. You know where too reach me :)

-KayChapman

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How do i make a girl want me? Everything iv sad or dont she has sad she heres it all the time from other girls and she always gets screwed over. How can i show her that im not gonna screw her over and that i truley want to be with her and that i am different from every other girl? helppp

Take her out on a date. A wonderful* date. Something she would have never expected from you. Id like that very much if a guy were too do that for me. Girls also love flowers. Sounds cheesy like a chick flick but it's romantic. Trust me; Im a girl. Id know :) Let me know how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden (im 13) and his sister is 14 i think she awesome and i didnt no id like her like this but i do so i asked her out and she said yes but idk if i should stay with her or brake up cause me and her r doing this behind his back plase help me

Welpp me and my bestfriend (both girls] dated once. & It went great. We never told any1 because i felt wrong. Im not bisexual anymore tho im in a healthy 7month relationship with my boyfrann. Anyywho; You shouldnt feel wrong especally if you both really like eachother. You should both sitdown and talk too hem. Tell me how it goes!

-KayChapman.

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Theres a guy at my school who likes me hes not the best looking but hes ok hes a little cute hes muscular but not to much and hes a really nice guy. The types i like are goths emos and skaters but hes neither a while ago his friends who are my friends too told me he likes me hes my friend now and now my admirer is used to talking to me i can tell he still likes me and yea he even tries to show off how strong he is and tries to be funny.....So should i give him a chance?

Definantly give him a chance. What's the harm? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take :)
Let me know how it goes.

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