Hey Y'all, i'm 16, from Indiana, pretty cool place....i'm a pretty normal girl...lol should have good advice?
Gender: Female
Location: Fishers, Indiana
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: idontcarebear46
Member Since: June 12, 2005
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ok, let me introduce myself, nd put sum rules, first nobody answer telling me to stop drinking or anything, because im sick of it. I wont put my name on because its confidential, and here i go. I live in toulouse france and i have a best friend called bobby-joe (we shall say). Bobby is mrs popular, and i've known her for a year now. And bit by bit i have quite simply fallen in love with her, now again nobody tell me how im not 'in love' trust me, i know, i cannot do anything without thinking of this girl. I do not go places unless she is going. i dont go online unless she's there. I dont call anyone but her, i save all my credit for texting her. I fail exams because im looking at her. Its too much, and she doesnt know, she thinks we are friends. We go to parties and things together and we have a fucking amazing time. I love spending time with her, and sometimes just for the night, if we have too much to drink then sumtimes it becomes more than a friendship, and to her it means nothing, but to me it makes my month. She just blames it on alcohol and keeps on thinking we're friends. I am a jealous friend but i think i am a good one. I talk to her about everything and she talks to me about everything. Problem is she has got a lot of people who fancy her and a boyfriend who is a fucking model and 2 years older. I've known her for a year but i feel as if my whole life evolves around her. She can control how i feel for days with a single word. Right now she just had a go at me about the main problem we have with our friendship, im over-possesive. last time i was with her we went to a fair and she got with another guy just because he came up to her and called her sexy, she barely new the guy. i got so angry and she knew it, later i tried to talk to her about it and she told me to fuck off that she was 16 and could make her own decisions. I hate it, i love her so much, i dont have time to explain why, but its about more than her looks, or even her obvious personality. I dont know how to tell her how i feel or how to explain it once i do. I just know that i cant keep being her friend. Eventiually we're gonna fall out of even that because im so obsesed with her and cant let her out of my site. I feel left out if she talks to someone else. Last weekend we spent friday together in a restaurant, then the saturday at a lake with some friends, then went to a party, had a bit to drink, got together and lay on a field for hours looking at stars and talking about things. I know i would be so happy with her. please somebody help me, i need a real answer to a real problem. (link)
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The first obvious question you need to answer is are you really willing to give up a friendship with her for a shot at a relationship? Then you basically have to tell her how you feel...and where you want it to go. It will be much easier to get things out in the open.
Good Luck!
Jersey
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I will attempt to void being cliche' in this question. More often then not I know most of you are tired ( I know I am) of people asking "ok so theirs this boy, and im this gurl, ummmm ok soo ". Most of the time the question asker cant even spell the most simple of words as in the example above. However this is certinly not meant to be an attack on the question askers, more to just make you aware I am not the typical demographic. All said here is the question that seems so trivial.- I ask, What is the legall age of consent in most states. I grew concerned about this recently due to the fact that a considerably younger female approached myself Via internet, and lied about her age.(stated she was 17, later I found out she was 15). Also it might prove helpfull to know that I am a 19 yr old male, about to turn 20. Im a model so this kind of thing has happened before however for some reason it hasnt bothered me until now. So in recap, if anyone knows the legall age of consent, or the law stating adults and minors please add your advice. Gratfully yours. (link)
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Uh-Oh! In most states, anyone under 16 is illegal to do anything with another person over 18 (i.e. kiss, sex, whatever) once they turn 16 they are legal i THINK to do anything but have sex (once again, this probably varies from state to state)You should be cautious here for a couple reasons...if the girl's parents do not know, they could potentially file a lawsuit, or if you WERE to do something with her and then break up she could potentially file for statutory rape. My best advice here would be to stay away from that kind of situation...
Good Luck!
