Hi, my name is Krista and I go to Christiana High School. I LOVE sports and music and I'm pretty good at giving any kind of information. I hope you find the advice I give helpful, because i love to help people, that's why I do this. If you need imediat help try my Im that's on there or my e-mail I check it 2-3 times a day, I check this everyday to but i check my e-mail more often! Hope your days great.
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I AM SO DANG CONFUSED?!!!!!!! I mean really..I love my boyfriend I really do..but lately weve been doing nothing but fighting and he doesn't try to help the situtation..and I haven't talked to him at all in three days..no answer at his house...either house. I mean it really sucks all my friends think Im being hurt too much by him..then again if I lose him Ill just hurt more HELP HELP HELP!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Yes i know you hurt, and that you love him alot but the more you fight with him the more you will hurt! I think you should do what'll stop the hurt... not make it worse, like continueing the fighting, just stop fighting! I think it'll just make your life so much easier and better!
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Last night i had a dream that i went to school and my ex boyfriend was at my school. But he doesn't go to my school. All of my friends had lunch with us, before homeroom started. I was then late for hr and got in trouble. I broke both of my legs at the knee and had to walk up stairs. I'm totally confused and i want to know what this dream means. Can u atleast take a guess at it? -Confused Monkey- (link)
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I could take a guess at it but I'm afraid it might not do much good! I think it means that somethings still going on in your mind about this guy... wether it be he did something nasty to you and you hate him or whatever but it's porbublly that you want to straighten things out. Or maybe it's trying to give you a message I'm not sure... sorry-krsita
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ok...well i have this friend that likes a friend of mine and i know they like this friend but there afraid to admit that they do..and i use to date this person that my friend likes and i know they like him and then i think that he also likes her. But i still kinda like him. Though I really want my friend to be happy, but I have a feeling that this situation of a friend dating and x of mine..would kinda bother me..and i would get annoyed..but i WANT them to be happy...and i want to do whats right..but i dont want to lose this friend no matter what..
Can you help with this???? I NEED IT!
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If you think you'll feel uncomfortable then tell your friend, they might get upset but if they are really your friends they'll understand. Also if your broken up then try to get over your ex. They shouldn't not be able to go out because of you but they should consider your feelings. If they do go out and your uncomfotable try to make the best of it. It'll all work out. Hope this works out for you!-Krista
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Well there are these 2 boys i like ..but neither of them know i like them...and they both have girlfrineds..should i tell them that i like them an maybe then the'll get wit me..or should i wait until they brake up with there gurlfriends..?? :(
Help ..i rate realli good (link)
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Well, You shouldn't ry and break them up with there girls but I understand it's hard to watch someone else get what you want! Tell them you like them, let them know and if they like you back you can't help that! It's not your fault if they break up with there girlfriend for you! But don't sabatouge it!(Sorry for the spelling!) Just sit back and relax, if it's meant to be they'll come to you!-Krista
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why in the hell does no guy like me? I like them and they dont like me back..ever..like ever..and the guys that do like me are not right for me...mainly no one likes me....why..why is it that everytime i like a guy he never likes me back...WHAT CAN I DO?!...its making me so damn lonely and depressed!
oh ok..um um..im 15 and im female
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OK well you cant really make guys like you, trust me I've tried and it dosn't work. The right guy will come along one day and it'll be great, you just have to be yourself and don't be to picky about who you date. Don't sit there and date some drug addict and get involved with the wrong crowd but just don't set the bar to high so NO guys can jump over it! trust me, it'll make it alot easier to find a guy that way. And don't just look for guys in your school, go around your neighborhood, or go to the mall! Take some inishitive also (sorry about my spelling) go up to a guy and set down the law. Say listen I like you and I want to know now (don't be mean but don't let him say I'll think about it) just get him to give you and answer when you ask him. And if he says no try not to wheep for to long, move on to the next guy and keep goin until you find someone you like and give it some time to grow into a relationship. Don't rush things. You'll be fine. Hope this all works out for you and good luck witgh your man hunt.-Krista
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i broke up with my ex about a month ago and i've gotten over him and i like this boy in my gym class but hes white and one of my friends say dont do it but shes white to. i dont really konw how to ask him Because im not that thin so how do i go about askin him out (link)
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it dosn't matter if your thin or not thin, a guy should like you for who you are and what your like. You should get to know him more before you ask him out and then get up the courage to ask him out. If he says no that's his problem not yours! Your worth it! No matter what!-Krista
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mmk buddy, i got a smidge of a prob. i like this sophomore, dan, and he likes me. i like being around him..you know i get that stupid gushy feeling inside. problem with him is that i can barely hold a conversation with him; we dont know that much about each other. as well as dan i like a freshman (who you probably know), eric. eric ALSO likes me. (im like pimpin it lol). i like talking to eric, its great to actually be able to hold a conversation. so basically, im physically attracted to dan but mentally attracted to eric. both of them plan on asking me out soon, and im torn between the two. idk who to pick. i hate this, i always get myself into these situations. give me some advice on what i should do, it would be much appreciated.
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Ok I know that both of these guys would be great with you! But I want you to think about this. Who do you like more. Make a pros and cons list and think of everything you like and dislike about Dan and Eric! This is a hard decission I know and you'll have a tough time with this, I know you your a "everything works which should I go with" kinda person! So just list some things and it'll come to you, but do it soon so you got it done b4 they ask you out!
