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my name is michele nickname is kandi im 15 n i live in m*ville pennsylvania i go to susquenita high school n ima sophmore there woo hoo haha i love to cheerlead ummm most of mah friends say i give good advice i mean i knoe its not gunna be tha best but i have been through alot..more than ne one will eva knoe so i can relate ta jus bout ne thing that u may be havin a problum with...n im jus gunna let u knoe that im sry if i give u adivce that jus makes things worse...but hey im not perfect so dont xcept mah advice ta be eitha..with that all said thanx fa comin n ill try mah best ta help u

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aight here it goes -- there is this guy that i liked a loooong time ago. and he was just really rude and obnoxious to me. i talked to him on the fone and he said he liked me, but that was before i met him, and then one day i met him at school, and he told my friend he didn't like me because i was black. and now he finally realizes that color doesn't matter and he likes me now and i'm starting to like him again, but im wondering if i should resist and treat him like he treated me for payback, or should i just give in and go out with him?

i think u should go out wif him bc if u dont n u be rude to him ur gunna regret it bc he prolly wont wanna be with u afta uve been rude to him..even tho he was rude to you...but so i think that u should give him a chance
hope this helped

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whut do you do when youi are in love with 2 ppl and cant find which opne you wanna be with!

well this one is hard u should jus chose tha one that u like ta be with tha most like tha one that u can relate to better or talk to better bc it*ll usually work out betta with that person
hope i helped

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My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do?

i think that you should tell him how you feel...even tho he might not feel tha same way u still should let him now that hope that helped

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I think im really *ugly* and i know yoo get all the guys wut should i do to get a boy??? I wear makeup and pretty clothes

well i doubt that ur reallii ugly jus be more confiadent in ur self....talk ta tha guys dont be shy round them n also i dont get all tha guys...yeah i guess u could say i get alot but i mean i get turned down to i mean its not always easy fa me eitha....bac wen i was younger i wasnt all that pritty eitha but now i guess u could say that i am...so maybe u jus have ta wait a lil fa ur looks ta become great n everything like that

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alright well i dont wanna be like another girl saying oh my relationships arent workign out its only been a month blah blah .. yeah thats not a real relationship .. see for about 3 years now on and off i've been with my boyfriend .. this is the third time we've been together adn its been about 2 months but for some reason it just hasnt seem the same at all .. and he is completely obsessed and always says to me how im like his life and idk what to do because i know how badly i'd hurt him .. and im scared because what if me and him really do have a future with eachother but just not right now and if i ruin it with him now he might not want me later in life .. please i could use any advice

okay well u should tell him that u feel a liddle unconfortable with him right now n u think that you should jus be friends for tha time being...tht you want to be able ta iono breath but dont be a bitch to him bc that might ruin tha whole thing fa tha future...jus basically follow ur heart nd do wut u think is best

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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel?

you will know that ur inlove with sumone if all u can think bout is him/her n even if this person does tha most awful thing in tha world ta you no matta wut u will still like him/her. you will be happy jus to be around this person n u can be urself but if ur in love u*ll knoe it bc well u*ll jus feel reallii good bein with that person n you dont eva wanna lose them...n jus thinkin bout losin him/her makes you sad

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well to be honest i'm worried about my bestfriend.. her boyfriend still talks with his ex girlfriend (she moved 3 years ago, outside the country). she found emails were they said that they cared a lot for each other. he said it didn't matter because it was just by emails, nothing would ever happen, it was just a scape of reality, a game.. she loves him a lot.. i don't know what to tell her. i'm her bestfriend i don't want to break her heart, but i personaly think she should break up with him .. what do u guys think??

okay well as hard as it may be to tell yourfriend bout this i think u should in tha long run your friend will thank you she will most likely be sad and outta it fa a while but jus be sure that you are there fa her

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Hey, this guy told me how much he really liked me the other day and I turned him down because I wanted to be single but now he is goin out with my best friend and I changed my mind I think I'm jealous, but what should I do

well not to be rude or anything but there is nothin really you can do...dont try ta get with him now bc u will just mess up things big time with your friend..the best thing that you should do is just try and find someone else or just stay single...thats reallii all you can do

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What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self??

I think that you should tell him because you never know if he likes you...n the sooner the better because he might get over you while you are workin up the guts to tell him so i think ur best bet would be to tell him SOON

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i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?

well if you dont like him i dont think that you should like go out with him or lead him on in any way. you should tell him how you feel about him now and tell him that you to can be friends...you never know you might start to like him again...

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