Jersey
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im 14 almost 15 and im a girl alrite well im going out with this guy and i've never really kissed anyone well little pecks with an ex bf and those weren't great but when he went to kiss me he had his mouth wide open and just went for it not a french kiss but ya know wut i mean..anyways i didnt kiss him back cuz i have no idea how to kiss..i need major help cuz i really like this guy and im embaressed to tell him why i didnt kiss him back and i really dont wanna lose him but i do need to know how to kiss..so in that situation how am i suppose to kiss (link)
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Scary stuff huh?¿ haha, really, as odd as it sounds, it just comes naturally. Chances are, the guy you are with is either A. not experience either and won't know what a "good" kisser is or B. Experienced and willing to show you the ropes but thw wide open mouth thing is a bit intimidating...not to mention a total turn-off! Just go for it and let it come naturally, there are bad kissers that are boys, but there is no such thing as a bad kisser that's a girl!
Good Luck!
Jersey
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i know this is really dumb, but i REALLY need advice. okay well recently on myspace i got a message from this guy who was really hot and he thought i was hot, so we exchanged AIM screen names and were talking like all the time. then eventually we started calling each other and now i talk to him online & on the phone every single day. i'm starting to develop feelings for him and i don't want to. there is no chance or future for us, he lives across the country from me! i don't want to stop talking to him though because he is really sweet and funny. is there something wrong with me for liking him? is there any way i can continue talking to him without liking him like THAT ?? please help im going crazy (link)
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Ah, the age old question of internet relationships...i have a friend who is VERY into this and actually ended up roping me into one...i understand how you feel, only this guy lived in IRELAND (the accent on the phone was what got me!)anyways, while there may not be a future love life here, you should stay friends, my friend has people all over the country who she has become very close with, and who knows? maybe if you stay friends long enough you'll meet one day!
Good Luck!
Jersey
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I hope I'm just being nervous and paranoid. I pray to God that I am.
But me and my boyfriend were having sex last night, and when he pulled out, the condom came off in me.
How..I don't know.
But he had already busted..so...u get my drift. I'm pretty much done for..aren't I? (link)
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Well, it all depends on how close you are to your period. Contrary to popular belief, you can only get pregnant a few days out of the month, only a day or two before your period. If you were close, I would get a test, if not, then you should be fine.
Good Luck!
Jersey
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My boyfriend's mom is such a BITCH. I know that sounds mean, but its the truth. He broke up w/ me and we got back together. We are together now but I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks because everytime I call she is like he's out side mowing the grass. I called 2 days ago and she said he's outside mowing the grass. I call back 3 hrs. later and she starts yelling I TOLD YOU HE'S OUTSIDE! I am very sensitive and I was like like ok. (I almost cried because she keeps yelling at me) I called back today and she said HE'S MOWING THE GRASS! Is there a way he can find out his mom is being mean to me without me telling him? If I tell him he'll tell his mom. (link)
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Well, you don't want to seem like you are over reacting so i would suggest maybe hanging out at his house (ahh! scary, i know!) while his mom is there to see how she acts and hopefully it will begin to show the way she treats you in front of him!
Good Luck!
Jersey
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I am 13 and I have never kissed anyone. I know that I want too, but I want it to be sweet and romantic. I have thought about this for a LONG time (ever since I turned 11) I want a romantic first kiss, like a walk in the park or something and then we just kiss. I need to know about 5 things though. (1) I have braces, will our lips get hung together or something? (2) I ALSO have a herpz appliance in my mouth!!! Will THAT get our lips caught together? (3) How do you kiss? I mean whats the most sweetest way to kiss without making out? (4) Where is a romantic date? I can go to the movies or somewhere like that? I don't have any parks where I live. (5) Whats a good type of clothing, earrings, etc. to where? I REALLY NEED A GIRL'S ADVICE! (link)
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(1)/(2) neither will get in the way as long as you aren't like knocking teeth... (3)without getting too technical..there are just a few key points..close your eyes! either focus on putting your partner's either top or bottom lip in between yours (4) hmmm toughie...fourth of july is coming up! any fireworks show would be great...if not, anytime outdoors at night, with stars (5) try wearing your hair down...and wear whatever makes you feel beautiful and makes you confident, guys like confident girls
Good Luck!
Jersey
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