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Hi,
I don't know where to begin. At the moment I am in a state of flux, I seem to be either terribly depressed and generally fed up, or just downright angry. I've been with my partner for approx 8.5years, and like most we've had our ups and downs. He's a good deal older than me, however i've never saw that as an issue, apart from when his kids have tried to split us up. All his kids are now over 16, however he has one adult son, who's now 30, who for want of a better phrase is just a bad lot. He is periodically in and out of jail and until a few months ago, his father had little if no contact with him. However his girlfriend has just had a baby and it's all changed, again i seem to have been pushed aside and I resent it like hell, particularly when the baby has now been taken into care and the son has been proven to be up to his old tricks again. I can't cope with this, I just feel so unloved and miserable and constantly seem to be picking fights with my partner. It's stressing him out, it's stressing me out and I think I'm turning into an alcoholic to boot. I hate him (the son), it's irrational and nasty but i can't help it. He tried to split us up years ago and I just can't understand why his father can't see through him and understand how I feel. I try to tell him but just end up losing the plot, going off on one and then berate him (my partner) for even breathing. I think if he would just take me away for a few days and just get us out of this enviroment it might help, but it's like talking to a brick wall trying to get through to him. We don't even get 5mins alone at home as his 16 year old has moved in after getting into bother whilst living with his mum. I'm just sick of it all and realise I'm pushing my partner away but don't know what to do to stop myself from doing it. we've just had a noher fight and I've said some terrible things and to be honest I think this might actually be the last straw for him.
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Ok, I may only be 14 but god damn I know alot about pushing people away. Your partner is probublly so excited to have a grandson/granddaughter that he is forgetting that his son is doing no good! I would be excited to, but just try and get involved with him and the baby! I'm sorry the man you love has children whom don't want you to be together but it's not your fault and they're all grown up now and he may still love them and care for them but they're big boys and he can live his own life now! He's just tying to help just because his son is up to no good does NOT mean the poor baby should suffer! And for the other son. It still is his son and he's 16. He still wants to care for his son, his ex-wife or whatever may not be very likable or whatever but get to know his son, do family things and you all might just grow to be close. If you really need to cry or somthing go to a sibling mom or dad, or and Aunt or Uncle who will sit there and let you cry, get it all out, don't hold nothin back! and just try to accept that an older man will most likely come with a life attached that you will have to grow accustomed to!
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Hi! I'm Matt and I live in chicago! I just went to the movies with a few friends and I saw this girl who I used to have been MAJORLY crushin on her. Well, she was getting me super jealous by talking bout her friends and how cool THEY were and how hot THEY were! Not girl/friends but guys! That I knew! She seems to also be ignoring me kind of. Well, we dont go to the same schools and were about the same age. How can I get her to notice me and like me? By the way I think shes soo beautiful, funny, and when she talks to me nice. (link)
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Oh yea you got it bad, you ARE majorly crushin on this girl and trust me if she was "ignoring" you then she probublly notices you to! When you do see her just act cool, don't stare or drool or anything like that just be like "Hey" then pretend like you don't care. Ecnolige her so she knows that you see her but if she's sees that your not really smothering her with affection she might just turn around and say "Hey wait I thought he was like madly in love with me" and she might get jelous that your not really noticing her, but still noticing her at the same time. When girls aren't noticed they tend to start trying to be noticed... talking to you might be one of those drastic measures. Hope this has some sort of effect of how things work out... bets of wishes!-Krista
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Ok im a 14 year old teenage girl. Im so in love w. this kid that ive known for 3 years. We've been together off and on for the past 2 years, but hes put me through so much pain . But now the only time he talks to me is when he doesn't have a girlfriend or there arguing. A weekend before thanksgiving (when him nd his girlfriend had been broken up for 2 months) he told me he loved me nd he was sorry for all the pain he had put me through and he told me i was the only one he wanted to be with. He said he was glad he had someone that loved him nd always stuck by his side whenever he needed someone. We hung out for 2 weeks, talked all the time on the phone, told each other we loved each other ( which really i thought we did, i mean i really do love him) but then he stopped calling, and when i saw him he acted like nothing happened. Now we got into the biggest arguement nd he's back together w. his girlfriend. I love this kid so much - i would do anything for him nd he knows that. He knows he's the only thing on my mind 24/7. What should i do, should i give it time nd just let things work themselves out or should i just move on?? Please help !!! (link)
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I know that this is killing you and that your confused hurt and all of that and trust me I know it hurts because my ex did the same thing to me. Even if you don't believe it (which you probublly do, you sound like a smart girl) I've been there snd done all that, even got a postcard to prove it. Move on, find someone else... even if it's a rebond guy thats just getting you over this other guy. It took me almost 6 months to get over my guy and it SUCKED! but when I got a new guy I started to fall in love with him and pushed the other guy out of my mind. Just find a really close guy friend and start thinking about him, even if it's just friendly thoughts try it. It just might work. Hope this all works out for you, be strong you'll get through it and you deserve much better!
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Is it possible to change certain characteristics that you don't like about yourself? Recently there have been things that I've done that I normally wouldn't do that have made me and my bf get into fights. They're little fights, and we always end up resolving them, but in the end I feel like a complete idiot for making such a big deal out of certain things. I want to change the way I react to things, and the way I think about certain things. Do you think that's possible?? Any suggestions? (link)
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I think anythings possible if you have enough reason and enough will power to do it. If you really love this boy then you should try and stick with him. Now if it were something like you 2 were fighting about a hiarcut you got and you made a big deal about him not likeing it, then thats his problem but if it's something like he's making a joke and you take it seriouslly then lighting up would kinda be the way to go. I hope that it all works out for you to. Best of wishes.-Krista
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